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Conversation | 07/18/2008 10:30 am

HBO Executive Producer Sheila Nevins on the Making of 'Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal'

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Editor’s Note: Demystifying the notorious “Hollywood Madam,” the exclusive HBO documentary, "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal," chronicles her ill-fated attempt to launch “Heidi’s Stud Farm” when it debuts Monday, July 21 (9 PM - 10:10 PM, ET/PT), exclusively on HBO. This film is part of the HBO Documentary Films summer series, which features a provocative new film every Monday night at 9PM through August 25.

LIZ: As the executive producer of world famous documentaries seen on HBO, why in the world did you choose a madam for your subject on television? And I am talking about Heidi Fleiss.

SHEILA: I had always been a fan of Nick Broomfield’s documentary on Heidi, which is now about ten years old. But I always wondered what happened to Heidi and I decided to find out. So I tracked her down to a lingerie shop in downtown Hollywood and that’s where I met Heidi about two or two-and-a-half years ago. She was fascinating. I never met a creature like that before. I never met anybody who was so wicked and at the same time wise.

Click here for a sneak preview of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal." 

LIZ: Yeah.

Heidi really needs to be cured of her illness, because the rest of Heidi is magnificent. She’s a really nice human being.

SHEILA: I thought if you were a bad girl, you’re bad all over. And if you were a business woman or a smart girl, you were smart all over. And I had never seen a contrast like Heidi. There are so many facets of her character and I identified with her also as a woman. And I wanted to find out about her. I wanted to know where she was at.

LIZ: My very vague remembrance is that my heart sort of went out to her and I felt I was on her side. I’m not much for seeing people put in jail for prostitution. And then she would not reveal the names of the men in her little black book.

SHEILA: Never has. It’s a kind of prostitution McCarthyism in the sense that she wouldn’t give names. And won’t. And doesn’t.

LIZ: OK. So let’s establish for people who don’t know about Heidi Fleiss, that in 1993 she went to prison on charges of money laundering, tax evasion, drug possession. And they gave her a term of 37 months. Am I correct in that?

SHEILA: That’s correct. Of which she served three years.

LIZ: They didn’t specifically charge her with prostitution …

SHEILA: Right.

LIZ: … though prostitution is illegal in California, isn’t it?

SHEILA: Yes.

LIZ: But it’s not illegal in Nevada?

SHEILA: Nope.

LIZ: OK.

SHEILA: Which is where Heidi now lives. She lives in Nevada

LIZ: Sheila, let me just ask you a hypothetical. Why do they always punish prostitutes and they very seldom punish the johns, or the men, who are doing business with them, Mr. Ordinary Joe? And, except for the governor of New York State, Eliot Spitzer, who seems like he came off worse than the women accusing him, why do they do this? Why do men escape the opprobrium of prostitution, since men are the purchasers of prostitution?

SHEILA: I don’t really know why. My heart went out to her, like you said — that thing about your heart going out to Heidi. Yet she’s not bitter. She’s, unfortunately, drugged a lot of the time. She uses substances and she admits it in the film. And she really needs to be rehabilitated. But some of my best friends have that problem. I mean, there was Heidi the sober woman in a nice Armani suit talking about business and doing things; and then there was Heidi the drug addict. And then there was Heidi the environmentalist and the bird lover.

LILY: That whole bird metaphor was just so incredible.

LIZ: We need to explain the birds.

SHEILA: Go ahead and do it.

LIZ: Heidi moves to Nevada and she buys property next to a very old lady, who is described as a madam. And the old lady collects these rare, fabulous cockatoos and cockatiels and wonderful birds that talk. Heidi becomes involved with these birds and when the woman dies, she’s left the birds and she goes on to care for them in a really exaggerated, wonderful way. That’s what Lily means by the birds being a metaphor.

