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Conversation | 07/18/2008 10:30 am

HBO Executive Producer Sheila Nevins on the Making of 'Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal'

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Editor’s Note: Demystifying the notorious “Hollywood Madam,” the exclusive HBO documentary, "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal," chronicles her ill-fated attempt to launch “Heidi’s Stud Farm” when it debuts Monday, July 21 (9 PM - 10:10 PM, ET/PT), exclusively on HBO. This film is part of the HBO Documentary Films summer series, which features a provocative new film every Monday night at 9PM through August 25.

LIZ: As the executive producer of world famous documentaries seen on HBO, why in the world did you choose a madam for your subject on television? And I am talking about Heidi Fleiss.

SHEILA: I had always been a fan of Nick Broomfield’s documentary on Heidi, which is now about ten years old. But I always wondered what happened to Heidi and I decided to find out. So I tracked her down to a lingerie shop in downtown Hollywood and that’s where I met Heidi about two or two-and-a-half years ago. She was fascinating. I never met a creature like that before. I never met anybody who was so wicked and at the same time wise.

Click here for a sneak preview of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal." 

LIZ: Yeah.

Heidi really needs to be cured of her illness, because the rest of Heidi is magnificent. She’s a really nice human being.

SHEILA: I thought if you were a bad girl, you’re bad all over. And if you were a business woman or a smart girl, you were smart all over. And I had never seen a contrast like Heidi. There are so many facets of her character and I identified with her also as a woman. And I wanted to find out about her. I wanted to know where she was at.

LIZ: My very vague remembrance is that my heart sort of went out to her and I felt I was on her side. I’m not much for seeing people put in jail for prostitution. And then she would not reveal the names of the men in her little black book.

SHEILA: Never has. It’s a kind of prostitution McCarthyism in the sense that she wouldn’t give names. And won’t. And doesn’t.

LIZ: OK. So let’s establish for people who don’t know about Heidi Fleiss, that in 1993 she went to prison on charges of money laundering, tax evasion, drug possession. And they gave her a term of 37 months. Am I correct in that?

SHEILA: That’s correct. Of which she served three years.

LIZ: They didn’t specifically charge her with prostitution …

SHEILA: Right.

LIZ: … though prostitution is illegal in California, isn’t it?

SHEILA: Yes.

LIZ: But it’s not illegal in Nevada?

SHEILA: Nope.

LIZ: OK.

SHEILA: Which is where Heidi now lives. She lives in Nevada

LIZ: Sheila, let me just ask you a hypothetical. Why do they always punish prostitutes and they very seldom punish the johns, or the men, who are doing business with them, Mr. Ordinary Joe? And, except for the governor of New York State, Eliot Spitzer, who seems like he came off worse than the women accusing him, why do they do this? Why do men escape the opprobrium of prostitution, since men are the purchasers of prostitution?

SHEILA: I don’t really know why. My heart went out to her, like you said — that thing about your heart going out to Heidi. Yet she’s not bitter. She’s, unfortunately, drugged a lot of the time. She uses substances and she admits it in the film. And she really needs to be rehabilitated. But some of my best friends have that problem. I mean, there was Heidi the sober woman in a nice Armani suit talking about business and doing things; and then there was Heidi the drug addict. And then there was Heidi the environmentalist and the bird lover.

LILY: That whole bird metaphor was just so incredible.

LIZ: We need to explain the birds.

SHEILA: Go ahead and do it.

LIZ: Heidi moves to Nevada and she buys property next to a very old lady, who is described as a madam. And the old lady collects these rare, fabulous cockatoos and cockatiels and wonderful birds that talk. Heidi becomes involved with these birds and when the woman dies, she’s left the birds and she goes on to care for them in a really exaggerated, wonderful way. That’s what Lily means by the birds being a metaphor.

