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Conversation | 07/18/2008 10:30 am

HBO Executive Producer Sheila Nevins on the Making of 'Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal'

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Editor’s Note: Demystifying the notorious “Hollywood Madam,” the exclusive HBO documentary, "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal," chronicles her ill-fated attempt to launch “Heidi’s Stud Farm” when it debuts Monday, July 21 (9 PM - 10:10 PM, ET/PT), exclusively on HBO. This film is part of the HBO Documentary Films summer series, which features a provocative new film every Monday night at 9PM through August 25.

LIZ: As the executive producer of world famous documentaries seen on HBO, why in the world did you choose a madam for your subject on television? And I am talking about Heidi Fleiss.

SHEILA: I had always been a fan of Nick Broomfield’s documentary on Heidi, which is now about ten years old. But I always wondered what happened to Heidi and I decided to find out. So I tracked her down to a lingerie shop in downtown Hollywood and that’s where I met Heidi about two or two-and-a-half years ago. She was fascinating. I never met a creature like that before. I never met anybody who was so wicked and at the same time wise.

Click here for a sneak preview of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal." 

LIZ: Yeah.

Heidi really needs to be cured of her illness, because the rest of Heidi is magnificent. She’s a really nice human being.

SHEILA: I thought if you were a bad girl, you’re bad all over. And if you were a business woman or a smart girl, you were smart all over. And I had never seen a contrast like Heidi. There are so many facets of her character and I identified with her also as a woman. And I wanted to find out about her. I wanted to know where she was at.

LIZ: My very vague remembrance is that my heart sort of went out to her and I felt I was on her side. I’m not much for seeing people put in jail for prostitution. And then she would not reveal the names of the men in her little black book.

SHEILA: Never has. It’s a kind of prostitution McCarthyism in the sense that she wouldn’t give names. And won’t. And doesn’t.

LIZ: OK. So let’s establish for people who don’t know about Heidi Fleiss, that in 1993 she went to prison on charges of money laundering, tax evasion, drug possession. And they gave her a term of 37 months. Am I correct in that?

SHEILA: That’s correct. Of which she served three years.

LIZ: They didn’t specifically charge her with prostitution …

SHEILA: Right.

LIZ: … though prostitution is illegal in California, isn’t it?

SHEILA: Yes.

LIZ: But it’s not illegal in Nevada?

SHEILA: Nope.

LIZ: OK.

SHEILA: Which is where Heidi now lives. She lives in Nevada

LIZ: Sheila, let me just ask you a hypothetical. Why do they always punish prostitutes and they very seldom punish the johns, or the men, who are doing business with them, Mr. Ordinary Joe? And, except for the governor of New York State, Eliot Spitzer, who seems like he came off worse than the women accusing him, why do they do this? Why do men escape the opprobrium of prostitution, since men are the purchasers of prostitution?

SHEILA: I don’t really know why. My heart went out to her, like you said — that thing about your heart going out to Heidi. Yet she’s not bitter. She’s, unfortunately, drugged a lot of the time. She uses substances and she admits it in the film. And she really needs to be rehabilitated. But some of my best friends have that problem. I mean, there was Heidi the sober woman in a nice Armani suit talking about business and doing things; and then there was Heidi the drug addict. And then there was Heidi the environmentalist and the bird lover.

LILY: That whole bird metaphor was just so incredible.

LIZ: We need to explain the birds.

SHEILA: Go ahead and do it.

LIZ: Heidi moves to Nevada and she buys property next to a very old lady, who is described as a madam. And the old lady collects these rare, fabulous cockatoos and cockatiels and wonderful birds that talk. Heidi becomes involved with these birds and when the woman dies, she’s left the birds and she goes on to care for them in a really exaggerated, wonderful way. That’s what Lily means by the birds being a metaphor.

