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The Liz Smith Column | 05/13/2009 11:00 pm

Liz Smith: Jane Fonda – She's Finally 'Legit' at Sardi's

Also from Our Gossip Girl: the Literacy Partners’ big, big night and Allison Janney’s best Australian friend (cuter than Hugh Jackman).
Jane Fonda © AP
“Whether women are better than men I cannot say – but I can say they are certainly no worse,” said the Israeli leader Golda Meir.

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Great Britain’s Daily Telegraph, one of my pop-culture guilty pleasures, is holding the feet of Tory grandees to the fire. And they are adding titled persons who take advantage, as well as politicians in general.

The paper has opened its front pages for several weeks with photos of offenders who misuse their privileges and charge the government for everything from their swimming pools, to repair of their lawn mowers, the upkeep of domestic staff and on and on. Sometimes these offenses take up the first three pages. Just imagine if The Washington Post or The New York Times decided to do that about our own lawmakers in Washington!!

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They put Jane Fonda’s caricature up in Sardi’s famous theater restaurant this week. And all because of her current, incredibly good Tony-nominated performance on Broadway in “33 Variations,” a show that she herself produced. It’s taken only 46 years for Jane Fonda, a household name, to make it up on the walls at the house of hams and cannelloni. (It was back in 1960 that Jane made her theater début in “There Was a Little Girl.”) 

And this reminds me of a story. I was lunching in Sardi’s not long ago with my godchild, Spencer, and his mother, Cynthia McFadden, and we were wondering if the caricature of Katharine Hepburn was still there in the restaurant. Spencer decided he wanted to see it because he remembered his “Aunt Katty” from the years just before her death.

We asked the headwaiter and he found us the great Kate’s drawing, even bringing it to our table. “Would you like to have it during lunch?” asked the man. He then brought up a chair next to Spencer and stood Miss Hepburn’s framed likeness on it.

We lunched with Katharine Hepburn that day and we all enjoyed the visit.

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The famed Nobu restaurant in Tribeca, the brainchild of movie star Robert De Niro, chef Nobu Matsuhisa and partner Richie Notar, is weathering the recession as if it never happened. Now this idea is a global chain with 20 Nobus across five continents. There are Nobus today in Dubai and Cape Town.

The company says now it is pointing toward opening hotels on the Nobu concept. Notar says, “Instead of putting Nobus into hotels, which we do at the moment, we want to build hotels around Nobu.”

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Texans know how to mourn their own. Willie Nelson sang at the writer Bud Shrake’s funeral in Austin. The audience about lost it when he came to the words about angels being too close to earth. The speakers were funny, irreverent and a little sad.

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Literacy Partners hit the jackpot the other night with its authors’ readings in Lincoln Center’s new David H. Koch Theater (formerly the State Theater). By the end of the evening — and with Sony sweetening the auction deal by providing dozens of the latest Sony Reader Digital Books —  they had raised $1,150,000 plus.

Barbara Walters, David Wroblewski, Marie Brenner and Christopher Buckley were our stars. They wrangled the audience from tears to laughter. One of our student readers, Emma Davis, slayed us by telling how she is now going for her PhD. The wonderful playwright Stephen Daldry stepped up to accept an award for Kate Winslet and their movie, “The Reader.” (Kate studied with Literacy Partners for the role and won an Oscar.)

As the host of the Literacy event, along with Arnold Scaasi and Parker Ladd, I had an easy job and, also, I got to dance with the nine-time Tony-winner Tommy Tune when the Bob Hardwick Orchestra began to play. (And Tommy never dances except for money as a rule.) 

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Elizabeth Bennett
I do not believe you have been paying attention.  Jane Fonda has variously apologized and expressed regret for the way in which her presence in Vietnam was manipulated by Hanoi to cause harm.  It is in numerous interviews.  it is in her memoir.  Really, she is a lovely person who was trying to bring to an end a war that cost 50,000 American lives and uncounted Southeast Asian lives, her purpose was noble.  Many of us were trying to end the same war with marches and letters to the editors and votes for less hawkish members of Congress and more.  For some people she will continue to be a lightening rod because she was there.  But she was not alone.  Even Pope Paul VI wanted to mediate an end to the Vietnam war. 
By Elizabeth Bennett on 05/14/2009 1:50 pm
Lisa M

Richard Basset has quoted below precisely how Jane Fonda feels.

And this is exactly what I mean… She is only directly apologizing for the PHOTOGRAPH. She is not apologizing for any of actions. And to characterize her actions as thoughtless and careless is a grave understatement. She sounds sorry about the pain that was caused, but she never says that what she did was wrong or that she wouldn’t do it again (except for being PHOTOGRAPHED with the anti-aircraft gun.

