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Q & A | 07/08/2008 12:00 am

The Unhappy Would-Be First Ladies

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GAIL: You know, when I … people that have been … my editor and others who are going through this keep saying, "Oh, my God, I had forgotten that that was true." But, you know, when … I still have the first credit card I ever got, which was given to me at Macy’s by some lady standing in an aisle, you know, who told me to fill it out when I was still, I think, in college. But I was already married. And the name on the card is Mrs. Daniel Collins. And that’s the way I got the card. At Macy’s, I think my name is still Mrs. Daniel Collins. You couldn’t get credit on your own. Billie Jean King could not get credit when her husband was in law school and she was winning Wimbledon, because he had to sign the cards. You know, you had these cases in the ’70s of women who were mayors who couldn’t get credit unless their husbands signed for them.

LESLEY: Now, if you told my daughter that she would be shocked. And I lived through it. I lived through it.

GAIL: Women could not serve on juries in certain states in the 1960s.

LESLEY: In our lifetime.

GAIL: And it’s amazing. And, you know, whenever I get depressed about anything horrible that’s happening in this country, which can be frequent, I just … you just think about that for a minute, about the fact that visions of the way women should be and visions of the difference between the sexes and visions of the capacities of women that existed throughout Western civilization from millennia, broke down in our lifetimes. That is just such an amazing thought that it just knocks me out whenever I think about it.

It's really only been since Jackie Kennedy that there's been this idea that the family life of the president is such a central thing.

LESLEY: It’s huge. Here’s an interesting thing to contemplate. We talked a lot about Hillary Clinton running for president and doing so well, getting virtually half the votes. We’ve talked about the Secretary of State being a woman. We have the Speaker of the House, who’s a woman, and it’s forgotten. Now I wonder if it’s forgotten because people really think it’s not such a big deal and they just accept it. Or there’s something else. But Nancy Pelosi and what she’s accomplished, not only is she the Speaker of the House, she’s a successful Speaker of the House, and she’s a very powerful Speaker. And it never comes up.

GAIL: Well, I think that’s actually a tribute to her because my experience is that the only time people know who the Speaker of the House is, is when they really hate them. I don’t know of any beloved Speakers of the House. So I think she’s done very well in that. And when you think about it, after the vice president, the Speaker of the House is next in line for the presidency. And after that comes the Secretary of State. So of the four people of the presidential line, two of them right now are women.

LESLEY: And I don’t think I’ve ever heard anybody say that before you just said it.

GAIL: There you are — the thought for the day.

LESLEY: Television. What do you like to watch on TV?

GAIL: My all-time favorite program in my entire life was "Buffy the Vampire Slayer."

LESLEY: No! No! No, no, no.

GAIL: I’m sorry.

LESLEY: It can’t be.

GAIL: It is.

LESLEY: Yeah, you’re apologizing. I heard that. I’m sorry. That’s extraordinary.

GAIL: I love that program so much; I can’t tell you.

LESLEY: Why?

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James the Game
I wonder what it will be like one day when a woman is elected president and her husband is the First Gentleman. Unfortunately, as we saw in the Democratic presidential campaign, there is still a lack of faith or downright prejudice against women holding the top-drawer position. Not to say that Hillary Clinton’s campaign strategists didn’t drop the ball - they did - but the cynicism was still quite evident.
By James the Game on 07/08/2008 12:07 am
DeBúrca obj
I don’t think people had a problem with a woman being elected, I think they had a problem with Hillary… and have had a problem with her for years. That along with the failures within her campaign and perhaps a bit too much overconfidence at the beginning which gave her no strategy after “super” Tuesday.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/08/2008 12:37 am
Marjorie C.
JC, the problem is with the DNC. They (so far) have selected Obama. Hillary captured half the popular vote despite being overspent by enormous amounts. Hillary has no problem but with the DNC. She would make an excellent president.
By Marjorie C. on 07/08/2008 6:23 am
DeBúrca obj
Actually, the DNC had Hillary crowned as the Democratic nominee for several years before the Primary even started and definitely at the beginning of the Primary. That, in fact, turned a lot of people off Hillary Clinton along with her own aura of inevitability along with a flawed campaign. Obama came from a much less lofty position within the DNC but his enthusiastic, grassroots support and well runned, flexible campaign earned the nomination. The DNC at the end of the day had to back the person who was winning the nomination, but Obama was definitely not their first choice, Hillary was the one they had selected, she just didn’t win.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/08/2008 8:59 am
DeBúrca obj
TYPO correction: change “well runned” to “well run”. I really should preview before I submit!
By DeBúrca obj on 07/08/2008 9:01 am
Star Lawrence
There was way more to it than that…in my opinion. Obama did not just appear—he was groomed for this by someone and I still don’t know who.
By Star Lawrence on 07/08/2008 10:26 am
DeBúrca obj
He was groomed by the circumstances of his life and his DNA.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/08/2008 11:40 am
beth willis
I totally agree with you, Star. I have a name in mind, but I’m keepin’ to myself….due to caution, not paranoia. Peace and grace
By beth willis on 07/08/2008 12:56 pm
Lady Gator
Hello Star —-I almost fell over when I read your post. I’ve been saying this for a long time. When you look at where his money is coming from it’s a bit scary!
By Lady Gator on 07/08/2008 1:34 pm
Star Lawrence
There is a lot to this we don’t know yet…or most of us don’t.
By Star Lawrence on 07/08/2008 1:38 pm
DeBúrca obj
We have now raised 90 percent of our donations from small donors, $25, $50. We average — our average donation is $109 so we have built the kind of organization that is funded by the American people that is exactly the goal and the aim of everybody who’s interested in good government and politics supports.” - Obama campaign
By DeBúrca obj on 07/08/2008 1:51 pm
Marjorie C.
JC B, that is one swig of Kool-Aid that won’t go down.
By Marjorie C. on 07/08/2008 2:09 pm
DeBúrca obj
I am very dismayed, shocked and frankly, very frustrated by the number of Hillary Clinton supporters who repeatedly use every opportunity in their posts here to bash and discredit Barack Obama. The Primary is over. The GOP is counting on Democrats to form the usual “circular firing squad” against their own best interests and lose this election. Any Clinton supporter who wants Obama to lose this November, was obviously NOT voting for Clinton based upon issues. Because the fact is, Obama and Clinton are extremely close on all the issues and McCain is quite the opposite of either of them. Any Democrat, who cares about issues, would be a fool to not enthusiastically support any one of the extremely high quality candidates whom we were lucky enough to choose from at the onset of this election. Obama happened to win. The Primary is over. Clinton supporters need to grow up and quit all the moaning and Obama bashing or else be willing to accept responsibility when McCain gets in and gets to finish off the job Bush began with his eight years of imperialism, war, ignoring of the healthcare crisis AND the environment, aiding the Oil Companies in their greed for record breaking profits, running the country on a huge deficit… and worse of all, selling our Supreme Court to Corporate Interests and the anti-choice movement.
By DeBúrca obj on 07/08/2008 3:21 pm
No Way-No How -No McCain
Great post JC B.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/08/2008 4:20 pm
No Way-No How -No McCain
Though, actually 95% of his donations under $200.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 07/08/2008 4:23 pm