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Conversation | 07/18/2008 10:30 am

HBO Executive Producer Sheila Nevins on the Making of 'Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal'

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Editor’s Note: Demystifying the notorious “Hollywood Madam,” the exclusive HBO documentary, "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal," chronicles her ill-fated attempt to launch “Heidi’s Stud Farm” when it debuts Monday, July 21 (9 PM - 10:10 PM, ET/PT), exclusively on HBO. This film is part of the HBO Documentary Films summer series, which features a provocative new film every Monday night at 9PM through August 25.

LIZ: As the executive producer of world famous documentaries seen on HBO, why in the world did you choose a madam for your subject on television? And I am talking about Heidi Fleiss.

SHEILA: I had always been a fan of Nick Broomfield’s documentary on Heidi, which is now about ten years old. But I always wondered what happened to Heidi and I decided to find out. So I tracked her down to a lingerie shop in downtown Hollywood and that’s where I met Heidi about two or two-and-a-half years ago. She was fascinating. I never met a creature like that before. I never met anybody who was so wicked and at the same time wise.

Click here for a sneak preview of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal." 

LIZ: Yeah.

Heidi really needs to be cured of her illness, because the rest of Heidi is magnificent. She’s a really nice human being.

SHEILA: I thought if you were a bad girl, you’re bad all over. And if you were a business woman or a smart girl, you were smart all over. And I had never seen a contrast like Heidi. There are so many facets of her character and I identified with her also as a woman. And I wanted to find out about her. I wanted to know where she was at.

LIZ: My very vague remembrance is that my heart sort of went out to her and I felt I was on her side. I’m not much for seeing people put in jail for prostitution. And then she would not reveal the names of the men in her little black book.

SHEILA: Never has. It’s a kind of prostitution McCarthyism in the sense that she wouldn’t give names. And won’t. And doesn’t.

LIZ: OK. So let’s establish for people who don’t know about Heidi Fleiss, that in 1993 she went to prison on charges of money laundering, tax evasion, drug possession. And they gave her a term of 37 months. Am I correct in that?

SHEILA: That’s correct. Of which she served three years.

LIZ: They didn’t specifically charge her with prostitution …

SHEILA: Right.

LIZ: … though prostitution is illegal in California, isn’t it?

SHEILA: Yes.

LIZ: But it’s not illegal in Nevada?

SHEILA: Nope.

LIZ: OK.

SHEILA: Which is where Heidi now lives. She lives in Nevada

LIZ: Sheila, let me just ask you a hypothetical. Why do they always punish prostitutes and they very seldom punish the johns, or the men, who are doing business with them, Mr. Ordinary Joe? And, except for the governor of New York State, Eliot Spitzer, who seems like he came off worse than the women accusing him, why do they do this? Why do men escape the opprobrium of prostitution, since men are the purchasers of prostitution?

SHEILA: I don’t really know why. My heart went out to her, like you said — that thing about your heart going out to Heidi. Yet she’s not bitter. She’s, unfortunately, drugged a lot of the time. She uses substances and she admits it in the film. And she really needs to be rehabilitated. But some of my best friends have that problem. I mean, there was Heidi the sober woman in a nice Armani suit talking about business and doing things; and then there was Heidi the drug addict. And then there was Heidi the environmentalist and the bird lover.

LILY: That whole bird metaphor was just so incredible.

LIZ: We need to explain the birds.

SHEILA: Go ahead and do it.

LIZ: Heidi moves to Nevada and she buys property next to a very old lady, who is described as a madam. And the old lady collects these rare, fabulous cockatoos and cockatiels and wonderful birds that talk. Heidi becomes involved with these birds and when the woman dies, she’s left the birds and she goes on to care for them in a really exaggerated, wonderful way. That’s what Lily means by the birds being a metaphor.

