Valentino and Billy Norwich | 03/18/2009 1:20 pm
Valentino to Billy Norwich: I Feel Lucky to Have Left Fashion

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ETCETERIST: Couture, ready-to-wear, men’s clothing, beautiful houses, pugs — and now added to your résumé, movie star. I saw Matt Tyrnauer’s “Valentino: The Last Emperor” at a screening, and people were sobbing over the examination of a life devoted to beauty and your relationship with your partner, Giancarlo Giammetti, for more than half a century. The film is the talk of the United States in a year when California’s Proposition 8 opposing gay marriage, which only recently was voted legal in that state, is one of the most topical issues under debate in this country. What are your thoughts about gay marriage. Should it be legal?
VALENTINO: For myself, all these years, I never thought about it in terms of changing the laws. Giammetti and I found our own way — nothing conventional — and it was always friendship first, always the most important thing: the friendship. I am neither for it legally, or against it, so I have no personal agenda here.
ETC: Matt’s film is so intimate. I wonder what you like most and like least about it.
VALENTINO: In general, I am very pleased with the film. What I am most appreciative of is how it documents our lives and our intimate work with all the people who made so much beauty for so many years in Rome before I retired.
ETC: And least?
VALENTINO: After a very short time, with Matt filming us every day for nearly two and a half years, I forgot the camera was there. When I first saw the film, and the sort of deep friendship and intimate conversations between myself and Giancarlo, I think I would have avoided this. But now I am OK with that, too.
ETC: This film opens in the midst of a dire worldwide recession. Although I don’t actually know anyone who has done this, people who do shop are supposedly asking for their purchases to be put in unmarked bags so no one sees they have bought anything expensive. What are your thoughts about fashion, shopping and the economy now?
VALENTINO: I am very sad to look at Madison Avenue or London and see how much people are psychologically disturbed by the economy. No, the days of buying a couture dress are not here, but to lift the spirits, maybe buy a little something — a bit of perfume, a scarf, something to give yourself more confidence and pleasure.
ETC: The unmarked shopping bags? Have you seen that?
VALENTINO: I haven’t, but I understand that women do not want to be thought of as uncaring in this economy. I will tell you something else: As saddened as I am to see so much financial trouble for so many people, I am personally feeling lucky that I left fashion at the right moment before these very, very difficult times.
ETC: Your pugs are your co-stars in Matt’s film. How are they coping with stardom?
VALENTINO: Ah, my pugs, I miss them so. We had to leave them home and I have been traveling now for almost a month and will not be home for two more weeks. I woke up this morning and I was so sad not to be with them.
ETC: What are their names?
VALENTINO: The mother is named Molly, the two girls are Margo and Maude and the boys are Milton and Monty. I cannot bear even to say their names. I miss them so much!
VALENTINO: For myself, all these years, I never thought about it in terms of changing the laws. Giammetti and I found our own way — nothing conventional — and it was always friendship first, always the most important thing: the friendship. I am neither for it legally, or against it, so I have no personal agenda here.
ETC: Matt’s film is so intimate. I wonder what you like most and like least about it.
VALENTINO: In general, I am very pleased with the film. What I am most appreciative of is how it documents our lives and our intimate work with all the people who made so much beauty for so many years in Rome before I retired.
ETC: And least?
VALENTINO: After a very short time, with Matt filming us every day for nearly two and a half years, I forgot the camera was there. When I first saw the film, and the sort of deep friendship and intimate conversations between myself and Giancarlo, I think I would have avoided this. But now I am OK with that, too.
ETC: This film opens in the midst of a dire worldwide recession. Although I don’t actually know anyone who has done this, people who do shop are supposedly asking for their purchases to be put in unmarked bags so no one sees they have bought anything expensive. What are your thoughts about fashion, shopping and the economy now?
VALENTINO: I am very sad to look at Madison Avenue or London and see how much people are psychologically disturbed by the economy. No, the days of buying a couture dress are not here, but to lift the spirits, maybe buy a little something — a bit of perfume, a scarf, something to give yourself more confidence and pleasure.
ETC: The unmarked shopping bags? Have you seen that?
VALENTINO: I haven’t, but I understand that women do not want to be thought of as uncaring in this economy. I will tell you something else: As saddened as I am to see so much financial trouble for so many people, I am personally feeling lucky that I left fashion at the right moment before these very, very difficult times.
ETC: Your pugs are your co-stars in Matt’s film. How are they coping with stardom?
VALENTINO: Ah, my pugs, I miss them so. We had to leave them home and I have been traveling now for almost a month and will not be home for two more weeks. I woke up this morning and I was so sad not to be with them.
ETC: What are their names?
VALENTINO: The mother is named Molly, the two girls are Margo and Maude and the boys are Milton and Monty. I cannot bear even to say their names. I miss them so much!
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I will never be able to buy a couture dress in this life time. Even less so now in todays economy, not even a re-tread on E-bay. I wonder what Mr. Valentino would say about that?
However, I do love beautiful things so at least I can admire his fashions in magazines.
As I read, I thought how a wonderful caring man. I think the time to move on for him was right. I could tell how the interviewer was trying to get some of the "catch questions" that usually ‘flag’, but he was always generous with consideration. He answered with honesty and it was refreshing to see how down to earth he is.
I personally say "kudos".
In this day and age, you can even pick up couture and designer out of a Salvation Army or St Vincent De Pauls.
Mr. Valentino left us a wonderful legacy. May we all learn from it.
As for plain bags and the need to point this out? I say get one of those generic cloth bags you use for anything and give the press something else to write about. :chuckles:
Personally, in this time, if you need something to purchase to cheer you up or whatever, its your own business. Bag or not.
I can’t believe it is finally here! I have been waiting to see this film since I read about it almost a year ago.
Valentino is the only fashion icon we have left. All the rest are just posers!
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