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Conversation | 07/18/2008 10:30 am

HBO Executive Producer Sheila Nevins on the Making of 'Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal'

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Editor’s Note: Demystifying the notorious “Hollywood Madam,” the exclusive HBO documentary, "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal," chronicles her ill-fated attempt to launch “Heidi’s Stud Farm” when it debuts Monday, July 21 (9 PM - 10:10 PM, ET/PT), exclusively on HBO. This film is part of the HBO Documentary Films summer series, which features a provocative new film every Monday night at 9PM through August 25.

LIZ: As the executive producer of world famous documentaries seen on HBO, why in the world did you choose a madam for your subject on television? And I am talking about Heidi Fleiss.

SHEILA: I had always been a fan of Nick Broomfield’s documentary on Heidi, which is now about ten years old. But I always wondered what happened to Heidi and I decided to find out. So I tracked her down to a lingerie shop in downtown Hollywood and that’s where I met Heidi about two or two-and-a-half years ago. She was fascinating. I never met a creature like that before. I never met anybody who was so wicked and at the same time wise.

Click here for a sneak preview of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal." 

LIZ: Yeah.

Heidi really needs to be cured of her illness, because the rest of Heidi is magnificent. She’s a really nice human being.

SHEILA: I thought if you were a bad girl, you’re bad all over. And if you were a business woman or a smart girl, you were smart all over. And I had never seen a contrast like Heidi. There are so many facets of her character and I identified with her also as a woman. And I wanted to find out about her. I wanted to know where she was at.

LIZ: My very vague remembrance is that my heart sort of went out to her and I felt I was on her side. I’m not much for seeing people put in jail for prostitution. And then she would not reveal the names of the men in her little black book.

SHEILA: Never has. It’s a kind of prostitution McCarthyism in the sense that she wouldn’t give names. And won’t. And doesn’t.

LIZ: OK. So let’s establish for people who don’t know about Heidi Fleiss, that in 1993 she went to prison on charges of money laundering, tax evasion, drug possession. And they gave her a term of 37 months. Am I correct in that?

SHEILA: That’s correct. Of which she served three years.

LIZ: They didn’t specifically charge her with prostitution …

SHEILA: Right.

LIZ: … though prostitution is illegal in California, isn’t it?

SHEILA: Yes.

LIZ: But it’s not illegal in Nevada?

SHEILA: Nope.

LIZ: OK.

SHEILA: Which is where Heidi now lives. She lives in Nevada

LIZ: Sheila, let me just ask you a hypothetical. Why do they always punish prostitutes and they very seldom punish the johns, or the men, who are doing business with them, Mr. Ordinary Joe? And, except for the governor of New York State, Eliot Spitzer, who seems like he came off worse than the women accusing him, why do they do this? Why do men escape the opprobrium of prostitution, since men are the purchasers of prostitution?

SHEILA: I don’t really know why. My heart went out to her, like you said — that thing about your heart going out to Heidi. Yet she’s not bitter. She’s, unfortunately, drugged a lot of the time. She uses substances and she admits it in the film. And she really needs to be rehabilitated. But some of my best friends have that problem. I mean, there was Heidi the sober woman in a nice Armani suit talking about business and doing things; and then there was Heidi the drug addict. And then there was Heidi the environmentalist and the bird lover.

LILY: That whole bird metaphor was just so incredible.

LIZ: We need to explain the birds.

SHEILA: Go ahead and do it.

LIZ: Heidi moves to Nevada and she buys property next to a very old lady, who is described as a madam. And the old lady collects these rare, fabulous cockatoos and cockatiels and wonderful birds that talk. Heidi becomes involved with these birds and when the woman dies, she’s left the birds and she goes on to care for them in a really exaggerated, wonderful way. That’s what Lily means by the birds being a metaphor.

