Margo Howard | 10/09/2009 2:00 pm
A Letterman Update: More Information, More Thoughts, by Margo Howard

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Editor’s Note: A longtime journalist, Margo Howard went into the
family business (her mother was the fabled Ann Landers) in the 1990s as
Dear Prudence. Her broad experience and understanding of human nature
provide answers for the troubled — and entertainment for everyone else. Margo’s advice column, Dear Margo, appears twice a week — on Thursdays and Fridays — on wowOwow.com.
Well, now I think Dave has real trouble. It has come to light that the young assistant at the center of the Letterman/Halderman drama was being paid $200,000 a year and was sent to law school, courtesy of Letterman, with the promise that she would become his personal attorney. A guy can always be in the company of his attorney, right? Then it appears she was taken on trips “with the family,” with Regina none the wiser.
Now my guess is the humiliation is too overwhelming to overlook. My earlier thought was that the Lettermans would work it out, but now I ain’t so sure. I still think young Harry is the glue in that marriage, but he wouldn’t be the first kid to go between Mommy’s house and Daddy’s house. Were Regina to write me, I would encourage her to opt out of this humiliating arrangement and, as they say, take the money and run. I have no idea what their prenup says, but he is loaded, and given what’s gone on, her life would continue as lavishly as before. The guilty party is quite evident here … plus, the mother gets the kid, no question.
There is just so much a girl can put up with, and with each revelation he is looking more like a skunk. I wrote my previous piece with the information I had. Knowing what I know now, I am no longer sympathetic. It is quite clear that Dave, like many another middle-aged guy, cannot resist the chase and, alas, 20-some years with one woman has become totally boring to him. A pity. I believe that in any real sense he has already lost the cozy family of three, and if more drek comes out, he may lose his show. Stay tuned.
Well, now I think Dave has real trouble. It has come to light that the young assistant at the center of the Letterman/Halderman drama was being paid $200,000 a year and was sent to law school, courtesy of Letterman, with the promise that she would become his personal attorney. A guy can always be in the company of his attorney, right? Then it appears she was taken on trips “with the family,” with Regina none the wiser.
Now my guess is the humiliation is too overwhelming to overlook. My earlier thought was that the Lettermans would work it out, but now I ain’t so sure. I still think young Harry is the glue in that marriage, but he wouldn’t be the first kid to go between Mommy’s house and Daddy’s house. Were Regina to write me, I would encourage her to opt out of this humiliating arrangement and, as they say, take the money and run. I have no idea what their prenup says, but he is loaded, and given what’s gone on, her life would continue as lavishly as before. The guilty party is quite evident here … plus, the mother gets the kid, no question.
There is just so much a girl can put up with, and with each revelation he is looking more like a skunk. I wrote my previous piece with the information I had. Knowing what I know now, I am no longer sympathetic. It is quite clear that Dave, like many another middle-aged guy, cannot resist the chase and, alas, 20-some years with one woman has become totally boring to him. A pity. I believe that in any real sense he has already lost the cozy family of three, and if more drek comes out, he may lose his show. Stay tuned.
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He gets as stupid as most men. Having worked in the adult arena, as well as being a scorned girlfriend, it has always amazed what costs men are willing to bear for an orgasm (sorry to be so blunt, but there it is). Not just personal, but monetary. It’s staggering. What was 2 minutes of my time and forgotten a few hours later, has been worth thousands to someone else and probably still thought about, if not actively bragged about (:::snicker:::) today.
A lot of people like to give them a pass for their "sex addiction," but they’re actually just opportunists allowing little brain to control big brain. All men are sex addicts when it gets right down to it, and for the most part, present 99.9% of men with an opportunity and a pretty good idea he wouldn’t be caught (idea by little brain, not big brain) and he’s going to go for it. A wife, a child, 20+ year relationship, a reputation, possibly a show, $200,000, and the stress of discovery that probably added to his heart issues, all in pursuit of… something he could get by himself in a men’s room with a magazine or even just a good imagination.
ahhhhh but Karleen, the thrill isn’t about sex, it’s the venture - the power, the surge to keep from "getting caught."
On vacations with the family? Oh my oh may. That’s not very nice. … Most of the men I’ve known to wander never were particularly grateful for favors. It always seemed to me it was the young woman who teased, who withheld, but who at the same time only had eyes for him, who won in the end. Guess that’s old fashioned. Well. I hope everyone had a good time. Because if what you’re saying is true, Margo, the party just may be over.
Paula Pow,
Ditto, I agree with your post 100%. Thank you.
Paula Pow,
Davey isn’t thinking of his wife or child, he only thinks of himself. He is so arrogant and thought by making a joke of it would only add more viewers to watch his show, which it did, and that is so very sad. I hope many women see this as a disgrace and tune him out and write the sponsors and let them know you plan to boycott their products. If women don’t start stepping up and saying "Hell no" and stop letting men belittle them, then we have a long ways to go. I think Ann Landers would have addressed this in a much better way instead of wanting to bed the man, she would have had his clothes thrown out on the lawn and let take him to court. Which I hope still happens. If you haven’t read the previous posts earlier this week on the subject, do so, you will be shocked at the attitude then compared to now.