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Conversation | 06/27/2008 12:00 am

The New Catch-22 for Women

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Retirement: Will the money run out before we die, now that we live longer? Who will take care of us? Who will take care of anyone? Who do you have to take care of? And what do we think about money and retirement? These were some of the questions posed to the wOw women. Read on for the resulting conversation.

LIZ: The only way to retire is to have money; or to get old, or to get sick. I don’t think anybody can retire without money anymore, and it’s going to be proven now, in spades, with all of these people
retiring.

JANE: And I’m working on some information about going to Germany for stem cells for all of us. So when that happens, we’ll live close to forever. Stem cells are already being … being put into cosmetics and all kinds of things now. And we’ll be using them on the surface of our skin, and also taking injections.

LIZ: You’re quite right. They’re using them in all kinds of operations now, even though they haven’t been approved.

JANE: No, I know it. So I really think … that there is something out there that will make us live longer and we’ve got to get into it right now, and then worry about the money later. But if the stem cells really work, maybe we’ll be rejuvenated to the point where we’ll be able to work.

If I'm lucky, I'll probably go bankrupt one of these days. So I hope I do. I hope I live long enough to not have any more money.

LIZ: The stem cell argument, an ethical argument, is still going on in lawmaking and in the United States and so forth. And yet people are already going around the world to have stem-cell operations. I have a friend who has cancer of the bladder and he’s given up on the usual
treatment and he’s gone to have stem cell … some kind of stem cell thing, at a place that he won’t tell where he went.

JANE: I’ve already had neuropeptides injections, which is the closest thing to stem cells, for the brain. And I can’t tell any difference, but hopefully it’s done something.

LIZ: Oh, I think you’re a lot smarter now than you used to be.

MARY: Did you do that in the United States?

JANE: No. The doctor was from Germany and came to a holistic doctor’s office here.

MARY: Well Germany does a lot of that, yes.

JANE: It was almost like a placebo effect, because I felt better doing something, you know? And I know he’s very respected in, I think it’s Frankfurt or Hamburg. And this is a place where, I think I’ve talked about it with you, Mary. Siegfried and Roy went for treatment after Roy’s accident.

MARY: Right.

JANE: … and we’re going to find out about it. There is someone here who can help us find out more about the treatments.

LIZ: And there’s that book … The Singularity Is Near: When Humans Transcend Biology by Ray Kurzweil.

JANE: He co-wrote a book about vitamins with a doctor. He takes over 200 vitamins a day.

MARY: We’re taking all his vitamins. You can get them on the Internet.

JANE: I know. I may switch to his regimen from Life Extension … well his book, I think it’s called Fantastic Voyage: Live Long Enough to Live Forever.

MARY: The late Dr. Helen Singer Kaplan said, "Some day, not too long from now, a group such as us will be sitting around and we’ll be saying, ‘Oh, think about 1990. People actually died back then.’"

LIZ: Oh, my God.

