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Breast Cancer, Danskin Triathlon | 07/24/2009 8:55 am

New Hampshire Woman Defies Breast Cancer Odds to Become a Triathlete

Carolyn Choate was given three years to live in 2003 when she was 45; now, six years later, she’s an athlete raising money for the cancer cause
By The Staff at wowOwow.com
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In 2003, when she was 45, Carolyn Choate was given three years to live. She had breast cancer, and the outlook wasn’t good. But six years later, after enduring chemotherapy and surgery, the Nashua, NH, mom of two kids can call herself a triathlete.

Choate is participating in this weekend’s Danskin Triathlon — the largest and longest women’s triathlon series in the world, which was launched as part of the company’s commitment to women’s health and fitness. More than 200,000 women have participated in the series. The National Cancer Institute estimates that there will be 192,370 female cases of breast cancer this year alone, and 1,910 male cases. More than 40,000 women will die from it.

The triathlon sprint consists of a half-mile swim, a 12-mile bike ride and a 2.9 mile run. Choate, whose stepsister and cousin were recently diagnosed with uterine cancer and who will raise money for breast cancer, told The Nashua Telegraph that she credits her survival to exercise. 

"When people find out I’m doing the triathlon, they ask me why I’m doing it," she said. "One day, it occurred to me that I’m doing it because there’s no reason not to. That may sound simplistic, but, after an intimate relationship with cancer, there’s not much that intimidates me."

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21 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

S G

We can accomplish anything if only we take the right attitude. She is already a survivor and didn’t allow her spirit to be dampened. Not giving up can from stories I have seen make a huge difference. I love stories of this type:) Congratulations to her and I wish her many more happy triathlons:)

By S G on 07/24/2009 9:17 am
Mary Utrup

I’d like to agree with every word of S G’s post! I have found that we can talk ourselves into or out of most anything. I am sure Carol had a whole lot of positive support behind her and that cannot be underated! I have a first cousin who is a victim of a type of cancer that is currently uncurable. It has not stopped them from battling it back everytime it resurfaces. I am extremely proud of the fight they can continue to wage. May everyone who is or has someone who is battling cancer take great comfort from Carol’s story and follow her example as best they can. The odds are generally not good with a cancer diagnosis. But everyone who battles back anyway helps to put cancer in its place and gives courage to the rest of us.

By Mary Utrup on 07/24/2009 9:24 am
S G
I seen a program that comedy is really good for cancer patients Mary. It truly never hurt anyone to laugh:) I hope your cousin beats the odds:)
By S G on 07/24/2009 12:06 pm
Mary Utrup
Thank you for your support and good wishes! They are the single parent of two boys at that critical almost post teen and preteen age. There  is nothing more challenging than getting through those "rebellion" years and now cancer is thrown in repeatedly on top. Yes indeed, laughter is the best medicine. Thanks again for your suggestion and good wishes!
By Mary Utrup on 07/24/2009 10:56 pm
S G
Wow Mary thats a lot to handle healthy. Sending her and you hugs and good wishes for good good health:)
By S G on 07/25/2009 7:56 am
Mary Utrup
S G that’s just the kind of support that keeps her going in this fight. I thank you for all the hugs and good wishes!!
By Mary Utrup on 07/25/2009 9:42 am
Beth Cornell
Me too. I agree whole heartedly w/S G.
By Beth Cornell on 07/24/2009 9:38 am
Kristy B

I’ve known several breast cancer survivors.  One lady that I know what diagnosed about 20 years ago, and it has resurfaced several times.  The other ladies have been in remission for a few years and so far so good.

I wish this lady the best in her endeavors!!

By Kristy B on 07/24/2009 10:28 am
L. C.

I wish all persons fighting this battle the very best! … I’m inspired by this woman’s story.

Philippians 4:13 " I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

By L. C. on 07/24/2009 7:04 pm
Deniseann Taylor

I just found out today that my Breast Cancer has returned.  I’m not sure what I’m going to do, I do know I won’t let them talk me into what they want.  If I’d have had a mastomy five yrs ago I would have this reoccurances.

So to anyone who has gotten through this I say good luck, and pray you stay cancer free.  For me I’m ready to find a cave and just hide. 

 

 

By Deniseann Taylor on 07/24/2009 9:37 pm
Andrea Brandon

Deniseann,

Ok, you go find your cave for the next 24 hours and hide. And then you come out fighting.

By Andrea Brandon on 07/25/2009 12:42 am
Deniseann Taylor
Andrea I don’t know if i have it in me to fight this again, I’m scared, alone, I know for sure that I won’t be able to drive myself to treatments, and I can’t ask my kids to take a leave of absense from work, they’d lose their jobs, I think I’ll stay in the cave for a wk or two, turn off the phone and just eat everything I ‘ve been told I can’t eat and watch moves, have to walk the dogs that’s a must.  I’ve got to find the moxy, and courage to go through this again. I’ve never been this scared in my life, I’m more scared now then I was on 9/11  (I worked at the pentagon). I’m going to my bible to find the strenght, I always seem to find it there.
By Deniseann Taylor on 07/25/2009 12:51 pm
Andrea Brandon

Deniseann,

Oh no you don’t. You’re NOT going to give up. Not allowed. 

You’ve got friends here, Deniseann. And while most of us haven’t been through all that you have, we’re smart enough to know that you’re really a strong lady. You’ve been through this before and you got through it. No reason to think you can’t do it again.

It’s just the news that’s shattering you. In another 24 hours you’re going to be adjusting to it. Your head will be more rational.

Let the dogs comfort you - that’s what they do best. I don’t know what the doctors have told you about food but if the food isn’t life threatening, then I’d say go have a field day a feast on it all……for a couple days if it makes you feel better.  Bolt the door and watch the movies and don’t answer the phone. Keep your Bible next to you and read it, since you already know the strength it brings you. And you WILL find strength.

As far as transportation for treatment:  The chance to give selflessly and help someone is priceless. Why would you deny your children this feeling?  Stop feeling like your a burden. There will come a time in their lives when they will need someone to take them to the hospital and back……..you need to show them that it’s good to help and good to receive that help.

If you honestly feel your kids can’t take the time to help with the transportation call the hospital where the treatment will take place. Often they have volunteer groups that will pick you up and take you home. But you have to ask to get this information. Perhaps the treatment center has a website and there might be something regarding transportation.

Deniseann, you’ve already got the moxy. It’s there. When you come out of the "cave" in a day or so I just KNOW you’ll be ready to fight. You’ve done it before, and damn it, you’ll do it again.

Love you, Deniseann. My money’s on YOU.

By Andrea Brandon on 07/25/2009 1:48 pm
S G
Deniseann take a dvd player and funny videos to your cave. I am with Andrea then come out fighting:)
By S G on 07/25/2009 7:57 am
Mary Utrup
I don’t need to tell you what an insidious disease cancer is! I just want to let you know you will be in my thoughts and prayers daily until we all hear about your complete recovery!!! You have a lot of support from people you don’t even know. Please try to remember that as you go to battle once again. As you do you will be an inspiration and hero to those who are and are not in the same situation. Rest in the Hollow of God’s Hand and in the comfort we all try to give you.
By Mary Utrup on 07/25/2009 9:40 am