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Question of the Day | 07/23/2009 11:00 pm

Are you still a beach person? What beach phobias are you hiding?

Are you afraid of the waves now? Do you fear jellyfish or sharks? Join Cynthia McFadden, Candice Bergen, Marlo Thomas, Mary Wells and Judith Martin in the conversation …
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Cynthia McFadden

Cynthia McFadden | 07/24/2009 7:00 am

Cynthia McFadden's Terrifying Day at the Beach

I love the beach but am more respectful of the attached water. When my son was six, he and I were caught in a terrifying undertow at Martha’s Vineyard – which later that day claimed a man’s life. I am a former certified lifeguard and was once fearless about the water, no longer.

Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 07/24/2009 6:45 pm

Marlo Thomas, California Girl

I’m a California girl, and always will be. I love the beach. My favorite stretch of sand in the whole world is the western shore of Barbados. The water is as blue as Paul Newman’s eyes, and as warm as a hot tub. I could spend all day there – and usually do. (And, by the way, I wouldn’t call fear of sharks and jelly fish phobic!)

Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 07/25/2009 4:00 pm

Candice Bergen's Love/Hate Relationship

I have always had a love/hate thing with the ocean. My brother taught my daughter to be ocean safe and confident and she loves it. I still swim sometimes, despite my advanced age, and kayak. My husband and I take our dogs on a beach walk every morning. Unless we’re in the city. Then we don’t. And I wear board shorts mostly to swim now and would wear slacks if I wouldn’t drown. And I hate the jellyfish. Who doesn’t? Sharks I don’t deal with. And I hope for dolphins if I swim in L.A.

Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 07/26/2009 6:00 pm

Judith Martin Will Take the Sea – But Not the Sand

I have never understood beaches. Mind you, I’m crazy about water – rivers, lakes, oceans, canals, bathtubs, even puddles if they’re outdoors and have nice reflections in them. But is it really a sensible idea to cover your body with oil and then lie down in sand?

Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 07/26/2009 6:00 pm

Mary Wells's Sea Lessons

I grew up in Ohio and was stunned when I was ten and first saw the sea. I didn’t know enough geography to know any of the seas and oceans existed.  That first view gave me an idea about living and I am only happy living close to water. But not sand. Sand has more bacteria than the water washing up on it. The water may clear up but it leaves its bacteria from many sources behind. Every skin infection I ever had came from sand until a scientist explained sand to me.

Jellyfish are increasing dramatically because they love polluted water. The ones we saw in the bay of Kotor were like bridal bouquets with satin ribbons and the bay was crowded and pulsating with them. "No swimming," a very old woman shook her finger at me. "I’m not crazy," I told her. "They’re singing to you," she said. They were in fact making a weird sound. I got out of there! The ones in the South of France are tiny circles, almost invisible. They give a mighty sting. I just have to look at water – not swim in it. Although now that Candy has given me the idea of swimming in my bicycle shorts I might get into the pool with the grandchildren.

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Green Tears

Beaches have been, are and always will be some of the most beautiful places on earth. Whether blissfully tranquil or violently angry (like this morning on the New England coast), beaches are magnificent natural works of art.

I have no fears about beachgoing - if one uses common sense, one can spend a day at the beach and avoid the hazards while still enjoying the view. As for this summer, the weather here has provided less than a week of ‘beach days’ and our family has joined a club with a pool so any sunbathing I might do will take place there.

By Green Tears on 07/24/2009 6:50 am
Eldebbo C
I have only been to Florida beaches, but I love every minute of it when I’m there. I have no beach phobias. I’m somewhat of an adventurist and love getting out in the waters. There serenity in standing on the beach sand and starring out into the endless ocean water. PRICELESS!!!
By Eldebbo C on 07/24/2009 7:14 am
Kris Merrill
Love beaches, especially the ones in Abaco, the Bahamas. Only phobia was caused by almost stepping on a rattle snake on Kiawa beach!
By Kris Merrill on 07/24/2009 7:29 am
Eileen Alannah
I like to *look* at the water and wade in it a bit. ; ) Never liked it even as a kid, got smacked around too many times, sand up my nose, sand everywhere, caught in undertows, wrapped myself around a pier once trying to save myself, was bit by a jellyfish, stung like crazy and I was always scared of that BIG WAVE that might sneak up behind me so I was always looking over my shoulder and panicking. haha I gave people plenty to laugh about! I guess some of us are not ocean girls. I did grow up on a lake though and would swim across it, jump off huge rocks into it (landed once on a snake and got right back in soon after) so it is just the ocean that I keep at a thigh’s length.
By Eileen Alannah on 07/24/2009 7:43 am
Lee Harrison
I still LOVE the beach…but am less enamored with cold water.  Give me bath tub temps, please!
By Lee Harrison on 07/24/2009 7:48 am
C Hardy
I am no longer a beach person…I cant stand the sand everywhere…It stays with you all the way home and I mean HOME…When my now hubby was in Iraq that sand made its way into every letter and package he ever sent home…after those 8 months, the beach for my husband and all the sand is just not his favorite spot.
By C Hardy on 07/24/2009 7:49 am
Deena B.
You and I are so on the same page here.  I love to look at the beach (from afar).  I love to hear the sound of the waves outside my window at night.  But I simply cannot abide the sand.  I hate that grungy feeling that goes with it.  Whenever we vacation at the beach, it takes me weeks to get it all out of our clothes, etc…  Unfortunately, I am outnumbered in our household.  My husband and daughter LOVE the beach. 
By Deena B. on 07/24/2009 8:31 am
Chrome Toe
I love beaches but not longer "hang out" on them like I used to. for one i don’t tolerate the sun and heat like i used to. i used to spend and entire day on a beach reading, swimming and laying out. Now i can do it for about two hours then i’m done.
By Chrome Toe on 07/24/2009 8:05 am
Maggie W

