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Conversation | 06/23/2008 6:00 am

To Hell and Back: One Woman's Story of Surviving a Car Bomb in Iraq

KIMBERLY: I’ve tried to scrupulously avoid making a for-or-against declaration on where the war should go — a strict timeline for withdrawal versus an open-ended commitment. I always thought the war was poorly thought out, that we didn’t take the advice of our regional allies — but we’re there now, and I know the rest of the world is watching what we do there. So I try to ask people to keep paying attention, because we’ll be judged by what we do next. We’ve made such an amazing and painful investment there in lives as well as financially … and I think it’s like the Chinese proverb — you save a life, then that life becomes your responsibility. We may as a nation be angry now that we got into this war, but we owe it to Iraq and ourselves to find a healthy way out that leaves that region at least as stable as when we went in.

LESLEY: There are something like 200 thousand women on active duty in the military, with thousands having been wounded in Iraq. You got remarkable care in military hospitals — maybe not always the best advice, but lots of attention. The Veterans Administration has admitted that women warriors are not getting as good care as the men, and they are opening a summit to explore how to improve. Do you think wounded women soldiers have a harder time recovering and fitting back into their old routines?

As for going back to a war zone, well, heck, that is what I did before -- I'm not letting the car bombers keep me from my life's work.

KIMBERLY: Well, I got great advice, but lots of it, but the patient and his/her caregivers often have to break the tie choosing among different options. That was sometimes hellish, but it’s just part of why it’s so important to have good patient advocates (in this case, my family) at your side. As for how wounded women are treated in the V.A., I never attended a V.A. facility, so cannot speak to that, but I do know from some of the women vets I’ve spoken to that they face unique problems in their recovery — how do you define yourself as a woman again, if you are missing an arm or are scarred in the face, when society still judges a woman in many ways by her looks? (Everyone kept saying about me: "How’s her face? It’s okay? Oh, good." I was shocked by that.) The vets I’ve spoken to feel society is not ready for their war wounds — and in a weird way, they don’t get as much respect for them. So perhaps the V.A. system, too, is catching up with this new reality.

LESLEY: Well, your face was untouched. However, your legs were shattered. It’s a miracle that you’re walking now with only the slightest limp — which took months and months of rehab and a supreme amount of will power.

Once you recovered, you went to the bosses at CBS and said, “Send me back to Iraq or at least to the region.” They wouldn’t send you back – which, frankly, sounded like a wise decision to me. Why on earth did you want to go back to the scene of the crime, so to speak?

KIMBERLY: Well, everyone in the States, as they watched my stretcher travel from Iraq to Germany to Washington, DC, was saying, "Welcome home." For me, as I’ve lived overseas for 14 of the last 16 years or so, I was leaving home. I’ve still got a house in Jerusalem, where I’ve lived in between Iraq assignments since 2001. It’s where I feel comfortable — same for Afghanistan, Pakistan, Jordan, the Gulf, Egypt, etcetera. And I miss it. But we only put it on the air, in the media, when it’s blowing up, as a general rule — so I suppose to everyone back here, it looks like sending me back to the fire.

As for going back to a war zone, well, heck, that is what I did before — I’m not letting the car bombers keep me from my life’s work. So I’ll be back. Eventually.

11 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

doll lady
Lesley…what a wonderful interview. Kudos to Kimberly. What a wonderful lady she is to be brave enough to live among the chaos so that the world can have full media coverage of what goes on.
By doll lady on 06/23/2008 7:18 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Frank Rich had a piece in Sunday’s New York Times about how we are not giving enough attention to this bloody war––how we just want it to go away. Kimerly is indeed an extraordinary woman and reading this interview makes one realize the sacrifices so many have made for this horrific mistake.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 06/23/2008 7:42 am
Frank Peterson
Phyllis: not a mistake—it was deliberate actions by the Bush WH and his cohorts.
By Frank Peterson on 06/23/2008 5:23 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Endangered Species To be an American reporter in Iraq,any kind of American, is not just to be a target yourself, but it is to make a target of others, too. Dexter Filkins This day—a spectacular autumn day—a Sunday with coffee, rolls, the New York Times spread upon this large oak table facing south to get the sun not now shining in Iraq where Dexter Filkins under fire in Baghdad is unable to report to us the way he wants for fear of his life being taken suddenly—perhaps on this beautiful Sunday if he ventures too far And wide is the terror of this unmitigated war taking with it so many lost lives that used to spend Sundays like this. 2004
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 06/23/2008 7:47 am
Frank Peterson
Thanks Doctor K. —yes I read about the hydrogen sulfide recently and it seems to help considerably—battlefield conditions being what they are—the more we learn the more we save. This is really incredible research.
By Frank Peterson on 06/23/2008 1:30 pm
Frank Peterson
Talk therapy—now that is really interesting—after Vietnam and the mortar explosion I had PTSD for quite a long time but I talked it through with my wife for many many months—didn’t keep it in—I talked—or rather she got me to open up and talk about the fear and the paralysis that happened and that dissipated finally so that the dreams and nightmares abated after a while—tho I do occasionally have a dream about that time. I hope all in life will be well for you as much as possible, Ms Dozier—what you went through was exponentially so much greater than what happened to many of us in Vietnam. Peace, real abiding peace to you and yours.
By Frank Peterson on 06/23/2008 10:58 am
Bonnie Oliver
The interview and the remarkable recovery of Kimberly Dozier is all heartfelt and amazing. Also, I am glad that the opportunity was not taken by Ms. Dozier to make her story into a cause celeb for those against or those who agree that the war is necessary. This is her story about her struggles to recovery. But what I find curious is the fact that estrogen may have played a part in keeping Ms. Dozier alive long enough so that the medics could work on her while at the same time trying to stop the blood loss. Very curious, indeed. Good luck Ms. Dozier. I hope your wish of being sent back to your home is Jerusalem will be granted.
By Bonnie Oliver on 06/23/2008 11:33 am
mary lou s
does that mean that in the future estrogen will be required for combat duty?
By mary lou s on 06/23/2008 7:25 pm
Maurine H
Thank God Kimberly Dozier is alive to tell us her remarkable story of recovery after the car bomb took the lives of her colleagues. If estrogen played a role in her survival, then Viva las Hormones! But, I think she is also made of other, stronger stuff- the will to live and the grit it took to get through the prolonged pain of her recovery. She was fortunate, too, to have the immediate and ongoing medical care and support she needed. Her story reminded me of that of Marla Ruzika, creater of CIVIC (Campaign for Innocent Victims in Conflict). Marla was not so fortunate when a car bomb blew her car up on Baghdad’s treacherous airport road. She and her driver both died, possibly because the medical care they needed was not available at the scene. The capricious murders of civilian women and men in war zones is just one more reason to say that All War is Hell. I am so thankful that Ms. Dozier has written a factual account of her own hellish experience.
By Maurine H on 06/25/2008 9:17 pm
Hines Hammond
My husband and I were absolutely shocked to learn that you had been critically injured. And then more updates would be forethcoming on the evening news we watched so faithfully. What strength you must have drawn on since then. We wish you the very best, Ms. Dozier.
By Hines Hammond on 08/04/2008 12:54 pm