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Conversation | 07/18/2008 10:30 am

HBO Executive Producer Sheila Nevins on the Making of 'Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal'

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LILY: She is like this bird that’s caged, this bird that’s free, this bird that moved into this. I just thought that whole piece was beautiful.

SHEILA: She is beautiful, isn’t she?

LILY: Yeah. I fell in love with her.

SHEILA: And when you meet her, you love her more, especially when you meet her sober. The sidebar of this whole thing is men are much more disappointed with this film than women are because they expect Heidi Fleiss as "the madam." They don’t expect Heidi Fleiss as "the bird."

LILY: They don’t want to see a woman that has to be taken care of in that position of supplying sex.

SHEILA: That’s right.

LILY: They don’t want somebody that’s vulnerable. They want someone that they can walk away from.

LIZ: That’s right.

SHEILA: You can’t walk away from this Heidi, the real Heidi. No, she’s a complicated, wonderful person.

LIZ: Sheila, how did you get Heidi to do this documentary after she spent some years of her life in prison? She was released in 1999 and you say she was running a lingerie shop in Hollywood.

Heidi really needs to be cured of her illness, because the rest of Heidi is magnificent. She’s a really nice human being.

SHEILA: She was trying to run a Heidi-wear store. She was trying to make money the right way, or whatever that’s called. And then she decided to go to Nevada, where all the things that she had done that were illegal in California were now legal, which was mainly prostitution. And she wanted to open a stud farm, a house of prostitution, where woman could go and be serviced by men – sort of to turn the tables. And everybody keeps getting in her way. She can’t get a license because she’s a convicted felon. She just can’t break through.

LIZ: I thought all of those neighbors of hers and the people in Nevada were meaner to her than anybody had ever been in California. I was stunned by the unneighborliness and the lack of love and help extended to her.

SHEILA: Nobody wanted to help her. But I think she really got her way because she opened a Laundromat called Dirty Laundry, which is such a brilliant idea. And she now wants to franchise it. She’s a really brilliant businesswoman. I mean, she got into prostitution because she was a babysitter and —

LILY: I know. I loved that she used to … I’m sorry. I shouldn’t interrupt you.

SHEILA: No, you tell the story. You tell it.

LILY: Because I used to broker out babysitting jobs, too; a couple of them. Because I lived in an apartment house and I would hire my two closest girlfriends, if I couldn’t handle all the babysitting jobs I got in a week. I would have them come in and fill in.


SHEILA: And that’s how Heidi decided to be a madam, really. Because it wasn’t that she was a great sexual creature because she says she’s really not interested in sex.

LIZ: Yeah, she said she’s the only one that will admit she gives bad blow jobs.

SHEILA: Yeah, she gives bad blow jobs. That’s what she says. I think she’s just not interested. I think she wants to make a lot of money. And when she was a teenager she had like three babysitting jobs at once. And so she decided to use her girlfriends. And she would match her girlfriends to the kind of person that needed a babysitter. So if they were compulsive and clean, she’d send her compulsively clean babysitter to go to them. And if the kid needed tutoring, she’d send that kind of babysitter to the other couple, or the other kids. So Heidi really ran a babysitting business. She booked babysitters when she was a teenager. And then, I guess, as she got older, the babies were grown up and she kind of moved into another business. But she used the same skill, the same smarts. She’s very smart. But I’m surprised nobody’s mentioned her drugs.

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phyllis Doyle Pepe
In 1998 the New Yorker featured a piece in which literary persons gave their take on the Clinton scandal. The following is from Louis Begley: I take as an unshakable postulate that for many men (though by no means all) the abject availability of woman makes her irresistible––the man’s *gout de la boue* [taste of the dirt] locks in. From then on, when she’s on hand, ready to be used however the man wants, it’s easier to separate two dogs in heat in an ally than to keep him off her. The President was a lost man, and naive to boot. Somewhere in the back of his head he must have the idea that you can trust little sluts. In fact, only great ladies and high priced whores know how to keep secrets.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/18/2008 10:57 am
Star Lawrence
What’s this thread have to do with Clinton?
By Star Lawrence on 07/18/2008 11:14 am
No Way-No How -No McCain
I thought that quote Phyllis provided was very enlightening, and true, and it is why women like Heidi can do such a bang-up business.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/18/2008 12:20 pm
Marjorie C.
Star: Indeed. That was quite a leap, but I guess we slip the political digs in where best we can. Now to get back to Heidi, so far I’m not understanding the fascination with the story. The video clip is showing an unkempt young woman obviously spaced out on something. If the documentary never names names, then there’s precious little of interest. Maybe other posters will speak on what I’m missing.
By Marjorie C. on 07/18/2008 12:31 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
My dear Star and Marjorie: You completely misunderstood my post. The quote was not at all a political dig at the Clintons; I loved Clinton–I voted for Hillary in the primary. During the scandal I was furious at the congress for what they did to this man––it was none of their damn business. My god, how many presidents had their so called “pussy pools” and the masses were kept in the dark. So knowing that reread it and connect it to the issue at hand. Thank you.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/18/2008 5:10 pm
Marjorie C.
phyllis: “In fact, only great ladies and high priced whores know how to keep secrets.” Is this the point you are making? That men should use professionals rather than office staff? If so, then I agree. If your point is that men have no control over their hormones, I somewhat agree with that, too. Although back in the day before reliable birth control, many, many young men solved their problems without resorting to rape or hired help. Perhaps a different male example would have kept me from leaping on the political bandwagon. No harm done.
By Marjorie C. on 07/19/2008 6:23 am
Mugsy Peabody
Has anyone else here heard of sex addiction?
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/20/2008 1:16 am
Dr. Mark Klein
Phyllis—After reading Obama’s books, strongly suspect he enjoys a loving long term relationship with a very well educated upscale discreet white woman.
By Dr. Mark Klein on 07/20/2008 10:53 am
Mugsy Peabody
Oh, come on, Duchess of Delete, please, please, pretty please? I mean, well, obviously, the first one would be, “Aha! At last, something Dr. Mark actually might have a working familiarity with! Prostitution!” Or… Okay, okay. I’ll at least try to be nice. For you.
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/20/2008 2:29 pm
Dr. Mark Klein
Mugsy—As if that was really so horribleI, I didn’t say Obama consorted with prostitutes. He wouldn’t be the first politician to find solace in the arms of a discreet loving mistress.
By Dr. Mark Klein on 07/20/2008 5:27 pm
DeBúrca obj
little sluts”? how disgusting to call a human being that.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/18/2008 12:51 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Surely, you can’t be serious.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/18/2008 5:12 pm
DeBúrca obj
I’m very serious.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/18/2008 7:53 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Slut: a slovenly or promiscuous woman Derivatives: Sluttish–adj. Sluttishness–noun Origin: Middle English of unknown origin It’s a word––to describe a certain kind of woman who displays a certain kind of behavior. I think it’s only used for human beings–never heard of a sluttish monkey––well, maybe I did. I’m wondering what word you would use to describe a young woman who, after delivering a pizza to the President of the US, picks up her skirt and flashes her buttocks encased in a G string.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/19/2008 8:13 am
DeBúrca obj
You can define it all you want, but it’s a sexist term that indicates a double standard and calling a woman that, is disgusting and archaic.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 2:03 pm