Margo Howard | 06/29/2009 8:45 am
Margo Howard on the Aftershock of Michael Jackson's Death
Editor’s Note: A longtime journalist, Margo Howard went into the family business (her mother was the fabled Ann Landers) in the 1990s as Dear Prudence. Her broad experience and understanding of human nature provide answers for the troubled — and entertainment for everyone else. Margo’s advice column, Dear Margo, appears twice a week — on Thursdays and Fridays — on wowOwow.com.
I am in Paris, with Liza Minnelli and Usher. Well, not with, but we’re all in Paris. How do I know this? They are all over CNN International because Michael Jackson died, they were among his good friends and Larry King said they were in Paris.
It seems that all of Michael Jackson’s friends are being interviewed. Quincy Jones, the CEO of Ebony magazine, Miko Brando, Deepak Chopra, Michael’s sister (I cannot tell which one … Janet maybe?). Oh, and Mark Geragos, the lawyer who won him an acquittal in the California child molestation case. Geragos, in answer to Larry King’s question of whether or not people should, for now, "put aside any unpleasant aspects" of Michael’s life," said, "Definitely. Now is a time for mourning and appreciation." And of course we have seen a statement released by Elizabeth Taylor saying that "her heart is broken."
I have a question: Why did not any of these friends step in and insist he get help?
I am not even talking about the pedophile business; I doubt that a loving friend, or even the Kiddie-Interest wing of the Betty Ford Clinic could solve that one. I am talking about his addictions. I knew he was on something (or some things) and I didn’t even know him! It just strikes me as odd that all kinds of celebrities (let us not even count the throngs all over the world keeping "a vigil") are dumbstruck and shocked, shocked, that Michael checked out in the prime of life. Maybe when you’re super-famous no one dares to bring up the elephant in the room … or in Jackson’s case, apparently, a small herd. My guess is that "his own personal physician," a cardiologist, no less, may have much to answer for. The drugs so far mentioned in relation to Jackson all, in excessive amounts, take a toll on one’s heart. The toxicology screen, when it comes back in several weeks, will answer many questions.
I do want to say one positive thing about Deepak Chopra. Going against Geragos’s wish to leave aside the "unsavory aspects" of Jackson’s life for now, Chopra did volunteer that he had spoken to Michael about the danger of hanging out with people who would get you drugs. He went on to blame the docs "who attach themselves to the entourage." He said that whenever he began this discussion Michael "would change the subject."
One headline said that "Show business killed Michael Jackson." I would probably disagree with that statement. What probably is indisputable is that Michael Jackson is, for the first time in a long time, finally resting in peace.

























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La-La Land…thine name is Hollywood.
What part of an entitled, psudo-reality existence…do people not understand here? Celebrities function on a different level of reality, in a different world than others.
Personal responsibility seems to escape many of them….and the adoring public make allowances, in my opinion…to the detriment of our youth.
Kelly,
So true. And at the risk of inciting the wrath of many Jackson fans, I fervently wish that the Los Angeles television stations would come to understand that Jackson’s affairs are no reason to cancel television programs or break into them with "breaking news." No kidding. CBS and KCAL news just broke into a medical show to show Rev Al Sharpton visiting a memorial for Jackson. Good gawd, this is breaking news??????
Am sick of morning, noon, and night coverage. It only proves in my mind that the people who work for these stations are just kids. I have no interest in the topic and resent the intrusion in my life.
Andrea….NEWS ALERT….Michael Jackson is still dead!
I’m with you, enough already…and now…here come the "racist" comments…oh ya…although Jackson has bleached his skin white, surgically altered his African America features, married only white women and became a father to only white children…the white community is being accused of racism because the child abuse cases are being mentioned in the news.
I am sorry…but this Nation is in for one of the worst periods of race relations that we have known in decades. It is coming.
Kelly,
Yes, I feel it coming, too.
Andrea..did you hear the comments by Jaime Fox and P Diddy (or Puff Daddy, or Sean John or whatever he goes by now) on the Jackson coverage?
Kelly,
I’ve been involved in a huge project all day and have not even gone a-lurking on the wowowow website, much less any place else. [Maybe because I know it’s full of Jackson and I’m sick of the news by now.]
Dare I ask what they said?
Well Andrea…Mr. Diddy seems to think that the coverage about the pedophile charges is racists. Mr. Fox has decided to claim Jackson as belonging only to the African American community…
I have a question…where ANY of the children that complained of abuse, Afro-American? No?
No, I have 2 questions…does Mr. Fox think that only African Americans bought Jackson music and attened Jackson concerts?
Kelly,
ROTFALMAO
Sheesh….that’s just too stupid for words. I wonder if he even realizes it. Shake your head and hear the bells.
We are in total agreement on this one, deber B.
Peace…for Miichael….and Grace…..for those of us who put one foot in front of the other and keep going.