145 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Mugsy Peabody
Bella Mia, perhaps you could reframe your thoughts along these lines: “How would you feel about your daughter putting herself through college working as a prostitute?”
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/18/2008 9:34 pm
Blue Circle Girl
Ppppfffftttt! that was for bella
By Blue Circle Girl on 07/18/2008 10:15 pm
HA BIBI
Bella Mia, It could not have been said better than you said it. You’re Spot On!
By HA BIBI on 07/21/2008 11:47 am
Bonnie Oliver
I don’t think legalizing prostitution will stop the villains of our society from seeking out the pleasures they want from a sexual encounter no matter the age or sex of his partner. And if that is so then there will always be a madam who will provide what the villains want, no matter how depraved. Maybe legalization could protect some of the girls from pimps and assorted others who use her just as much as the “john”.
By Bonnie Oliver on 07/18/2008 10:55 pm
Blue Circle Girl
Crystal Meth …. ain’t that what you mean shugs? She is a looozer with “click” or “channel surf” appeal …. NEXT …. what is going on at HBO? HBO was a HUGE deal in 1978 maybe 76 …. my parents paid extra to have it through the cable service …. maybe, maybe it was worth the 4.00 bucks a month back then … but not now …. well, I might give you 2 bucks a month for it now. Ah, exploit the ragged and the haggard …. ppppfffttt!? WHATEVER!
By Blue Circle Girl on 07/18/2008 11:17 pm
Maggi D
I have never really been interested in what makes Heidi tick. Her lifestyle says it all. Greed. She is no better or worse than half the people that control our government. Anything for the almighty dollar. The only problem with a greedy person is that they can never get enough. That is probably why Heidi still has a substance problem. She is trying to dull the reality that she will never be allowed to fly that high again. I feel sad for her.
By Maggi D on 07/18/2008 11:28 pm
Chrome Toe
Bella - I can see you’ve got strong feelings about this so don’t think i’m stepping on them. I’d just like to respond to a couple of your points. the point you make about legalizing it increasing the behavior is an argument that I think has played out over dozens of other scenarios as simply not true. For example: it’s illegal to drink if you’re under 21 and illegal to buy it. But the illegality of it does not curb use of it by kids. It’s illegal to drive drunk. yet drunk drivers kill millions of people in this country every day. it’s illegal to drive without insurance or drive without a drivers license. yet it’s estimated that 25% of drivers don’t have insurance. It’s illegal to use methamphetamine, cocaine and marijuana. yet the people who want to use them do. The argument to legalize prostitution is an argument to keep women who choose to sell their bodies safe and protected. Not an argument to protect the men who use them. For the fact is that men who use prostitutes have very few consequences. the arguement to not legalize prostitution because it will normalize the behavior and increase the activity is very similiar to the argument not to provide teenagers with sex education and access to birth control. As well, it is not prostitution that destroys marriages. It’s the people in the marriage. in the case of a marriage destroyed by a man using a prostitute it is the mans fault. not the sex industry’s fault. There are all kinds of people in the world and all kinds of marriages. There are couples who agree that they can each have sex with other people. couples who agree that one of the people in it can have sex with someone else. couples who don’t have sex. couples who have sex every day and couples who use prostitutes together or couples who the woman would approve of the occassional use of a prostitute., A man who is married to a woman who dissaproves of his use of a sex worker is a man who is betraying trust and hurting his marriage. Again not the fault of prostitution. The point you make about weekly testing of prostitutes not keeping sex safe I’d also like to address. In legalized brothels the women do get tested regularly yes. but that’s not the important part. the important part is that in those brothels condoms are absolutely used, as are dental dams and many other forms of “safe” sex. it’s safer to have sex with a prostitute in a legal brothel than a man or woman you meet in a bar - by far. Okay - to long of a post.. sorry! done now!
By Chrome Toe on 07/18/2008 11:45 pm
Maggi D
Kelly Kelly - may be a long post, but points well taken.
By Maggi D on 07/19/2008 12:21 am
Blue Circle Girl
ACDC song … TNT …. load it to your little Ipods or mp3’s and think of me … you people kill me …
By Blue Circle Girl on 07/19/2008 12:56 am
Maggi D
BCG - you know you love us :)
By Maggi D on 07/19/2008 1:04 am
Blue Circle Girl
Love Hate … Fine line …
By Blue Circle Girl on 07/19/2008 1:18 am
Bella Mia
Quote: “I believe that we will never succeed in combating trafficking in women if we do not simultaneously work to abolish prostitution and the sexual exploitation of women and children. Particularly in light of the fact that many women in prostitution in countries that have legalised prostitution are originally victims of trafficking in women.” — Margareta Winberg Former Deputy Prime Minister of Sweden Speech in Stockholm Nov. 5-6, 2002
By Bella Mia on 07/19/2008 11:21 am
Bella Mia
Even if a prostitute is being tested every week for HIV, she will test negative for at least the first 4-6 weeks and possibly the first 12 weeks after being infected…. This means that while the test is becoming positive and the results are becoming known, that prostitute may expose up to 630 clients to HIV. This is under the best of circumstances with testing every week and a four-week window period. It also assumes that the prostitute will quit working as soon as he or she finds out the test is HIV positive, which is highly unlikely. This is not the best approach for actually reducing harm. Instead, in order to slow the global spread of HIV/AIDS we should focus our efforts on abolishing prostitution.” — Jeffrey J. Barrows, D.O. Health Consultant on Human Trafficking for the Christian Medical Association “HIV and Prostitution: What’s the Answer?” The Center for Bioethics and Human Dignity website Sep. 9, 2005
By Bella Mia on 07/19/2008 11:24 am
Bella Mia
I would have to trust the judgement of the people actually working in the area of preventing human trafficking who say that legalized prostitution makes their job harder and the situation worse - not better. “Prostitution cannot eliminate rape when it is itself bought rape. The connection between rape and prostitution is that women are turned into objects for men’s sexual use; they can be either bought or stolen. A culture in which women can be bought for use is one in which rape flourishes[.]” — Coalition Against Trafficking in Women (CATW) “Frequently Asked Questions About Prostitution” on the CATW-Australia Website Mar. 8, 2007
By Bella Mia on 07/19/2008 11:29 am
Frannie Em
Her father was one of my oldest son’s pediatricians. I only took him there a couple of times because he was wildly popular and we had to wait a long time to see him. He was very laid back, but a very sweet, caring and kind man. I never vaccinated my children because of the dangers involved, and I went to him for alternatives. One time I think saw her there, she was funny and commanding and asking for money. I think he got a little impatient, but gave her the dough. Out the door she went, hopped in the car and was gone. What a handful. The documentary sounds interesting.
By Frannie Em on 07/19/2008 1:20 am