Entertainment | 03/26/2009 4:30 pm
Sheila Nevins: 'I Really Didn't Know My Path' (Audio)

Some people claim they knew what they wanted to be when they grew up from day one. There are others who didn’t know, but here they are. Sheila Nevins? She’s of the latter group.
Sheila Nevins, wOw contributor and President of Documentary and Family Programming for HBO and Cinemax, spoke this morning at the New York Women in Film and Television Power Player breakfast. The event started with a condensed collection of clips from Sheila’s body of HBO work, which is as immense as it is impressive, to say the least. Sheila then took the podium and, after giving her audience the choice – Which first? Questions or childhood stories? – began speaking.
"I didn’t really ask to be in documentaries, I didn’t have a calling … I just needed a job," said Nevins, with unabashed honesty. From there she took her audience on a revealing – and sometimes hilarious – walk down her unconventional path toward a remarkable career as a documentary-film-making legend. From her drama-school beginnings to her DC days with the United States Information Agency to her move to New York City, Sheila explains, "So I got a job in television … It’s as simple as that."
Simple? That’s Sheila’s humility talking, I’m sure.
While working at CBS in New York, Sheila found she wasn’t fond of her job, as it left her feeling a bit like Cyrano de Bergerac: "I didn’t like working at CBS because, although I liked the people, I didn’t like the fact that you had to go out with a correspondent … It just didn’t seem right. I thought, wouldn’t it be good if you didn’t have to have a correspondent? So I guess that’s how I got into documentaries, just through the fact that I didn’t like people taking my stories away." She’d heard about "this thing called HBO" and that the company was looking to start a documentary department. Sheila went for it. And while she may have stumbled into the docu-field, says Sheila, "When I would stumble, I would stand up straight and work very hard."
Wise words from a brilliant woman. Over the next hour or so, Sheila shared anecdotes and advice, and answered questions from the audience. She touched on the subject of age and said, "That’s the good thing about getting older. You’re not so hard on yourself anymore." On her affection for documentaries, Sheila says, "It’s life. We don’t know what’s going to happen."
Now, 22 Primetime Emmy Awards, 25 News and Documentary Emmys and 28 George Foster Peabody Awards later, where does that leave Sheila? Happy. In fact, she said this morning, "I’m happier than I ever thought I’d be."
To listen to Sheila’s entire talk from the breakfast – which I highly recommend you do – click the play button below.























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Sheila, I enjoyed hearing your story immensely. Congratulations on your accomplishments, and work. And I mean that sincerely.
I have some incredible footage and interview clips - some going back many decades - of the Uechi-ryu karate "family" in West Michigan. It’s an amazing story. I already have in mind how I would piece much of it together. As a reporter, I know that a good story really writes itself.
I hope someday to be able to make a film of it, when I have the loot. Some of the people I interviewed have passed away. There are some historical aspects to it, and I have had some people pressing me to let it see the light of day, but I’ll have to wait - perhaps decades.
What a delight to listen to you, Shelia––as Edith Warton would say, "I’d have her at one of my dinner parties any day." You are an extraordinarily fortunate woman which you seem to have acknowledged, but then as you also reminded us, you’ve worked extraordinarily hard. The scene you described with your mother brought all your sensibilities to fore, so to speak, in the sense that you’ve brought that anger, love, darkness,empathy and a lean toward the grotesque into your work. May you continue to prosper in every way.
James: Your story sounds interesting. Can you give us a little summary?
Thanks for the lovely response. It made me feel good about myself.
Sheila. . . in listening to you - twice, if you really want to know - I have found it refreshing to encounter a woman who has left "the public face" that most seem to put forth as they step out of their houses. Instead, the real person "shone" - and this is not a word I use lightly. Your secret is that you drop all the barriers in making connection to those you talk to, you listen without interrupting to questions thrown out to you, responding in ways that make a question-and-answer instead seem instead as if it were too very good friends at lunch, letting it all hang out. When your audience files out, you can be assured they are left with - not only inspiration and knowledge - but the unexplainable warm feeling that they have had a very good time.
You have a gift. . a great gift. And it goes without saying that you are brilliant, but I will say it anyway.
As you asked your audience for one last question, I wanted to shout mine out. I too began — and for too many years to mention — moved up in what we now call a man’s world. They were my teachers. I observed, questioned, learned - determined to not let a day go by that I was not growing more competent and confident. Driven? Yes, in a self-imposed way. But I have done exceedingly well in life, but it was the men around me that made me flourish and - well, bloom.
The question then: With your background much the same, you - as I - find that we are now surrounded by women. One-on-one is usually no problem. And they can be smart, bright, whatever. But in groups, I find them most difficult to deal with. There is much back-biting, behind the scenes "stirring the pot" by a few that transfers to the many. I attribute it to jealousy perhaps, or the feeling they should have my job?? Perhaps that isn’t it. Sheila, at times you must feel - or have felt - the same as you have worked with both. OK, question that really asks for an honest answer: In looking at now and back then, did you find it was easier to work with men than women and what do you see as the difference?
Oh, man, my observations are now wandering in cyberspace…short version: Sheil Nevins, you are one enormously humorous lady, bigger than life and intimately personal all at once. Your ‘docus’ touch people…even if no one dies. Thank you for sharing your humor and story telling skills. Obviously, you are a talented, intelligent woman whose ease with humor combined to seal your collaborations, and ,by golly, getting those releases signed. Because of your inspiration, I am jumping into creating my own ‘docu’. Can’t share too much about the topic because of the competitive nature of the biz. Just two words Penguins, wheelchairs.
Peace and grace…………any friend of Liz Smith is aces in to me. Brava!