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The Book Party

A Book of One's Own | 10/21/2008 8:45 am

Suffering From Bad News Overload? Read These!

By Roxanne J. Coady

Editor’s Note: Roxanne J. Coady founded R.J. Julia Booksellers in Madison, CT, in 1989 after leaving her job as national tax director at a New York-based international accounting firm. Roxanne is the co-editor, with Joy Johannessen, of The Book That Changed My Life. Visit R.J. Julia at www.rjjulia.com.

I don’t know about you but I am suffering from Bad News Overload. Given that I’m an information addict who reads two or three newspapers a day, subscribes to dozens of magazines, watches CNN daily, Jon Stewart nightly and gets an endless stream of news via NPR, this suggests drastic action. If you are feeling the same way, here are two remedies that might help. One is dancing — you know, the kind with a big band that has trumpets and saxophones, the sort you’d see at a huge wedding or bar mitzvah. But without the bride, groom and bar mitzvah kid, of course; you want to do this alone, in your own living room, at the time of your choosing. The other remedy is books that are smartly written, witty, distracting and utterly engaging.

I can’t help you with the dancing but can suggest some books that might help.

Start with the classic, hilarious story of an irrepressible, charming 21-year-old girl heading to Paris for romance and adventure. It has been variously described as “Daisy Miller with a dash of Fear of Flying," "My Sister Eileen meets "Sex and the City" and “Holly Golightly crossed with the naive knowingness of Holden Caulfield.” The book is The Dud Avocado by Elaine Dundy, first published in 1958 and just reissued by New York Review of Books Classics. From the first page I was charmed by Ms. Dundy’s sharp writing, piercing insights and tenderness in telling the story of our innocent abroad. I guarantee you will forget the world as you whip through this gem.

(Dud Avocado, by the way, prompted me to pick up The Great Gatsby again and it’s fascinating  to read Fitzgerald’s classic in these troubled financial times. Treat yourself to a reread.)

And speaking of "Sex and the City," Candace Bushnell has written a great introduction to a reissue of  Gentlemen Prefer Blondes: The Illuminating Diary of a Professional Lady by Anita Loos in which heroine Lorelei Lee — a not-so-dumb blonde — keeps a marvelous, colorful, funny diary of her life during the Jazz Age in Paris, Vienna and London. H.L. Mencken said “it filled me with uproarious and salubrious mirth.” Me too. Treat yourself to this one, too.

Why do we like to read about perfect families falling apart? I will leave that one to the psychiatrists, but in the meantime recommend When We Were Bad by Charlotte Mendelson. Her perfect family, the Rubins, are brilliant, successful and close; they are the envy of London. Until, that is, the eldest son bolts from his own wedding to run off with the wife of the officiating Rabbi. This leads to the unraveling of life as they have known it, aided and abetted by ruinous gossip, secrets and misplaced desire. Sounds like it might be depressing but Mendelson is smart, witty and satirical as she describes how this complicated, colorful family traverses the world of English Jewry and Anglican Culture. You can understand why the novel was short-listed for the prestigious Orange Prize.

After reading all four books I came back to the semi-real-world with The Paris Review Interviews, Volume II, edited by Philip Gourevitch. It’s perfect to dip into: We hear from Graham Greene on the impact of Catholicism on his writing; Gabriel Garcia Marquez talking about dreams and inspiration; and Eudora Welty offering her thoughts about Chekhov. This volume also includes interviews with James Thurber, Toni Morrison, William Faulkner, Robert Lowell and a dozen others. It’s a delicious little treasure of interviews that reminds me of dozens more books that I want to read.

After this sojourn I am now a happy girl, re-armed and ready to reenter the real world.  But I may carry these books with me for a few more weeks, just for protection.

Happy reading!

