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Entertainment | 03/26/2009 4:30 pm

Sheila Nevins: 'I Really Didn't Know My Path' (Audio)

wOw’s own Sheila Nevins, winner of 22 Primetime Emmy Awards, 25 News and Documentary Emmys and 28 George Foster Peabody Awards, spoke at the NYWIFT Power Player breakfast Thursday morning.
By Kristin Fritz
wOw's Sheila Nevins

Some people claim they knew what they wanted to be when they grew up from day one. There are others who didn’t know, but here they are. Sheila Nevins? She’s of the latter group.

Sheila Nevins, wOw contributor and President of Documentary and Family Programming for HBO and Cinemax, spoke this morning at the New York Women in Film and Television Power Player breakfast. The event started with a condensed collection of clips from Sheila’s body of HBO work, which is as immense as it is impressive, to say the least. Sheila then took the podium and, after giving her audience the choice – Which first? Questions or childhood stories? – began speaking.

"I didn’t really ask to be in documentaries, I didn’t have a calling … I just needed a job," said Nevins, with unabashed honesty. From there she took her audience on a revealing – and sometimes hilarious – walk down her unconventional path toward a remarkable career as a documentary-film-making legend. From her drama-school beginnings to her DC days with the United States Information Agency to her move to New York City, Sheila explains, "So I got a job in television … It’s as simple as that."

Simple? That’s Sheila’s humility talking, I’m sure.

While working at CBS in New York, Sheila found she wasn’t fond of her job, as it left her feeling a bit like Cyrano de Bergerac: "I didn’t like working at CBS because, although I liked the people, I didn’t like the fact that you had to go out with a correspondent … It just didn’t seem right. I thought, wouldn’t it be good if you didn’t have to have a correspondent? So I guess that’s how I got into documentaries, just through the fact that I didn’t like people taking my stories away." She’d heard about "this thing called HBO" and that the company was looking to start a documentary department. Sheila went for it. And while she may have stumbled into the docu-field, says Sheila, "When I would stumble, I would stand up straight and work very hard."

Wise words from a brilliant woman. Over the next hour or so, Sheila shared anecdotes and advice, and answered questions from the audience. She touched on the subject of age and said, "That’s the good thing about getting older. You’re not so hard on yourself anymore." On her affection for documentaries, Sheila says, "It’s life. We don’t know what’s going to happen."

Now, 22 Primetime Emmy Awards, 25 News and Documentary Emmys and 28 George Foster Peabody Awards later, where does that leave Sheila? Happy. In fact, she said this morning, "I’m happier than I ever thought I’d be."

To listen to Sheila’s entire talk from the breakfast – which I highly recommend you do – click the play button below. 

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9 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

James the Game

Sheila, I enjoyed hearing your story immensely. Congratulations on your accomplishments, and work. And I mean that sincerely.

I have some incredible footage and interview clips - some going back many decades - of the Uechi-ryu karate "family" in West Michigan. It’s an amazing story. I already have in mind how I would piece much of it together. As a reporter, I know that a good story really writes itself.

 I hope someday to be able to make a film of it, when I have the loot. Some of the people I interviewed have passed away. There are some historical aspects to it, and I have had some people pressing me to let it see the light of day, but I’ll have to wait - perhaps decades.

By James the Game on 03/26/2009 8:19 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe

What a delight to listen to you, Shelia––as Edith Warton would say, "I’d have her at one of my dinner parties any day." You are an extraordinarily fortunate woman which you seem to have acknowledged,  but then as you also reminded us, you’ve worked extraordinarily hard. The scene you described with your mother brought all your sensibilities to fore, so to speak, in the sense that you’ve brought that anger, love, darkness,empathy and a lean toward the   grotesque   into your work. May you continue to prosper in every way.

James: Your story sounds interesting. Can you give us a little summary?  

By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 03/27/2009 7:03 am
Sheila Nevins

Thanks for the lovely response.  It made me feel good about myself.