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Mugsy Peabody
Keepin’ it real….
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/19/2008 11:24 pm
beth willis
Just a quick thumbnail description of Heidi Fleiss, gleaned from the internet: She is one of 6 children born to pediatrician father and teacher mother. Did not fit in easily in school, struggled academically, primarily because she didn’t want to do the work. Became an exceptional babysitter who built up her business in high school to coordinate her peers to actually do the work while she did all the networking for a percentage. Dropped out of school in 10th grade. Took up with Bernie Cornfeld, some nefarious entrpreneur who introduced her to drugs and affluence. Entered into an arrangement with successful Los Angeles madame. After a falling out, Fleiss began her own lucrative business….lucrative as in house in Benedict Canyon and sports car. Fleiss had a friendship with a young lady from Nebraska who sought fame and celebrity in Hollywood. Somehow the young lady was killed. Fleiss was outraged that LAPD did not investigate the incident more thorougily..her going to the police meant revealing her prostitution business, but Fleiss did it any way. After release from prison, Fleiss was helped by her parents, as in a house and vehicle. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 07/20/2008 12:01 pm
beth willis
JIP (Just Providing Information) Peace and grace
By beth willis on 07/20/2008 6:27 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Such integrity, to know someone’s death is more important than her reputation, etc. I knew there was something I liked about her. And your “chronology,” Beth, how simple and eloquent was that?
By Mugsy Peabody on 07/20/2008 9:13 pm
Maryann Lowry
Thanks Beth. I believe everyone is a good soul. Sometimes, it’s hidden under layers of toxic limiting thoughts. I agree with Mugsy. “You done good”, Beth. She feels such a love for the birds, as well. She must have some black and blue marks on her spirit, which we can’t see. We do see the symptoms of such damage.
By Maryann Lowry on 07/21/2008 2:31 am
beth willis
Thanks, Mugsy and Maryann( from the Skipper). As a retired teacher, I used to say that doctors, who were only ‘practicing’, buried their mistakes while teachers, who did not have the luxury of just practicing, sent their mistakes to rehab…if they’re lucky. Thankfully, I have no need to pass judgment on Heidi Fleiss, but I found myself drained from the level of intensity and spectrum of emotions I absorbed from her manic energy. I found it telling that ‘The Giving Tree’ is her favorite book and that she sees herself as the ‘tree’, the source of all the little boy’s apparent needs. She became so emotional she could hardly speak. I rather imagine she wears herself out with her mind racing, racing, racing. Ignoring Heidi Fleiss will not make the world a better or worse place; hers is just such a fascinating story. Thank you, Sheila.
By beth willis on 07/23/2008 10:12 am
Bella Mia
I thought I had posted this, maybe it didn’t go through, or maybe it was removed. It is a research site called overindulgence.info. Researchers have discovered that the amount a child is indulged during childhood effects how they are able to handle adult relationships, and future responsibilities. The indulgence is both material and psychological. The biography of Heidi is interesting as are the comments of her relationship with her father because it does sound as if she were indulged - and the youngest or only child is often the most indulged. Is it any surprise that people who indulge in sex and drugs were “given-in to” as children. They were accustomed to having what they wanted when they wanted it, and that includes the inappropriate freedoms to stay out late, drink, and have sex way too young. Her father was sent to jail for criminally enabling her bad behavior. She should have been in rehab a long time ago. http://www.overindulgence.info/
By Bella Mia on 07/21/2008 11:13 am
Serena .
Lil, Saw the documentary last night. BTW—Beautifully done Sheila! Heidi is most definitely a charming character. I see why Lily fell in love with her.
By Serena . on 07/22/2008 7:20 am
Belinda Joy
Talk about a train wreck. I saw the documentary and found Heidi to be a woman completely out of her mind. A perfect example of what low self esteem combined with a healthy does of narcissism can do to one’s psyche. It was also interesting to see (yet again) another example of how drug abuse can take a toll on a life. It’s weird to me, I look at people like Heidi and others who have obtained a level of celebrity status in their lives and the negative affect drugs have had on their lives and NOTHING about it makes me run out and hunt down a drug dealer to buy some crack. Yet thousands of people rush out on a daily basis to try something that they have seen does nothing but destroy lives. Maybe it’s just me, but I don’t see the attraction.
By Belinda Joy on 08/23/2008 9:44 pm
Pamela Munro
The salubrious sells - I peeked at the Fleiss show - altho it was a bit tedious, I am not personally impressed by her brilliance - as well as the other HBO brothel doc - which was more interesting and more salurioous to boot. But Fleiss is so very L.A. with the drugs and the skinny bod and the flashy, easy, but risky enterprise(s) - fast cash with flash - so very bad L.A.- of the 80’s - We are the Wild West a European told me - & so Nevada is appropriate - altho ironically more sexist than L.A. due to the cowboy ethic. What’s sauce for the gander is NOT sauce for the goose! But hardly any kind of entrepreneurial role model!
By Pamela Munro on 08/28/2008 5:00 pm