A Friend Stopped By | 06/24/2009 11:00 pm
Sleeping Beauty? How You Can – and Why You Should – Sleep Like a French Woman, by Mireille Guiliano

Editor’s Note: Mireille Guiliano is the author of the international bestsellers French Women Don’t Get Fat and French Women for All Seasons: A Year of Secrets, Recipes & Pleasure. Her new book, Women, Work & the Art of Savoir Faire: Business Sense & Sensibility, will be published in October. She just re-launched the website FrenchWomenDontGetFat.com.
A recent survey on the lifestyle of French people reveals that "on average the French sleep nine hours a day." That’s considerably more than my fellow Americans, who seem to think it’s a badge of honor to sleep five or six hours a night. How many of you have heard, "I don’t need much sleep"? Nonsense. Or "I’ve trained myself to get by on six hours of sleep"? Could there be a correlation between French women’s long life expectancy and their hours exercising their sleep muscles?
| Sleep, I believe, is the most neglected state of being in American life. |
In all of my writing – both in my books and on my website – I urge women to 1) take time to eat (no less than 20 minutes per meal) and 2) sleep well. Sleep, I believe, is the most neglected state of being in American life.
When in Paris, my American husband always notices the pitch-dark apartment buildings we pass while walking home late at night from a meal at a friend’s house or the theater. It’s barely 11 o’clock PM, yet most of the lights are off. For one thing, the French don’t watch much television (no staying up for Conan O’Brien or Dave Letterman’s monologue). They come home from work, prepare dinner, sit down to eat (that’s entertainment!) and relax. Some may prolong the evening reading or listening to music for half an hour, but by ten or 11 o’clock most of them are au dodo. No late-night e-mailing or typing away at the computer. How different that is from New York, the city that never sleeps. From our Manhattan windows we see plenty of lights and people in buildings all around us until the wee hours. That the French spend more than two hours each day eating is another contrast with America. Eating is one of the great pleasures in life, after all. Kitchen or bedroom? For the French it’s a toss-up, according to the latest survey.
How’s your sleep? We could (and should) all improve our sleep patterns in these stressful times — and when aren’t times at least somewhat stressful?
So, here are ten easy tips you may consider so you, too, can enjoy the benefits of a good night’s sleep.
1. Move, move, move during the day! Studies have proven that exercise, in addition to burning calories, makes it easier to fall and stay asleep. No need to run a marathon or spend hours sweating; a 20- to 30-minute brisk walk or yoga will do the trick. (Just be careful not to do it too close to bedtime — this will actually have the opposite effect!)
2. Stay away from stimulants, such as caffeine and nicotine and alcohol. All three substances make us jittery, interrupt our quality of sleep and our ability to fall asleep. Many people who rely on caffeine to get them through the day are shocked to learn that it can have a stimulating effect for up to 12 hours after they’ve imbibed.
3. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day. Our bodies crave balance and if we train our body to fall asleep at a certain time and wake up at a certain time (even if we’re still sleepy), it will eventually listen to our requests.























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That’s cool! I’ve heard of Uechi-ryu but didn’t know much about it. I’ll have to go Google a bit. I know more about Wing Chun. (Speaking of, did you see the Donnie Yen movie "Ip Man" that came out last year?) For bagua, we don’t have belts or ranks, so I can only tell you I’ve been training it for eleven years. I enjoy it so much because it’s one of the few things I do that so completely unite your body and your mind and work the heck out of both of them.
Rock on, James!
O E,
You’re assuming that I feel overwhelmed and don’t like what I do all or part of my day.
Guess what? I’m one of those people who delegates everything I don’t enjoy doing, but must. I learned time management skills very well almost 40 years ago. I also learned to divorce myself from the things I don’t like to do and now only do what I enjoy. My problem is that there aren’t enough hours in the day in which I can do more.
Good for you, but if you feel compelled to do more, where is that pressure to perform coming from? On the other hand, some Type A personalities just can’t help it. I’ve attended some of their funerals. I do hope you remember to take care of yourself and give your body the time to restore and renew itself.
O E,
LOL. It’s not pressure at all -well let’s just say that I manage it really well. There are so many things I want to do/experience. Incidentally, I am a former Type A.