 

By Sheila Nevins on 03/27/2009 2:31 pm
joan larsen

Sheila.  .  . in listening to you - twice, if you really want to know - I have found it refreshing to encounter a woman who has left "the public face" that most seem to put forth as they step out of their houses.  Instead, the real person "shone" - and this is not a word I use lightly.  Your secret is that you drop all the barriers in making connection to those you talk to, you listen without interrupting to questions thrown out to you, responding in ways that make a question-and-answer instead seem instead as if it were too very good friends at lunch, letting it all hang out.  When your audience files out, you can be assured they are left with - not only inspiration and knowledge - but the unexplainable warm feeling that they have had a very good time. 

You have a gift.  . a great gift.  And it goes without saying that you are brilliant, but I will say it anyway. 

As you asked your audience for one last question, I wanted to shout mine out.  I too began — and for too many years to mention — moved up in what we now call a man’s world.  They were my teachers.  I observed, questioned, learned - determined to not let a day go by that I was not growing more competent and confident.  Driven?  Yes, in a self-imposed way.  But I have done exceedingly well in life, but it was the men around me that made me flourish and - well, bloom.

The question then:  With your background much the same, you - as I - find that we are now surrounded by women.  One-on-one is usually no problem.  And they can be smart, bright, whatever.  But in groups, I find them most difficult to deal with.  There is much back-biting, behind the scenes "stirring the pot" by a few that transfers to the many.  I attribute it to jealousy perhaps, or the feeling they should have my job??  Perhaps that isn’t it.  Sheila, at times you must feel - or have felt - the same as you have worked with both.  OKquestion that really asks for an honest answer:  In looking at now and back then, did you find it was easier to work with men than women and what do you see as the difference?   

By joan larsen on 03/28/2009 12:15 pm
Cassie OMalley
Shelia, you’re speech was so inspiring. Thank you for sharing that audio with us. I have struggled with finding my path too, as I think we all do, but you’re story of how it found you has given me true hope. It was fate or perhaps just dumb luck, that lead you to take that job in television but through your hard work you made it become this beautiful gift that we are so blessed that you share with the world. Thank you!
By Cassie OMalley on 03/27/2009 2:43 pm
rocky rocky
Ms Nevins, thank you for sharing this audio with us. I didn’t intend to listen to it to the end, but you kept me glued to my chair. And I do believe you used your feminine wiles to your advantage when you could, because I believe we all did/do that. Nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about—just a fact of life. But I don’t believe you got those jobs only because of them. You are a standout and my bet is you always were … Thank you again.
By rocky rocky on 03/28/2009 6:43 pm
beth willis
By beth willis on 03/29/2009 11:40 pm
beth willis

Oh, man, my observations are now wandering in cyberspace…short version:  Sheil Nevins, you are one enormously humorous lady, bigger than life and intimately personal all at once. Your ‘docus’ touch people…even if no one dies.  Thank you for sharing your humor and story telling skills.  Obviously, you are a talented, intelligent woman whose ease with humor combined to seal your collaborations, and ,by golly, getting those releases signed.  Because of your inspiration, I am jumping into creating my own ‘docu’.  Can’t share too much about the topic because of the competitive nature of the biz.  Just two words Penguins, wheelchairs.

Peace and grace…………any friend of Liz Smith is aces in to me.  Brava!

By beth willis on 03/29/2009 11:55 pm
Kristen Hester
My little sister has been raving about this speech.  She, as am I, are absolutely in awe of your feminine force and foresight.  I think one of the keys to your success is the creative intuition that you possess and your gumption in following it.  That takes courage and the universe is opening doors for you to walk through.  Most are too afraid to conquer the unknown, yet you allow your confidence and drive to lead you in your journey.  I enjoyed your wit, your advice on being a Salesman and always selling yourself, as well as your projects.  Keep throwing your ideas out into the world as you never know who is open to receiving them.  Thank you Sheila for being such an inspiring lady!
By Kristen Hester on 04/09/2009 9:15 am