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Travel on wOw | 06/04/2009 11:00 pm

There are thousands of places to travel to before you die. What are your top three?

There are thousands of places to travel to before you die – and many best-selling books written about them. What are your top three? Join Candice Bergen and the wOw Women in the conversation …

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Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 06/04/2009 11:00 pm

Judith Martin: 'Once You've Found It, Why Shop Around?'

It’s no use; I’ll never get there. Time was when I went everywhere in connection with my father’s United Nations assignments. (I still get mileage from having climbed to Machu Picchu on donkey-back when nobody had even heard of it; and from staying at the Peninsula Hotel in Hong Kong when a three-bedroom suite was $12 a night and the streets were full of magicians performing by firelight.) Then my husband and I made annual trips to Spain, following the feria circuit from small town to small town. But that was before we rediscovered Venice. Now we may dream of other places, but when it comes down to planning a trip, it is always Venice. Once you’ve found it, why shop around?
Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 06/04/2009 11:00 pm

Joan Ganz Cooney Has a Thousand Places to See Before She Dies

Yes, there are thousands of places to travel to before I die but I probably won’t see any of them. I have terrible jet lag and always feel sick when I travel far away both while I’m there and then for days when I get back. I’ll doubtless get to Europe and London again and I keep threatening to go to St. Petersburg, but I have no plans at the moment.
Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 06/04/2009 11:00 pm

Liz Smith on Her Last Trip and Other Destinations

My top three places are Greece, Italy and France. I also liked Turkey and Russia and Australia.

And Fiji and Hawaii and Mexico and Costa Rica and Canada. I can take or leave Great Britain and I have decided that observing the poverty in Africa, Asia or the Middle East would break my spirit right in two. So next I will opt for seeing America as a finale!  
Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 06/04/2009 11:00 pm

Candice Bergen: Out of Africa

I always loved historic novels but also pure travel memoirs like Paul Theroux. I loved Alan Moorehead’s The White Nile and The Blue Nile and have visited most of the countries in that book. That was a great read. Of course, Out of Africa was an absolute favorite and I spent a lot of time in Kenya. Beryl Markham’s West With the Night, also set in Kenya. But all the countries I traveled 40 years ago are no longer recognizable and we have such lovely houses that I don’t travel much now. Especially when I spent the last five years going back and forth to L.A. twice a month.

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Amanda C

The Rainforest

Europe

Ireland

By Amanda C on 06/05/2009 1:56 pm
Green Tears
I have a long list of places I want to see, but these are my top priorities: Alaska, by sea and rail, Australia and Cuba. Can’t wait to get started!
By Green Tears on 06/05/2009 5:47 pm
Susie Ruth
There are many place within the US I love to visit for the first time. The Grand Canyon, Vermont in the fall, Alaska, just to mention a few. I’d like to return for a longer period of time to San Francisco and surrounding areas. My favorite place to travel to for peace and relaxation is the Outer Banks of NC. For my husband and I it’s a no stress vacation.
By Susie Ruth on 06/05/2009 7:12 pm
Nancy Pea
susie, i was raised in the san francisco bay area (millbrae, brisbane, san bruno, redwood city, san jose, richmond and good old san francisco) and frankly when i went back to visit a few months ago i hated it. everything is so built up. damn developers have every inch of space that isn’t earmarked for parks built over and above. it’s horrible. i used to love living in visitacion valley and going downtown to a show or whatever. the buses run 24/7 and you see such interesting ppl. now it’s just smelly, crowded and extremely dirty. not even nice to visit anymore. very sad.
By Nancy Pea on 06/06/2009 12:36 am
jules verne
Europe, Canada and Hawaii, maybe even Greece!!!
By jules verne on 06/05/2009 7:26 pm
Nancy Pea

my father and his family came from denmark. i would love to visit there. lookng up my family would be like needle in a haystack. my father is long dead and i heard from my mother that they wouldn’t accept me. but i don’t know if it’s true because of so many lies that were told to keep me from looking and such. anyway, i would still love to go there and see the wonderful places and get immersed in the culture, history and fun of the land. i’ve always been very viking you know!!! (that journey will never happen because i’m broke and in poor health, but i can dream!)

second probably oregon again to visit family and friends (that one is a strong possibility in a few years). we lived in salem for 5mos but it wasn’t a happy experience so i would love to go back under BETTER circumstances and really get to enjoy it.

third check out my surroundings. i would love to see more of nevada and i promised myself i would. interesting places, ppl and things to see right here in my own backyard. (that i can do now just have to find the time and the resources to do it)

By Nancy Pea on 06/06/2009 12:32 am
Beth S
Nancy, I hope you can make it to Denmark! I spent six months there long ago and would recommend it to anyone. Such wonderful people and utterly civilized habits. I could get fat there very easily. (But the Viking lies just beneath the surface… I met a guy who had listed "Old Norse" as his religion while doing his mandatory military service, just so they’d be forced to send him off in a burning longship if he happened to die on duty. Heh heh.) Anyway, I hope your Viking dreams become a reality someday…
By Beth S on 06/06/2009 2:56 am
Nancy Pea
i would be nice. but i know i’ll never afford it. i’m retired, will be on disability soon and will be on an extremely fixed income. if i won the lottery it would be great. but you have to play it first and at this point just affording to play it doesn’t happen. but thanx for the wishes!
By Nancy Pea on 06/06/2009 4:06 am
Babette dYveine

The most wonderful trip I ever took was driving through Provence for three weeks with my husband.  I’d love to go back, but his health won’t allow him to travel any more, and I wouldn’t want to go alone.