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f p
Eudora Welty—now there is a writer i dearly love—her short stories are among the finest in the land, equal with John Cheever’s, Caroline Gordon’s, John Updike’s and Hemingway’s. Now there are four aces for you :-)
By f p on 10/21/2008 11:16 am
Dab-a- do
Rabbit —-couldn’t put the books down. My brother said that he was surprised to find Hemingway’s books on my shelves, said most women didn’t care for him that much. Well, I did.
By Dab-a- do on 10/22/2008 12:55 am
f p
Hemingway’s short stories are unparalleled IMO. The Rabbit Books by Updike are marvellous but my fav of Updike’s are his short stories, esp. The Music Room, and The Centaur the novel he wrote with a mythological theme. Lovely book.
By f p on 10/22/2008 1:16 am
joan larsen
f p —— You always like “the small world” theme … so I will tell you that one of my childhood friends, Mary Pennington, was John Updike’s first wife. It’s been a long time, but I think they had 4 kids. We both went the the University of Chicago Laboratory School, but she disappeared completely off the alum radar screen afterwards. Wonder if she is alive — been a long while since I have thought of her — and him.
By joan larsen on 10/23/2008 2:06 pm
f p
Joanee—yes I remember reading about her—
By f p on 10/23/2008 2:09 pm
Dab-a- do
How am I going to find the time to read everything? My problem is once I start a book I don’t want to sleep or do anything else until I finish it. But short stories might be the answer. Thanks for the recommendations.
By Dab-a- do on 10/23/2008 7:41 pm
f p
Shoot! Make that 5 aces: Elizabeth Spenser’s stories are marvels also. And she gave us A Light in the Piazza too.
By f p on 10/21/2008 11:18 am
Susan Gabriel
Books truly are the answer for information overload, campaign burnout, et al. I’ve been reading a lot more than usual myself. Especially fiction. There’s nothing like escaping into a really good story. Here’s one you might want to check out, too: www.SeekingSaraSummers.com
By Susan Gabriel on 10/22/2008 3:55 pm
joan larsen
As this is a women’s site, what better book to recommend for Fall than September Songs: The Good News About Marriage in the Later Years. Just about all of us are between 50 and 80, knowing that there is a good chance we will be living so much longer than our parents did. I don’t have to tell you that long marriages change over time, and author Maggie Scarf, a Yale fellow and journalist, is a pro in interviewing couples in depth on how their relationships have changed over the years. The end result is a revealing study of older couples, long marriages, and how each have weathered difficulties of retirement, health, sexual activity, finances, children, disappointments and regrets . . . and I know I have left some topics out. . but Scarf is very thorough in interviewing and great at opening up conversations between man and woman that never may have been openly addressed before. I found September Songs (love the title) to be a topic that has been little covered in the past, and let’s us look in to the things that make up an enduring marriage. It’s new and a worthwhile read.
By joan larsen on 10/23/2008 12:42 am
Misty Gibbs
I couldn’t agree more about bad news overload! Thank you for compiling this list for us. Another useful resource for discovering great books is the Book Lounge at MyInspirationLounge.com! The vision of the site is to empower women through inspiration and the right information. http://www.myinspirationlounge.com/recommendations/the-book-lounge.html Happy Friday! Misty with My Inspiration Lounge http://www.myinspirationlounge.com
By Misty Gibbs on 10/24/2008 11:15 am
Susan B
I’m already well into “The Dud Avocado” and I’m loving it. Nice escape, to be sure.
By Susan B on 10/31/2008 4:42 pm
Deshaun S
In this most difficult of economic times, where the world economy seeing its worst nightmares come true. We must learn certain basic life principle that can go along the way that will help one in having a peaceful and fulfilling life even the economic situation gets worsen and worsen. It is just a normal tendency for each one if us to think something for future especially when it comes to financial issue. While the House and Senate debate a bonus tax on bailed out companies, Wal Mart is doing just fine. If it passes the bonus tax won’t apply to Wal Mart.  Wal Mart, the perennial retail heavyweight champion, has actually posted a pretty good year, and that’s the reason they’re giving cash advances out to their employees, down to the lowly stock people and cashiers.  While larger firms invest a lot of money to make it look like they really do something, Wal Mart has actually done the work and posted profits.  They shouldn’t have to pay a bonus tax.
By Deshaun S on 03/28/2009 4:38 am