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phyllis Doyle Pepe
Since you never answered my question, I presume you don’t have another word for “sluttish ” behavior. I don’t consider it a sexist word at all; I think it depicts accurately certain types of female behavior. The word that I do think is sexist and vulgar and disgusting is the word Cunt when used in a derogatory way. I’m not sure what you mean by a “double standard.” Are you suggesting we don’t have words for males that exploit and seduce? The list is endless.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/19/2008 5:01 pm
DeBúrca obj
It depicts certain types of behavior that when present in a FEMALE is referred to as “sluttish”. That makes it sexist.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 7:00 pm
DeBúrca obj
OK, you give me a single term that applies to a male exhibiting the exact same behavior that is equally negative.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 7:02 pm
Frank Peterson
ass**** ??? That’s the term I’d use with a graphic adjective before it.
By Frank Peterson on 07/19/2008 7:31 pm
DeBúrca obj
ass****? Nope. Nowhere near equal to slut. I mean, you can call a guy that just for cutting you off in traffic. Not as big of a put down or complete dismisal, not the negative sexual connotation… not much worse than “jerk”.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 8:40 pm
Josie Sullivan
Hey wait a minute… I’ve heard of men that were sluts….mostly gay men.
By Josie Sullivan on 07/22/2008 7:52 pm
DeBúrca obj
Phyllis, You know why there’s no equivalent word for a man who fits the definition you give for “slut”? Because, no matter what their sexual behavior, men are not defined that way. That is where the double standard begins. That is why the term “slut” is sexist and disgusting.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 8:53 pm
DeBúrca obj
… and outdated. It belongs in the 50s.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 8:55 pm
Frank Peterson
You’re right—but it does get the job done on occasion lol er a**hole. that is.
By Frank Peterson on 07/19/2008 10:19 pm
Frank Peterson
Phyllis is was originally applied to a kitchen maid in the late middle ages—hence you get slut’s wool for those little balls of dust you occasionally seen under beds :-) And just throwing this out mind you but I would call a woman who upon delivering a pizza to POTUS, lifting her skirts and flashing her ass a Monica, except it would offend too many by the name, or delightful as the case may be lol
By Frank Peterson on 07/19/2008 6:13 pm
No Way-No How -No McCain
I remember her case vaguely and think it is horrible that for the most part women are the ones prosecuted. Why doesn’t Heidi just move to Amsterdam where prostitution is legal? If some states would legalize pot they’d empty prisons and have money to build much better schools. And if they legalized prostitution they’d reduce many of the periphery crimes. I see Heidi as emblematic of how even smart, strategic people can be myopic. She’s fighting what she sees as antiquated laws (ie prostitution used to be practiced as a sacred art in civilizations a lot more civilized than ours) and presents a rather slovenly, drug-devolved appearance. Without judging her, because she is smart, likable and kind in many ways i.e. the birds, her existence really isn’t a healthy one. And in that sense it is sad because she obviously has many talents that could apply to healthier, safer enterprises. I see more prison time and a sad end for this lady. On this I hope to be proven very wrong.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/18/2008 12:16 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Thank you, Suzanne, for this summary of a woman who obviously has skills and imagination plus, perhaps, a tender heart, but something in her prevents those attributes to flourish in a positive way.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/18/2008 5:19 pm
Frank Peterson
Phyllis—it’s called money—lots of money—running high-class prostitutes and that is what she did—to make it anything other than that is hardly correct, given her obvious business sense.. That’s why an establishment like hers needs to be legalized and inspected medically weekly. AS for the men who use her ‘services”, they are being arrested much more frequently than they used to which clogs up the courts even more—legalize it.
By Frank Peterson on 07/19/2008 7:58 pm
Frank Peterson
Did all of you know that the US has more persons in prison than any other western country—by a high proportion and too many of them are there on drug possession—-I’m not talking heavy drugs—I’m talking marijuana—they should be released; prison crowding would go down for the real criminals in our society. In other words legalize marijuana.
By Frank Peterson on 07/19/2008 8:13 pm
DeBúrca obj
What makes her so smart? She saw an opportunity and grabbed it, doing something most ppl would have stayed away from. I’m not saying she’s stupid, but I just don’t get all the talk about her being so smart. Yes, she made a lot of money in a business most ppl wouldn’t consider going into, but balanced with all the other bad choices and the fact that she’s just pushing for this new thing that doesn’t look like it’s going anywhere but she won’t move on makes me wonder how smart she really is.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/19/2008 8:50 pm