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Marjorie C.
ki b: “… Where do you come off putting down the Bronx? Some very kind and good people live there….” Touché. There are a lot of kind and good people living in the backwater towns of New England, too. Matter of fact, kind and good people live everywhere. I was just trying to pick a couple of places that were less affluent and glamorous than South Hollywood. I think you know there was no harm intended.
By Marjorie C. on 07/20/2008 7:11 am
Chrome Toe
I posted a lot on the topic of prostitution and none on Heidi. So here’s my two cents on Heidi herself. She’s an addict with all the thought processes and behaviors of an addict. Basically me me me. Whatever I want should be okay no matter who I hurt. As well… she’s got a lot of “i’m so unique” thinking that comes with addiction. which came first the thinking or the drugs? who knows. but possibly the thinking then the drugs then the thinking was escalated and further twisted from the drugs. Ultimately parents don’t make us everything we are. they contribute. but we’re individuals. I’ve known a lot of really good people with really screwed up kids.
By Chrome Toe on 07/19/2008 10:21 am
Frannie Em
Kelly I agree.
By Frannie Em on 07/19/2008 5:11 pm
Bella Mia
As long as we point the finger away from ourselves, away from the institutions that blame and criminalize women and children for their own rape, sexual abuse, trafficking and slavery, away from the men who we normalize as - Johns, - and as long as we disconnect adult prostitution and the exploitation of children and disconnect prostitution and trafficking in human beings for the purposes of rape and sex slavery; then we are to blame and we have assisted in creating well-funded transnational criminal networks - dollar by dollar.” — Norma Hotaling Executive Director of the Standing Against Global Exploitation (SAGE) Project and former prostitute Testimony to U.S. Congress Apr. 28, 2005 In other words, don’t arrest the women and children, rehabilitate them and rescue them.
By Bella Mia on 07/19/2008 11:32 am
Bella Mia
Another trafficking expert who is adamantly against legalization; “Some prostitution defenders argue that prostitution is an acceptable solution to poverty…. What they mean, but do not say, is that prostitution is an acceptable solution for women living in poverty. Seldom do we see proposals that poor men should make their way out of poverty by welcoming the insertion of penises and other objects into them on a regular basis or dance naked on a stage in front of ogling and masturbating males. The prostitution industry exploits to its advantage the fact that most women and children who are in prostitution come from the most oppressed and vulnerable groups in society.” — Gunilla S. Ekberg Special Advisor on prostitution and trafficking in women at the Swedish Division for Gender Equality Speech in Stockholm Nov. 2002
By Bella Mia on 07/19/2008 11:33 am
Frannie Em
Bella, You are making me think deeply on this. My agreement with legalization is to get it out of the gutter and get it regulated. If a woman goes into it, then it is her choice and she must be an adult. I don’t know if it would be easier to track the really sick johns, or not, but there will always be someone willing to sell it and there will always be someone willing to buy it. Our society will have to change so much, and hopefully it will. As with the exposure on video, the internet and news stories, we are finding out more and more where our society has gone astray. People are not that emotionally healthy. Sex can be an addiction. Those people need help.
By Frannie Em on 07/19/2008 5:32 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Gold stars in my book, Bella, thank you so much!
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/19/2008 10:34 pm
Star Lawrence
I have seen a doc about the Bunny Ranch, I think it is. Seemed kind of low-rent to me…like a ratty motel or trailer almost. The stories of couples coming in and getting their visas rolled out on on those little handheld machines on the side of the bed…not very sexy, at least in my opinion. One woman brought her son. I don’t know…I think the “madams” making an interesting business of this are the ones we never hear about.
By Star Lawrence on 07/19/2008 11:48 am
Mugsy Peabody
Star, I must have missed when you said how your surgery went. I’ve been thinking of you. MP
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/19/2008 11:19 pm
Star Lawrence
I haven’t had surgery recently—someone did, though, can’t remember…Was it Lily?
By Star Lawrence on 07/20/2008 11:04 am
Mugsy Peabody
Oh, I guess I misunderstood. I thought you were having another eye surgery. My bad. Glad you’re okay.
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/20/2008 3:37 pm
Frannie Em
Carole had surgery, Hi carole. I hope you are okay and feeling better. We are here with you and hang in there and know that we care.
By Frannie Em on 07/20/2008 6:20 pm
Mugsy Peabody
That’s what not enough oxygen can do for you. Carole, hope you’re doing well.
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/20/2008 9:10 pm
Gretchen Perkins
I’m hoping that young women (or older women) don’t get the idea that creating a prostitution ring is a quick rich idea and try it for themselves. Most prostitutes have an addiction to something (from the sounds of it Heidi has a few herself). I think it is a very poor way to make money—by the selling of someone else’s body. I don’t care if it is legal or not. There are spiritual, moral, ethical, and medical issues that need to be examined. My heart goes out for the “John’s” that are the money makers for Heidi.
By Gretchen Perkins on 07/19/2008 12:33 pm
Elizabeth Bennett
I do not understand why you feel sorry for the Johns. Those are they guys who think this is a great thing. The women providing the services and suffering the frequent violence are the ones who end up with post traumatic stress syndrome.
By Elizabeth Bennett on 07/20/2008 2:41 pm