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phyllis Doyle Pepe
My Alias: You have every right to worry, but perhaps things will right themselves after a time and we won’t lose Social Security. By the by, I always pack my own groceries in cloth bags much to the chagrin of some of these youngsters who always seem to put the eggs on the bottom of a large cantaloupe––sigh~~~~~~
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 06/27/2008 2:29 pm
Star Lawrence
The Millennials I know are flitting from job to job when they get bored. They would not stoop to bagging.
By Star Lawrence on 06/27/2008 2:56 pm
Vivvy Stewart
Really! They also can’t be bothered to put away their damn cell phones and think that sending & receiving text messages is protected by the Bill of Rights. Oh wait…they skipped school that day! Nevermind. Add my name to the “I’ll bag ‘em myself in canvas” list.
By Vivvy Stewart on 06/28/2008 8:46 am
Diana T
Dear Lily, You sure brought up a sore spot with me. Why is it, even though I practically get on my knees and beg them, that the baggers insist upon putting all the heavy objects in one bag and the fluffy stuff in another??? Is it too difficult or profound to interpret the sentence, “Please lay bottles on sides at the bottom and Distribute the weight of the bags evenly”. I used to think that going to the grocery store was such fun…
By Diana T on 06/28/2008 7:51 pm
Elisabeth S
Lily and Diana T, it is a pet peeve of mine too. Do they not train these individuals. My store has several older men who don’t seem to get it any better than the kids. I guess everybody should have to shop, carry home, unload, put away, cook and clean up for a week or two to “get the picture” To me it just seems like common sense.
By Elisabeth S on 06/29/2008 1:43 pm
C A Rose
Elisabeth, Ditto on the pet peeve. We have one grocery chain that hires Down’s Syndrome adults and others mentally challenged to do the bagging. They are the best, funniest, most diligent, and helpful. For every soul there is a purpose…
By C A Rose on 07/01/2008 12:14 am
Frannie Em
C A Rose Same here. They hire the deaf here as well.
By Frannie Em on 07/01/2008 1:14 am
Get Sporty
Re Vitamins-I believed Mary mentioned. I met with a top nutritionist who said that little vitamin value is derived from pill form but mostly flushed down the toilet. That powders and liquids are the most absorbable. I’ve switched around a bit, but superfood/green based powders like “Life Essence” master multiple and their “Ionic-Fizz Calcium Plus” make me feel stronger. There was a great piece in the NTY this AM on exercise. More than anything—exercise, good nutrition and top quality supplements are the fountain of youth and my mainstays before anything else. http://www.nytimes.com/2008/06/24/health/24brod.html?ei=5087&em=&en=035d…
By Get Sporty on 06/27/2008 12:40 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
I fail to see why vitamins in pill form would be any less effective than powders or liquids except that the latter would be absorbed more quickly. We do know that taking too much of something will not be absorbed——ends up in your urine. That is why if you are counting calcium intake do not take your vitamin pill (which has calcium) at the same time as your calcium pill because your body can only absorb a certain amount.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 06/27/2008 2:44 pm
Elisabeth S
Thanks Phyllis I didn’t know that and count on my vitamins to keep chronic pain and fatigue at bay. How come the health store never mentioned this? Oh-well, thanks. I am enjoying this conversation.
By Elisabeth S on 06/27/2008 8:00 pm
kermie b
This is important and should be a major discussion by itself. I take Lutein supplements for my incredibly awful eyesight (cannot find my glasses unless I leave them in the same exact spot every night), so is that wasted money? I really want to know; these vitamins are expensive.
By kermie b on 06/29/2008 6:03 am
JJ GB
ki b, I take Lutien on the reccommendation of my Opthalmologist. He seems to think it will help me with my vision problems. I don’t notice a difference, but maybe IF I didn’t take it daily, I would. He seems to think it’s a good move so I do. I keep glasses all over the house and in my purse, so I can find at least one pair eventually somewhere.
By JJ GB on 06/29/2008 11:48 pm
C A Rose
ki b, I leave my glasses in the same place every night as well…not that I can’t see them, I can’t remember where I put them otherwise.
By C A Rose on 07/01/2008 12:18 am
No Way-No How -No McCain
Phyllis, Many today, including me, take superfood based supplements in liquid or powder form, because our 10 trillion cells are replaced and reprogrammed every 7 years by our DNA which requires 90 essential minerals, vitamins and amino acids that are not produced internally to do the job. These must be absorbed from nutrition, however most foods lack these nutrients, and our soils are depleted of them too. Nearly all supplements are synthetics made in labs and contain chemicals, petrol-byproducts, dyes, sugar, preservatives and other inorganics that can’t be physiologically converted, including due to age-related malabsorption. Because synthetics are not plan/superfoods based they partially assimilated, if that. Also nutrients need to be digested in families from real food otherwise there are imbalances, ie vitamin B12 depleted by too much vitamin C, which are then just flushed out, or deposited in tissues creating other problems. For example: a too acid diet creates fat because the body will draw acid from the system, ie from too much coffee and other acid foods like meat, and store it in fat away from organs that can be damaged by acid; and then hold onto that fat. The body will also deposit fat along the artery/vein walls to protect them from the acid, and clogging them. So diets must also be properly alkaline—which superfoods ensure too because they are green. Often when people get colonics undigested supplements are discovered stuck in their intestines, that can remain there for years. The body repairs and builds itself with wholefoods that contain live enzymes. Two ideal cellular wholefoods are blue green algae and fresh wheatgrass, which contain chlorophyll, protein, all the essential vitamins, minerals and amino acids in a predigested form.
By No Way-No How -No McCain on 06/29/2008 1:18 am
kermie b
Holy crap!
By kermie b on 06/29/2008 6:04 am