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The Book Party

A Book Friend Stopped By | 09/12/2008 2:00 pm

Emma Gilbey Keller on Motherhood, Careers and Sarah Palin

By Emma Gilbey Keller
Photo: Mary Pfaff
Gov. Palin is in many ways a new kind of woman candidate for public office — or at least new to the national, presidential stage. Most women politicians of the past decade or two have fought to be judged for their professional qualifications. They offered their families as image-softeners, giving personal narratives voters could identify with, but they generally did not offer motherhood as a qualification. Palin does. Her hockey mom personal narrative is used to demonstrate that she gets the concerns and shares the values of ordinary (non-elite) Americans. Her ability to juggle a BlackBerry and a breast pump, to dismiss the chef and chauffeur, to be governor and the CEO of the Palin family, is all put forth as evidence of impressive managerial skills. Her decision to proceed with a Down syndrome pregnancy — and her daughter’s decision to proceed with her own pregnancy and marry the guy — are put forth as evidence of the Palin character and the sincerity of Palin convictions. She has made motherhood an essential part of her campaign resume.

Yet the McCain/Palin campaign has tried to have it both ways: She’s the family-values candidate, but you’re a sexist if you examine her family values.

I don’t want to have to assess Gov. Palin’s maternal qualities as part of her resume. It makes me (and women generally) uncomfortable to be judged as mothers by pundits. I think we’ve had more than enough of being judged in this way. But Gov. Palin has created a political dynamic where it is essential to do that. She has forced the issue. Whether this is a service to women trying to balance their work and family lives is a fair question, but it’s not a question we can avoid.


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katywon LA..
You are so right about not criticizing other mothers. But the Sarah Palin argument is not about her as a mother. The debate is whether she can be a good president if necessary. She will learn. Obviously she is smart and able to adjust to many situations. Would she be able to stand toe to toe with Putin? How much does she know about the middle East? The presidency is not a learning on the job experience. John McCain should live to be 100 plus but who knows what will happen. The vice president should be someone with experience, Long live Governor Palin and John McCain. My the best man or woman win.
By katywon LA.. on 09/12/2008 1:22 pm
Chris Broersma
Though I will not vote for the Republicans, I am for the right that was exercised by Governor Palin when she willingly joined the Republican ticket. She knows what she can handle and personally after dealing with a really well organized power mom at our church who does almost everything at church and works too, I have to say let’s not pre-judge what she can and cannot do on the job! (Personally, I could not have done it, but that is only me!!!)
By Chris Broersma on 09/12/2008 2:06 pm
Pamela Detlor
I have no issue with the mother of five holding political office IF she’s qualified for the office she holds. The fact that Palin and the Republican campaign are pimping her children to sell her virtue is a little much. Then to scream, “Leave the children out of it,” every time something is said about the children - which is not favorable to Palin’s image, is getting tired. I will not judge her as a mother - I have no doubt she loves her children. There are things she’s done that I wouldn’t do. But every parent is different. Technically, I’ve never given birth or adopted, so I’m not a mother. However, I have had a rotating cast of 13 young gay men (18-22) live with me over the past three years. My role has been very parental. There are rules, there are lectures. My mothers words come out of my mouth constantly (which was quite disturbing in the beginning). I would never advise 17 -18 year-olds to get married. Having a baby at that age will be hard enough. Throwing a marriage (which is likely to fail) into the mix is a lot of pressure for a child of 17. Again - this is not a judgement of Palin as a mother - this is my opinion about a situation that is too much too soon. If the Republicans want the “mom” stuff to stop coming up Palin has to stop marketing her soldier son, pregnant daughter, and special needs baby! We get it: You’re every woman - now prove that you have the political experience to sit in the second most powerful chair in the free world! I don’t think Palin even comes close to having what the job requires. This has nothing to do with being a mother - it has to do with lack of experience and extreme beliefs.
By Pamela Detlor on 09/13/2008 2:16 pm
Jackie Sanders
Well, the ABC interview put a serious buzzkill on my sense of humor about all of this…..there seems to be some strange disconnect here…I have heard very few people ACTUALLY criticizing Sarah Palin for her mothering skills — and a multitude of people SAYING that she’s being criticized and judged for her parental choices. What I mostly hear and read are echos of my own thoughts and that is that Palin is MASSIVELY UNQUALIFIED to serve in the second highest position in this country. The discussions should be about whether she has EVER studied law, foreign relations, economics or government, which are the important questions here and I can’t even believe that the women in this country are being distracted by the Republican Party into an argument over whether we think her parenting obligations will be in jeopardy. What about our NATION being in jeopardy because we’ve elected unqualified government officials? I know that the Republicans never want to be bothered with the facts — but she is a completely ridiculous choice. I am, obviously, a Democrat…but we certainly wouldn’t be dealing with all of these distractions if McCain had chosen a qualified running mate from his party. What an insult to women like Olympia Snowe, Kay Bailey Hutchison and Christine Whitman…three exceptionally qualified women, with whom I often disagree, but with whom I would have no misgivings whatsoever about their readiness for the job of Vice President.
By Jackie Sanders on 09/13/2008 10:44 pm
Sherrie Crews
Well, the ABC interview put a serious buzzkill on my sense of humor about all of this…..there seems to be some strange disconnect here…I have heard very few people ACTUALLY criticizing Sarah Palin for her mothering skills — and a multitude of people SAYING that she’s being criticized and judged for her parental choices. ” By Jackie Sanders on 09/13/2008 10:44 pm Precisely Jackie. It’s just like all that hoopla about what was supposedly rampant speculation about the true mother of that baby. I didn’t hear anything about it, all I heard was people saying that the speculation was happening. Sarah Palin is the latest WMD (weapon of mass distraction) and she has about as much substance as the previous one that was used to start an unjust war.
By Sherrie Crews on 09/15/2008 8:40 am
rocky rocky
Weapon of mass distraction — did you coin that Sherrie? Very very good!
By rocky rocky on 09/15/2008 4:11 pm