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A Friend Stopped By | 06/24/2009 11:00 pm

Sleeping Beauty? How You Can – and Why You Should – Sleep Like a French Woman, by Mireille Guiliano

The bestselling author of French Women Don’t Get Fat explains why French women sleep better than Americans – and ten ways you can sleep like a French woman, too.
By Mireille Guiliano
Mireille Guiliano

Editor’s Note: Mireille Guiliano is the author of the international bestsellers French Women Don’t Get Fat and French Women for All Seasons: A Year of Secrets, Recipes & Pleasure. Her new book, Women, Work & the Art of Savoir Faire: Business Sense & Sensibility, will be published in October. She just re-launched the website FrenchWomenDontGetFat.com.

A recent survey on the lifestyle of French people reveals that "on average the French sleep nine hours a day." That’s considerably more than my fellow Americans, who seem to think it’s a badge of honor to sleep five or six hours a night. How many of you have heard, "I don’t need much sleep"? Nonsense. Or "I’ve trained myself to get by on six hours of sleep"? Could there be a correlation between French women’s long life expectancy and their hours exercising their sleep muscles?

Sleep, I believe, is the most neglected state of being in American life.

In all of my writing – both in my books and on my website – I urge women to 1) take time to eat (no less than 20 minutes per meal) and  2) sleep well. Sleep, I believe, is the most neglected state of being in American life.

When in Paris, my American husband always notices the pitch-dark apartment buildings we pass while walking home late at night from a meal at a friend’s house or the theater. It’s barely 11 o’clock PM, yet most of the lights are off. For one thing, the French don’t watch much television (no staying up for Conan O’Brien or Dave Letterman’s monologue). They come home from work, prepare dinner, sit down to eat (that’s entertainment!) and relax. Some may prolong the evening reading or listening to music for half an hour, but by ten or 11 o’clock most of them are au dodo. No late-night e-mailing or typing away at the computer. How different that is from New York, the city that never sleeps. From our Manhattan windows we see plenty of lights and people in buildings all around us until the wee hours. That the French spend more than two hours each day eating is another contrast with America. Eating is one of the great pleasures in life, after all. Kitchen or bedroom? For the French it’s a toss-up, according to the latest survey.

How’s your sleep? We could (and should) all improve our sleep patterns in these stressful times — and when aren’t times at least somewhat stressful? 

So, here are ten easy tips you may consider so you, too, can enjoy the benefits of a good night’s sleep.

1. Move, move, move during the day!
Studies have proven that exercise, in addition to burning calories, makes it easier to fall and stay asleep. No need to run a marathon or spend hours sweating; a 20- to 30-minute brisk walk or yoga will do the trick. (Just be careful not to do it too close to bedtime — this will actually have the opposite effect!)

2. Stay away from stimulants, such as caffeine and nicotine and alcohol. All three substances make us jittery, interrupt our quality of sleep and our ability to fall asleep. Many people who rely on caffeine to get them through the day are shocked to learn that it can have a stimulating effect for up to 12 hours after they’ve imbibed.   

3. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. Our bodies crave balance and if we train our body to fall asleep at a certain time and wake up at a certain time (even if we’re still sleepy), it will eventually listen to our requests.

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James the Game
I swim every day, and when my sprained knee recuperates, I’ll be back doing karate five days a week. I sleep like a baby.
By James the Game on 06/25/2009 12:09 am
Beth S
Ah, cool, a fellow martial artist. I hear you, James—that kind of training also makes me zonk out the minute my head hits the pillow and sleep very restfully all night.
By Beth S on 06/25/2009 8:25 pm
James the Game
What art do you study, Beth?
By James the Game on 06/25/2009 9:03 pm
Beth S
A Chinese style called bagua zhang.
By Beth S on 06/26/2009 4:37 am
James the Game
Ah. I’m a Shihan master, Godan rank, in an Okinawan system called Uechi-ryu (WAY’-chee roo). It’s roots are in Fukien Province, China - Fuchow, to be exact. I’ve also studied some Wing Chun, which came from that same area.
By James the Game on 06/26/2009 11:41 am
Beth S

That’s cool! I’ve heard of Uechi-ryu but didn’t know much about it. I’ll have to go Google a bit. I know more about Wing Chun. (Speaking of, did you see the Donnie Yen movie "Ip Man" that came out last year?) For bagua, we don’t have belts or ranks, so I can only tell you I’ve been training it for eleven years. I enjoy it so much because it’s one of the few things I do that so completely unite your body and your mind and work the heck out of both of them.

 Rock on, James!

By Beth S on 06/26/2009 4:05 pm
James the Game
Hi, Beth. No, I didn’t see that movie. But my instructor in Wing Chun, (sifu) Sam Chan, is tight with Ip Ching, one of his sons. Chan is head of the U.S. Wing Chun Association. I’ve been out of it for about a year (busy, busy). But I am back doing Uechi-rye, which features some penetrating blows, such as the one-knuckle punch with the forefinger, and the Tiger toe. It’s more mid-range. Wing Chun is more in-close. It’s all fun stuff!
By James the Game on 06/26/2009 6:43 pm
Beth S
Agreed—all fun in different ways. Bagua stresses mobility, ability to quickly change angles and range. In the branch I’m in, there’s often the goal of putting yourself in good position for a safe (to yourself) throw.
By Beth S on 06/27/2009 12:20 am
Judy K.
Now that I can sleep and eat as I please, it doesnt work that way.  So I take naps and eat what doesnt upset my stomach.  Getting old isnt for sissies as they say.
By Judy K. on 06/25/2009 12:27 am
Washington  Cube
…and I’m reading this at 1:58 a.m. EST and laughing.
By Washington Cube on 06/25/2009 12:58 am
Andrea Brandon
When she figures out how to manage my 19 hours/day professional and personal life in 15 hours a day, then I’ll be interested in what she has to say.
By Andrea Brandon on 06/25/2009 1:08 am
O E
I believe it’s a matter of priorities and weeding out that which puts pressure on us.  First thing is to get out of your mind the idea that you’ve to be number one at everything you do.  Instead, make that which makes you happier, gives the most pleasure, produces the less stress, your number one priority.  Does love, family, friends, comfortable (I don’t mean luxurious) living ring a bell? Take it from someone who managed a home with husband and four children (without hired help), while working 9-5 and still found time  for fun and relaxation.  Remember, whatever you do, someone else can do as well, or even better. Delegate, delegate, delegate, because if you die tomorrow, it won’t change the rotation of the earth. 
By O E on 06/26/2009 12:55 pm
Andrea Brandon

O E,

You’re assuming that I feel overwhelmed and don’t like what I do all or part of my day.

Guess what? I’m one of those people who delegates everything I don’t enjoy doing, but must. I learned time management skills very well almost 40 years ago. I also learned to divorce myself from the things I don’t like to do and now only do what I enjoy.  My problem is that there aren’t enough hours in the day in which I can do more.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/26/2009 4:42 pm
O E

Good for you, but if you feel compelled to do more, where is that pressure to perform coming from? On the other hand, some Type A personalities just can’t help it.  I’ve attended some of their funerals.  I do hope you remember to take care of yourself and give your body the time to restore and renew itself.

By O E on 06/26/2009 5:55 pm
Andrea Brandon

O E,

LOL.   It’s not pressure at all -well let’s just say that I manage it really well. There are so many things I want to do/experience. Incidentally, I am a former Type A.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/26/2009 7:21 pm