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Conversation | 05/28/2008 9:58 am

Liz Smith: Gays Don't Have the Same Rights as People on Death Row

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Editor’s Note: Featuring Kathleen Jamieson, director of the Annenberg Public Policy Center, a professor of communications and the former dean of the Annenberg School for Communication at the University of Pennsylvania.

LESLEY: This month, the California Supreme Court struck down a ban against homosexual marriage. They say things happen in California first and then spread across the country.

LIZ: But isn’t it likely, Lesley, that this California ruling does not mean very much? That it could be rescinded before we even get used to the idea?

LESLEY: Do you think that if they do put this to a vote that the public will overturn it? Go the other way? Ban homosexual marriages?

LIZ: I don’t know.

LESLEY: Candice, you …

CANDICE: Well, it happened already.

LESLEY: Yeah, that’s right. They voted against it. So we think this could easily be overturned?

LIZ: I think the marriage struggle for gays is going to be a long time coming. But eventually it’ll happen because just as with movements in women’s liberation, a lot of positive things have already taken place. Let’s consider this: A gay woman named Ellen DeGeneres has the most popular talk show in America. She even outstrips Oprah Winfrey. Doesn’t this say something? I think people are really kind of conflicted. Sometimes they’re sneaky and fuzzy when it comes to homosexuality. They go crazy over one demonstration of it, and then they’ll ignore another. And TV and entertainment – now you see they use gays as come-ons, lively examples, for emphasis. They use gay characters the way the movies sort of used the black comic Stepin Fetchit. The networks get a lot of bang for their gay buck.

LESLEY: This is definitely an issue that is generational. No question about it. People under a certain age are ho-hum on this issue. They don’t understand the controversy, and if they come out in large numbers to vote in California, I think that could have a huge effect on how it goes, if it’s put up to a vote this time.

CANDICE: If that’s true, it could also have a huge effect on McCain.

LESLEY: That’s right. What are you picking up on this, Kathleen? Anything?

KATHLEEN: It puts the position that candidates have taken on the Defense of Marriage Act into play in the presidential election. And I think that’s the way we’re going to see it play out. We’re going to see the discussion happen indirectly in relationship to that previous vote, or that previous position.

LESLEY: Are they different?

KATHLEEN: Yeah. The question is, do states have to recognize a marriage from another state or not? That’s one of the issues. And I do believe McCain and Obama are different.

LIZ: Do you remember that a lot of people felt that the Republicans brought up the gay marriage issue and that it helped defeat Al Gore, even though he won the popular vote? So I’m wondering if this was brought up this time to make it an issue again. Or did it just happen?

LESLEY: Well, the Supreme Court of California made the ruling, so it would be hard to see how it was done deliberately to affect the campaign.

LIZ: I had a gay kid say to me the other day, "Men and women on death row can marry people on the outside. They’re allowed to get married. And gays want the same rights as people on death row." I thought that was pretty good thinking.

LESLEY: I didn’t know that. Is that true?

LIZ: Well, women and men on death row are allowed to get married. Sure.

LESLEY: Oh, I see. They’re allowed to get married … not to each other.

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Frannie Em
T S You are a jewel.
By Frannie Em on 05/28/2008 3:50 pm
Frank Peterson
Yep, Frannie, she sure is in my mind :-)
By Frank Peterson on 05/28/2008 8:07 pm
T S
That means a lot to me to hear from you. I will take that lovely complement into the dream time as I call it a day. Thank you.
By T S on 05/28/2008 10:40 pm
Frannie Em
Frank “All we need is love - ………….All we need is love ——— all we need is love , love, love is all we need, love is all we need” John Lennon
By Frannie Em on 05/28/2008 3:20 pm
Frank Peterson
John was sooooooooo right about that, wasn’t he? Love that song—l loved it the first time I heard it and will til the day I die. Thanks Frannie :-)
By Frank Peterson on 05/28/2008 3:36 pm
Liza D 08 .... beta
Ms Em …. Ms EM, I was just singin’ that too! …. ahhhhh …… I LOVE IT! And for whatever the reason my heart is full and joyful. I know the reason, the reason is the people here on wow are sooooooo kewl! Why don’t people see that love everyone straight, bi, gay and lesbian is bestest gift to give and receive? I know that sounds corny but my heart is so full at this moment. I am overcome with emotion. We are like friends and the good thing about friends is that you can have different points of view and still have respect and admiration for one another …. just like it should be in a perfect world … have we found Shangri-La? YES, I have! My life ain’t no walk in the park but since this site I have a new purpose and sense being. THANK YOU MS. EM … sing it again!
By Liza D 08 .... beta on 05/28/2008 3:44 pm
Frannie Em
Liza All we need is love……..All we need is love……….All we need is love love, love is all we need, love is all we need. I am so glad you are having a good day. It is good to hear. Yes, friends are soooooo kewl! Hang in there Liza, you are in the right place.
By Frannie Em on 05/28/2008 4:16 pm
Frannie Em
Liza PS I wonder if the founders thought they were sponsoring WoWstock
By Frannie Em on 05/28/2008 4:17 pm
Liza D 08 .... beta
POWER TO THE WoWERS and THE WoWERS THAT BE! WoWstock …. good one!
By Liza D 08 .... beta on 05/28/2008 4:21 pm
Liza D 08 .... beta
WoWStock, WoWapolooza! or WowFest! or WoWMeMommie or …. Any marketing people here jump right in … brainstorming ….. I can’t help it …. a three convention with all the crew … guest speakers … political movement messages and the good things that go with a CONGREGATION of the Powers of Wow! Can you see the merchandising!? …. not to mention … The Power Lunches, Empowerment and Enlightenment speeches, Charity Fund Raising, Book promotion and signings …. a chance to mingle with WoWStars! WOW ME! moment in time. Who is in? this is only a marketing idea and only a dream or vision …. this message is in no way affiliated in any way with www.wowOwow.com Power to the WoWers! Or we just sit around drinking tea and passing mints. lol!
By Liza D 08 .... beta on 05/28/2008 9:21 pm
Frannie Em
Liza D LOL, you are making me laugh WoWapolooza How ‘bout the Million WoWers March? I can’t stop laughing.
By Frannie Em on 05/28/2008 11:24 pm
Liza D 08 .... beta
Hey Ms. EM, Do you think we could get Barbara Walters to open or MC the Million WoWers March?
By Liza D 08 .... beta on 05/28/2008 11:46 pm
Frannie Em
Liza D Lol lol hahhahahaha Ohhh the sunscreen is running into my eyes from laughing so hard.
By Frannie Em on 05/29/2008 12:28 pm
Peg O my heart
Thank you Frank, for such eloquence. You have a way, dear Frank, of capturing the heart of the matter to a few succinct sentences - it is what I love about you. I was at work all day and wanted SO BADLY to get into this discussion, but alas, no time. I hope you will accept this belated thank you.
By Peg O my heart on 05/28/2008 8:39 pm
Elizabeth Brock
The California Supreme Court made the right decision. Unfortunately, the people of California will probably vote against it sooner rather than later. The capacity for prejudice is almost limitless. The only silver lining I see on the horizon is the younger generation who, by and large, don’t have an overwhelming anti-gay bias. It is their generation that will not only permit, but actually encourage gays to marry, divorce, raise children and fully participate in society.
By Elizabeth Brock on 05/28/2008 1:32 pm