By Lisa M on 05/14/2009 2:59 pm
roberta wickham
What specific actions do you think she needs to apologize for, that she hasn’t apologized for already?   Aside from the phony note-passing story, there were other things Jane supposedly did — which she did not in fact do.  Certainly, she had the right to demonstrate against the war if she was opposed to it, didn’t she?
By roberta wickham on 05/14/2009 3:19 pm
Frannie Em

Elizabeth

What did she expect Hanoi to do?  They were killing Americans.  What did she expect them to do? 

By Frannie Em on 05/15/2009 3:48 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Her actions were nothing compared to the consequences of the lies the Bush administration told the American people.  Are you also unable to support them as well?
By Mugsy Peabody on 05/14/2009 3:04 pm
Mugsy Peabody
Are you apologetic about living all these years on this earth and having learned absolutely nothing about forgiveness?
By Mugsy Peabody on 05/16/2009 4:40 am
Richard Bassett
"I would like to say something, not just to Vietnam veterans in New England, but to men who were in Vietnam, who I hurt, or whose pain I caused to deepen because of things that I said or did. I was trying to help end the killing and the war, but there were times when I was thoughtless and careless about it and I’m very sorry that I hurt them. And I want to apologize to them and their families. […] I will go to my grave regretting the photograph of me in an anti-aircraft gun, which looks like I was trying to shoot at American planes. It hurt so many soldiers. It galvanized such hostility. It was the most horrible thing I could possibly have done. It was just thoughtless…"Jane Fonda 1988
By Richard Bassett on 05/14/2009 2:16 pm
Frannie Em
THank you Richard, you have answered my question.  I believe that is a true and heartfelt apology.  
By Frannie Em on 05/15/2009 2:19 pm
Barbara B
Roberts I know what I saw on Television & what I read in reputal papers back then.  Also why any need for an apology.  Her own father was upset.  I never watch her movies and I consider her an opportunist and that will never change in my mind. Any Mother who sent their sons to Vietnam will agree.  I had two brothers who went and to this day they would spit in her face.
By Barbara B on 05/14/2009 2:44 pm
Mugsy Peabody
So what?  You are intolerant and unforgiving to someone you don’t even know.  Is this something you are proud of?  The US Army murdered innocent people in Vietnam by the thousands over oil.  Is this something you are proud of?  Does anyone care whether you watch Ms. Fonda’s movies or what you consider her?  Not really.
By Mugsy Peabody on 05/14/2009 3:06 pm
roberta wickham

What you seem to be saying here is that you are an inflexible person who refuses to be swayed from your misconceptions and prejudices, even when documented proof is presented to you.  

 And let’s be clear on this:  you don’t speak for all mothers whose sons fought in Vietnam, or the families of all Vietnam veterans, so kindly don’t pretend that you do.

By roberta wickham on 05/14/2009 3:14 pm
Patricia Sprofera
Jane Fonda offered her apology many years ago.  We can chose to accept it, or not.  Ms. Fonda made her decision and we have to make our own decision, as well.
By Patricia Sprofera on 05/14/2009 3:29 pm
Andrea Brandon
I ignore Roberta Wickham’s posts as a rule. However, her belief that much of Fonda’s history regarding Hanoi was debunked should not be construed as being completely accurate. Fonda, then about 34 years of age, caused enormous dissention and for some POW’s the feeling that America had deserted them. Photos don’t lie. Check out the Wellesley University website. http://www.wellesley.edu/Polisci/wj/Vietimages/fonda.htm

One of the sub-links shows more pictures of Jane cavorting with Vietnamese and an excellent historical account compiled by former Medic John Dennison.  http://www.1stcavmedic.com/jane_fonda.htm

 

The Washington Times stated on July 7, 2000:

 On November 21, 1970 she told a University of Michigan audience of some two thousand students, "If you understood what communism was, you would hope, you would pray on your knees that we would some day become communist." At Duke University in North Carolina she repeated what she had said in Michigan, adding "I, a socialist, think that we should strive toward a socialist society, all the way to communism. " Snopes isn’t necessarily an authority on urban legends. Unless you can validate their findings yourself you would be wise not to believe that Snopes has all the information and is not the decided authority. For those who think I should forgive and forget…….get over it. It won’t happen. And just so you know, forgiving and forgetting are not the cure alls that most people seem to think they are.
By Andrea Brandon on 05/14/2009 3:54 pm
roberta wickham

Nobody is pretending that she didn’t pose for those pictures.

By the way, Wellesley is a college, not a university.   And the debunking on Snopes has appeared in countless other places.   Of course, if you are determined to cling to your hate on Jane — along with all of the other folks in your Garden of Dislike —  then cling away.    Somehow, I’m not surprised that you are an advocate of grudge-bearing, rather than forgiving and forgetting.

 Today, Hanoi is a lovely place for tourists to visit.

By roberta wickham on 05/14/2009 4:23 pm
Andrea Brandon

Roberta, then I suggest you go off to Hanoi.

By Andrea Brandon on 05/14/2009 7:20 pm