I have lived most of my adult life worried about the front page of The New York Times. As in how would I feel if this were on the front page of The New York Times? Thus, during my entire career, I’ve been careful … certainly in letters (except once and it came back to haunt me), conversations with people I don’t know well and now with e-mail. In terms of personal life, I came up in a generation that didn’t take nude photos of each other.