A Friend Stopped By | 05/06/2009 12:00 am
'Incurable Optimist' Michael J. Fox Talks to Dr. Holly Andersen

Editor’s Note: Michael J. Fox’s one-hour special, "Michael J. Fox: Adventures of an Incurable Optimist," airs May 7 on ABC and follows the actor and activist as he travels the globe to explore the healing power of positive thinking. Dr. Holly Andersen, who is dual board certified in Internal Medicine and Cardiology, talked one-on-one with Fox about his recent book, Always Looking Up: The Adventures of an Incurable Optimist, upcoming projects and his enduring power as he struggles with Parkinson’s Disease.
It was a few summers ago when Michael told me he was writing his second book. What’s it on? "Optimism," he said. I smiled. After being in medicine for 20 years, I understood the power of optimism. Second maybe only to humor, optimism keeps people healthy and helps heal those who are not. Michael is funny, and like all funny people I know, he is smart. His natural ability to make people laugh paired with his seasoned optimism is a potent formula. I smiled because I knew this book could touch people, it would inspire. It does just that.
Always Looking Up is a candid, personal journey of an introspective, refreshingly humble man, husband, father, friend, star and now political advocate making his way through his 40s, struggling against a disease we have yet to cure. He still describes himself as the “lucky man.” He believes that whatever choices may have been taken from him because of his Parkinson’s, they have been replaced with better ones.
| You don’t have a choice that you have it, but you have a thousand choices of how to respond to having it. It does not define you. |
Michael answered a few questions for wowOwow. Read on …
wOw: What do you do for stress reduction?
MICHAEL J. FOX: Stress exacerbates my symptoms. In big public settings, I always look for an out – a hallway or a room where I can go if my symptoms get hard to control. [The book describes such an occasion when Michael is forced to leave a crowded sushi restaurant only to be stuck out in the pouring rain and mistaken for a junkie needing a fix by a dealer hiding in the alley across the street.]
I attempt to get into a certain frame of mind. A frame of mind that excludes thoughts about anything I cannot control. I also spend time with my kids. That is always a good place to be. I never regret leaving whatever I am doing for my kids.
wOw: You are so accomplished. What’s next?
MJF: I am so exhausted right now. I have just finished this book, filming "Rescue Me" and I have a television special coming up. I didn’t plan this vortex; it just happened. I want to relax and enjoy time with my family this summer. Someday there will be another vortex. I would like to write a novel – that would be fun. And I want to keep the foundation vital and forward looking. I want to help the people who become involved to find the breakthroughs we need.
wOw: What would you say to a 30-year-old man just diagnosed with Parkinson’s?
MJF: Take your time; don’t think you have to plan everything now. Try to accept it; the extent it is fact, you don’t have a choice that you have it, but you have a thousand choices of how to respond to having it. It does not define you. You are still you. You may change physically for the worst, but you may positively change emotionally, psychologically and spiritually. Inform yourself, take care of yourself, and roll with the punches.
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More than one million Americans currently live with Parkinson’s. It is a complex disease that varies greatly among individuals. The most recognized symptom of Parkinson’s disease is tremor, but many are more severely affected by stiffness or rigidity. Slowness in movement and postural instability (impaired balance and coordination) and lack of facial expressions are common. Symptoms are often subtle and occur gradually, but in some patients, the disease is of rapid onset and progression. Many people with Parkinson’s also experience emotional changes (especially depression), sleep disturbance, constipation and difficulty chewing, swallowing or speaking. The disease most often affects people older than 50, but younger people like Michael, who was diagnosed at the age of 30, are stricken as well.























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We never dwelled on what was wrong we focused on what we could do. There were and still are times that our plans would have to change abruptly. Neuromuscular diseases affect many different bodily functions leading to other health challenges. My husband was no exception as he developed pancreatic failure leading to diabetes. That was followed by osteoarthritis because of bone loss and later kidney issues.
From the day of the diagnosis we set goals we intended to achieve such as seeing the children graduating from high school then college. Later that changed to seeing the first grandchildren. Now it is hopefully retirement. Yes there are times when the health issues overwhelm everything but when that happens we work through it day by day and sometimes hour by hour. We know that life happens and it isn’t always a fairy tale ending.
What a wonderful man. I saw him on Oprah and she asked him to describe Parkinson’s and he said that its like having a 4 year old in your lap at all times, that won’t sit still. I then imagined holding my 3 year old and how she is always moving and then having to deal with that b/c you can’t put it down…I think its great he has taken his celebrity status and is using it for something Great. I wish him many more years with his family and us.
My father had Parkinson’s in his later years. It was difficult for him to adjust to it (of course he wouldn’t or couldn’t take medication); but the illness itself invades every part of your life. It was difficult for him to get the fork to his mouth when eating; the cup to his lips when drinking; he couldn’t wear hearing aids though he had a profound hearing loss — it was just impossible to get them in or to change the batteries. As well, he wouldn’t allow the help that he needed…..but that’s another story; one for when we do ‘aging’.
I too think it’s wonderful that Michael J. Fox has taken his celebrity status and is using it to inform. I’m sure he has his "pity parties", but has found, as many of us do, that no one comes.
Thank you Michael; I too wish you many more optimistic years with your family and us.
I can so relate to what he and his family are experiencing. My late father was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease in his early 40s. We knew something was wrong for some years but it took awhile to finally get that diagnosis. So he likely had it in his 30s as well.
I am really impressed with both Michael J. Fox and his wonderful family.
Michael J. Fox is the reason I never had children. When his show, “Family Ties” was on the air, he played Alex Keaton, a rather conservative son to a very liberal parents. I did not think I could be as brave as Steven and Elyse Keaton. Something to do with the Karma my mother was sending me. It was a funny show and he was brilliant in playing Alex (maybe a little too convincing for me).
I believe Michael J. Fox brings a quiet dignity to what life threw his way. And again it is all about how we handle what life deems fit to put on our plate. Sometimes it is the smallest (no pun intended, Mr. Fox) of annoyances that can cause us to have a meltdown on the LIE or in front of our friends and families. And sometimes it is all about stepping forward and becoming a champion for the plight of others. I would say Michael’s greatest role is that of “Lucky Man.” He got the memo about life and is doing the living…one simple step at a time.
Just loved his new book - I look at that face on the cover and I look up at all that I have an am so grateful.
You inspire so many people…to do better in their lives. Thanks, Michael.