Last year I went to Peru and Machu Picchu on a group trip, and enjoyed it very much.  This Fall, I’m planning to go to Vietnam and Cambodia with the same group (Overseas Adventure Travel).  They’re small groups and I felt comfortable going alone.

Other places on my list are Greece, Turkey and Tuscany.  Maybe Rome.  I’ve been to Venice and don’t want to repeat anything.  There are too many places I haven’t been.

I’d also like to see parts of the US I haven’t seen — I’ve been to a number of national parks in the New Mexico, Arizona and Utah area.  I’d love to see Yellowstone and the Grand Tetons. 

 

By Babette dYveine on 06/06/2009 7:59 am
Brenda Howard

Joan Larsen - your love of travelling is evident.  You sound so much like me it made me smile.  I grew up on a very isolated farm in the 70’s where going to town was a rare event and going to school only happened when we weren’t needed on the farm.  I left home at 16 determined to see the world.  I have backpacked all over Africa, most of Europe and Asia and been to every state in the US with the exception of Alaska. Not having money didn’t stop me,  I worked wherever I went, and hitched rides on planes, boats, trains or whatever to get to the next place.   I came home, finished college and have worked two jobs for most of my life but have taken every opportunity to travel that I could.   I love the Irish wit (and pubs), the German "can do" attitude, the people of Cambodia and most of Africa (with the exception of the scorpion that wanted to take up residence in my sleeping bag and the herd of giraffes that I thought I could outrun).  I am already planning my next trip with a husband that was at first a self-described travel-phobe but who has had so many memorable moments on our trips that he almost likes it more than me. 

 

By Brenda Howard on 06/06/2009 8:24 am
joan larsen

Hi Brenda, my fellow traveller … your travels in Africa brought back the time when the bond of travel connected the woman president of the company I was on the board of trustees on.  I enjoyed dropping way-out invitations to travel on her desk … but then there was the day she called me and said she was resigning her enviable position to go with one of my favorites, Africa Overland - travelling on the back of a truck through every country in Africa for a full year.  "This is too rugged and you are over their age limit of 38 as this was to be rugged", I said.  But the company said if she thought that she could do this when in her 50s, she could go.  And she did.  Every three months when they got to a semi-reliable town in nowhere Africa, she would mail her journal thus far and tons of rolls of film.  It was then up to me to tell her if her camera was indeed working — as she had no way to find this out en route.  She actually lived with pygmies, bartered for food when it was her turn to in northern AFrica, and a year later on her return, she came off that plane in khakis, looking like a Vogue model she was so beautiful.  She proved to herself that it isn’t age but a state of mind to do something like this — and she is still in demand at the universities to lecture on culture, history, and beauty.  It doesn’t hurt to liven it up with near-misses either!

To many of those here who say they can’t afford to leave their own towns, I suggest looking into Elderhostel for such inexpensive trips.  I have not gone, but I have guided friends to that route and their hundreds and hundreds of small and large journeys.  What I hear most is that the level of intelligence of those going is high and the groups are inquisitive.  And for you women alone, my women friends use them to go everywhere alone — and two have found husbands within the groups.  An unexpected gift of sorts.  Don’t know if it always works, but in these cases, the new husbands were alone but wealthy, and the trips have become part and parcel of their lives to come.  How good is that?  (And YES, they were not openly looking for a man but each has said that she has found happiness the likes of which they did not expect.  So GO GO GO!!!) 

By joan larsen on 06/06/2009 11:22 am
Brenda Howard

Hi Joan - just wondering - is travel part of your job or do you go on these trips outside of work? 

 

By Brenda Howard on 06/06/2009 11:55 am
joan larsen

Brenda … as you might guess with inveterate travellers, even my husband wants to hear just where you went in Africa, what you liked best, what are the scariest moments you remember — well, pretty much write us a book please!!!

As you might guess, I write about travel when the spirit moves me — and it does move me a lot.  I admit to being an inveterate traveller, always researching the next faraway place and how I am going to make it even more special.  I am a hot air balloonist so if I can work that in in the Alps or Australia, you know I am going to.  That sort of thing.

Real life?  For too many years to mention, I have been in political offices in my state, giving me a full life closer to home.  But I have this terrible need to write every moment I have free so once in a while you might see my name here and there.  Another book I have worked on with another just came out last week, and just thought - perhaps I will put something on on the Book Party here.  Always - I find - there is that moment of excitement on seeing the finished product, but with the long time between completion and publication, I am usually off and running on more than one other project.  That is just about past history. 

My thinking:  it is the journey and not the destination in everything I do, so I make that journey all I can make it.  And if you want to see excitement in the flesh, you will find it in me … as I always have something new and different on the back burner, simmering.

But enough of me, please please tell me more of your life "on the road"!

 

By joan larsen on 06/06/2009 4:59 pm
L. C.

I’ve travelled extensively. I am now content to remain home and travel to places within the United States.

I am in the process of gathering documentation on my family for a book on our geneology. This will take me to several states in the United States and possibly abroad.

I enjoy the peacefulness of the hamptons.

By L. C. on 06/06/2009 5:16 pm
Suzanne Frazier
St Petersburg to see the art.  Venice to see the architecture.  Cody WY to see the Western American Art Museum.  That’s all that is left on my list.  I’ve seen most of the world that I wanted to see.
By Suzanne Frazier on 06/06/2009 7:08 pm