I have been to Cabo San Lucas several times.  At the tip, there are signs posted very clearly.. NO SWIMMING.  This is an interesting area because it is where two oceans meet, and the undertow is fierce.  In spite of that, tourists who have had one margarita too many still jump into that water and get into serious trouble quickly.  

I love the beach but never wade more than ankle deep. An encounter with a jellyfish a few years back has made me more respectful of what is in the water .

 

By Maggie W on 07/24/2009 8:47 am
Karen R

Beach phobias? Maybe Canada goose poop and the stray sharp object, but that’s it. That’s one of the major advantages of the Great Lakes - fresh water and only fresh water critters. There can be hazardous currents, but if you respect the weather, the Lakes, and your own limitations you’ll be fine.

I don’t ever want to leave the Lakes basin. i grew up canoeing and swimming the lakes and rivers here, rowed while in college and, although I can have my kayak down to the river and on the water within 30 minutes of getting home from work, I still get a visceral urge to run over to one of the big lakes every so often.  Being near or on the water is like breathing to me. 

Oh, one more thing - I was looking for a good photo to link here and while browsing was reminded - we don’t have seashells and coral beaches like ocean beaches - we have sand and rocks. Rock hunting,  boat watching ( http://www.boatnerd.com ), and lighthouse touring are givens here.

My fellow Ann Arborite Lars takes great photos. These are from up near the tip of the little finger of Michigan’s mitten - http://www-personal.umich.edu/~jensenl/visuals/album/2007/traverse/

By Karen R on 07/24/2009 9:18 am
Jennifer Michaels
Those are spectacular pictures, Michigan is beautiful.
By Jennifer Michaels on 07/24/2009 9:27 am
Karen R

water but not beach related - the last weekend in July, starting Saturday night - sees the running of the annual AuSable River Canoe Marathon - Grayling to Oscoda - the 62nd year this year - 16 hours and 120 miles of competitive paddling starting at 9 pm with the run to the river, boat and gear in hand

The AuSable is known as a great trout stream, but not this section this weekend :-)

http://www.ausablecanoemarathon.org/sub-index.html

By Karen R on 07/24/2009 10:06 am
James the Game

Great photos, Karen. The Lake Michigan side up near Charlevoix/Traverse City are quite breathtaking, huh? They’ve had the annual Chicago-to-Mackinaw Island sailboat race going on this past week. That would be a blast. One day, if I ever get rich, I’m going to get a beachhouse on Lake Michigan, and a big powerboat, and go boating all summer long. Swimming, grilling out with those sunsets in the background, great friends all around, refreshing swimming, and - hopefully - a romantic night afterward. Or, just sit out there and roast marshmallows beachside. Karen, maybe you, me and Chris Broersma (all Michiganians/Michiganders) on wOw can hook up next summer for a canoe excursion?!

Another place I like is the Intracoastal in Lauderdale-by-the-Sea, FLA. Nothing spectacular, but cool.

By James the Game on 07/24/2009 11:16 am
Karen R

The Port Huron to Mackinac race starts tomorrow around 11:30 a.m. Pure Michigan is going to provide GPS tracking along with wind speed and direction indicators and barometric readings for anyone who wants to follow the race online - http://www.michigan.org/bayview/

By Karen R on 07/24/2009 12:34 pm
James the Game

Hi, Karen. Sounds good. I’ve got a busy day planned Saturday, though. I sit on a Black Belt testing board at 1pm ET.

Hey, the Tigers beat the White Sox in the first game of their day-night doubleheader. We need to put some breathing room between us and the Sox.

By James the Game on 07/24/2009 3:30 pm