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DeBúrca obj
I have never understood the stigma surrounding prostitution. People prositute themselves everyday in the business world, politics, the media especially. You see these talk show hosts interviewing prostitutes, and asking them questions about how they can do such a thing, etc., yet talk show hosts are the worst prostitutes of all! Just think of Jerry Springer, Maury Povich, and Geraldo Rivera during his show… hookers all three.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/18/2008 12:47 pm
Blue Circle Girl
TRUE! So true! Many a housewife prostitute themselves to their husbands for a new dinette set!
By Blue Circle Girl on 07/18/2008 4:23 pm
No Way-No How -No McCain
So right Phyllis and De Burca….she’s just honest about what she does…unlike a good percentage of Congress and their K-Street paymasters.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/19/2008 9:13 am
Frank Peterson
De Burca: prostitution has been stigmatized for at least 2 millenia +, probably much longer in western society. Case in point: Mary Magdalene, Miryam of Magdala—she wasn’t a prostitute by accounts given in the Gnostic gospels; if anything she was a disciple of Jesus but was stigmatized in the 4 century by the church because, you guessed it, she was a woman in the presence of Jesus and there couldn’t possibly have been a disciple according to the men in the church—and still is for that matter. I agree with you about the business world, the media and politics—whores many of them, generally speaking. This stigma is nonsensical in the nth degree—leaglize it.
By Frank Peterson on 07/19/2008 8:21 pm
DeBúrca obj
I think prostitution has been stigmatized because it was one way women could make a living and be independent during the times when “good” women were property.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/20/2008 12:40 am
Robin Upton
I somewhat agree with you Deburca. I feel that if a woman makes a choice, on her own without duress, to prostitute herself then thats her business. It’s the ones who get pushed against their will into that profession that cause the stigma that its a bad thing. As far as the talk show hosts you mentioned I think they are the “pimps” pimping out the stories of the people who don’t respect themselves enough to keep their personnal business private. Jerry Springer is the Grand Daddy of all Pimps. Who watches that crap?!?
By Robin Upton on 08/26/2008 2:41 pm
DeBúrca obj
Lots of people do apparently.
By DeBúrca obj on 08/26/2008 2:58 pm
Deb K
I happen to find heidi’s story very intriguing. She is no different than the rest of us….She wanted to earn a nice living, ran a fabulous business, and is held accountable and held back by men. She has been way up and way down - is there anyone one of us that hasn’t? We all have a crutch - cigarettes, wine, food, coffee and the list is endless……We are all addicted to something, only Heidi’s something is going to kill her at a young age if she doesnt get some help. She is brilliant and will find a way to get help and show the world she can “make it”.
By Deb K on 07/18/2008 1:53 pm
No Way-No How -No McCain
Deb “She is brilliant and will find a way to get help and show the world she can “make it”.” Hope you’re right…it is really sad hoe enslaving those drugs are.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/19/2008 9:11 am
DeBúrca obj
What makes her “brilliant”? I must be missing something.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/21/2008 7:48 am
Chrome Toe
I loved this piece. It shows women as loving other women. regardless of their flaws and addictions. I love that you show her strengths as well as her weaknesses. In my career as a probation/parole officer there were people I loved who went on to commit horrific crimes. but I saw the other things in them that were poignant and beautiful as well as the damage in them. I also am a strong strong proponent of legalizing and regulating prostitution. I think the habit of incarcerating women and not incarcerating men is as much violence against women as anything. My husband and I spent a bunch of time in the town Heidi moved to…. Parumph…. when we were on a motorcycle trip. We spent hours hanging in the brothels talking to the women that work their and observing the process. It was a fair and legal process. I had assumed I would go there feeling horrible for these women and like they were simply being exploited. that’s not how I left feeling. not fore the women working in legal, clean, regulated prostitution. It is a difficult industry for sure. There’s much opportunity for abuse even when it’s legalized. but for crying out loud people it is NOT going away. I just don’t get why we won’t offer these women our protection and acceptance of their choice. And lastly… it always surprises me when pro-choice people are anti legalization of prostitution. we should have the right to abort a fetus but not have the right to get paid for sex?
By Chrome Toe on 07/18/2008 2:40 pm
Sandbee (FB) 54
I’m pro-choice and for legalized prostitution. We lived in Nevada for 13 year and I never saw any problems with it. However I am anti- Heidi. She makes the statement ” I sold bitches”. That to me was so telling of what she thought about the women who worked for her, no better than any male pimp. I hope she does not get any license to open a business.
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 07/18/2008 2:56 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Kelly––do you hear my bell going off in response to what you’ve just said –––or more precisely, what I’ve just read–-applaud your insight.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/18/2008 5:26 pm
Frannie Em
Kelly, Yes, the oldest profession. I agree, legalize it, regulate it, and protect the women. Like you said, it isn’t going away. Catch the men, keep doing it, and sooner or later it will get legalized.
By Frannie Em on 07/19/2008 1:25 am
James the Game
I’ve always loved Ms. Fleiss’s looks, if not her line of business. I won’t cast judgment on her, though.
By James the Game on 07/18/2008 3:46 pm