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Margo Howard | 06/29/2009 8:45 am

Margo Howard on the Aftershock of Michael Jackson's Death

Our Dear Margo reports to wowOwow from Paris on the news of, speculation around and celebrities touched by the King of Pop’s sudden passing at the age of 50.
Margo Howard

Editor’s Note: A longtime journalist, Margo Howard went into the family business (her mother was the fabled Ann Landers) in the 1990s as Dear Prudence. Her broad experience and understanding of human nature provide answers for the troubled — and entertainment for everyone else. Margo’s advice column, Dear Margo, appears twice a week — on Thursdays and Fridays — on wowOwow.com.

I am in Paris, with Liza Minnelli and Usher. Well, not with, but we’re all in Paris. How do I know this? They are all over CNN International because Michael Jackson died, they were among his good friends and Larry King said they were in Paris.

It seems that all of Michael Jackson’s friends are being interviewed. Quincy Jones, the CEO of Ebony magazine, Miko Brando, Deepak Chopra, Michael’s sister (I cannot tell which one … Janet maybe?). Oh, and Mark Geragos, the lawyer who won him an acquittal in the California child molestation case. Geragos, in answer to Larry King’s question of whether or not people should, for now, "put aside any unpleasant aspects" of Michael’s life," said, "Definitely. Now is a time for mourning and appreciation." And of course we have seen a statement released by Elizabeth Taylor saying that "her heart is broken."

I have a question: Why did not any of these friends step in and insist he get help?

I am not even talking about the pedophile business; I doubt that a loving friend, or even the Kiddie-Interest wing of the Betty Ford Clinic could solve that one. I am talking about his addictions. I knew he was on something (or some things) and I didn’t even know him! It just strikes me as odd that all kinds of celebrities (let us not even count the throngs all over the world keeping "a vigil") are dumbstruck and shocked, shocked, that Michael checked out in the prime of life. Maybe when you’re super-famous no one dares to bring up the elephant in the room … or in Jackson’s case, apparently, a small herd. My guess is that "his own personal physician," a cardiologist, no less, may have much to answer for. The drugs so far mentioned in relation to Jackson all, in excessive amounts, take a toll on one’s heart. The toxicology screen, when it comes back in several weeks, will answer many questions.

I do want to say one positive thing about Deepak Chopra. Going against Geragos’s wish to leave aside the "unsavory aspects" of Jackson’s life for now, Chopra did volunteer that he had spoken to Michael about the danger of hanging out with people who would get you drugs. He went on to blame the docs "who attach themselves to the entourage." He said that whenever he began this discussion Michael "would change the subject."

One headline said that "Show business killed Michael Jackson." I would probably disagree with that statement. What probably is indisputable is that Michael Jackson is, for the first time in a long time, finally resting in peace.

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Jaki Kennedy
When a person surrounds themself with sycophants, the very LAST THING they are going to want to hear and/or deal with is the truth. Which is why they surround themselves with the ‘enablers’ in the first place. The entourage is in place simply to keep at bay those who would intrude and allow reason to come to the forefront.
By Jaki Kennedy on 06/29/2009 9:15 am
Kelly In Texas

La-La Land…thine name is Hollywood.

What part of an entitled, psudo-reality existence…do people not understand here? Celebrities function on a different level of reality, in a different world than others.

Personal responsibility seems to escape many of them….and the adoring public make allowances, in my opinion…to the detriment of our youth.

By Kelly In Texas on 06/29/2009 1:17 pm
Andrea Brandon

Kelly,

So true. And at the risk of inciting the wrath of many Jackson fans, I fervently wish that the Los Angeles television stations would come to understand that Jackson’s affairs are no reason to cancel television programs or break into them with "breaking news." No kidding. CBS and KCAL news just broke into a medical show to show Rev Al Sharpton visiting a memorial for Jackson. Good gawd, this is breaking news??????

 Am sick of morning, noon, and night coverage. It only proves in my mind that the people who work for these stations are just kids. I have no interest in the topic and resent the intrusion in my life.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/29/2009 1:48 pm
Kelly In Texas

Andrea….NEWS ALERT….Michael Jackson is still dead!

I’m with you, enough already…and now…here come the "racist" comments…oh ya…although Jackson has bleached his skin white, surgically altered his African America features, married only white women and became a father to only white children…the white community is being accused of racism because the child abuse cases are being mentioned in the news.

I am sorry…but this Nation is in for one of the worst periods of race relations that we have known in decades. It is coming.

 

By Kelly In Texas on 06/30/2009 12:15 pm
Andrea Brandon

Kelly,

Yes, I feel it coming, too.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/30/2009 1:51 pm
Kelly In Texas

Andrea..did you hear the comments by Jaime Fox and P Diddy (or Puff Daddy, or Sean John or whatever he goes by now) on the Jackson coverage?

 

By Kelly In Texas on 06/30/2009 10:04 pm
Andrea Brandon

Kelly,

I’ve been involved in a huge project all day and have not even gone a-lurking on the wowowow website, much less any place else. [Maybe because I know it’s full of Jackson and I’m sick of the news by now.]

Dare I ask what they said?

By Andrea Brandon on 06/30/2009 10:19 pm
Kelly In Texas

Well Andrea…Mr. Diddy seems to think that the coverage about the pedophile charges is racists. Mr. Fox has decided to claim Jackson as belonging only to the African American community…

I have a question…where ANY of the children that complained of abuse, Afro-American? No?

No, I have 2 questions…does Mr. Fox think that only African Americans bought Jackson music and attened Jackson concerts?

 

By Kelly In Texas on 07/01/2009 9:47 am
Andrea Brandon

Kelly,

ROTFALMAO

Sheesh….that’s just too stupid for words. I wonder if he even realizes it. Shake your head and hear the bells.

 

By Andrea Brandon on 07/01/2009 5:16 pm
deber B
Kelly, I have always loved Michael Jackson’s music and "in his day" he was a stellar showman.   However, personally, he was an odd duck and questionable.    And someone said that he was an astute businessman….well, I don’t think so…$500 million in debt?   That’s not my kind of successful businessman if you know what I mean.
By deber B on 06/29/2009 5:39 pm
beth willis

We are in total agreement on this one, deber B.

Peace…for Miichael….and Grace…..for those of us who put one foot in front of the other and keep going.

By beth willis on 06/30/2009 8:39 am
Kristy B
Deepak Chopra was on CNN stating that he had tried to MJ regarding his addictions many times.  MJ even asked DC for oxycontin.
By Kristy B on 06/29/2009 9:19 am
Andrea Brandon
He was an addict for a long, long time.
By Andrea Brandon on 06/30/2009 1:53 pm
Laurie Morgan
I wish someone would speak to the feelings of the people that may have been victimized by this monster in the wake of all the celebration of his life.  I cannot imagine how painful it must be to have your molester receive such an outpouring of love and attention while your pain goes unacknowledged.
By Laurie Morgan on 06/29/2009 9:28 am
C Hardy
He was found not quilty - do you have proof he did what he was accused of?  Without that proof I will believe our justice system in finding him not quilty as there wasnt enough evidence. 
By C Hardy on 06/29/2009 9:32 am