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Question of the Day | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

What are you doing for Memorial Day weekend?

Cynthia McFadden, Candice Bergen and the wOw women share their holiday plans. For further inspiration on what you can do this weekend, revisit what the wOw women did last Memorial Day by clicking here.

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Cynthia McFadden

Cynthia McFadden | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Cynthia McFadden on Memorial Day: 'Lobster Will Be Involved'

My son and I are driving to Maine for my goddaughter’s graduation from Bowdoin College. Her godfather and I are throwing a lunch for her on Saturday. Praying for sun! We’ll then hang out with my mother — who lives on the coast of that beautiful state in a log cabin she and my father built. Whatever we do, there is no doubt, lobster will be involved.  
Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Liz Smith to Sleep Through Memorial Day?

I intend to sleep for this holiday. So don’t wake me.
Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Joan Ganz Cooney Will Have the Best Houseguest in the World

My husband and I will be in Water Mill with the best houseguest in the world, Joel Schumacher, the movie director. We’ll have quiet lunches and one not so quiet at my stepdaughter’s with lots of kids, and go to a party Saturday night nearby. And tennis, my great love, plus the happiness of summer beginning — and with some sunshine for a change.
Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Candice Bergen Will Spend Her Time Outside

We are leaving tonight for East Hampton, where we will bike and kayak and walk our dogs on the beach and see a good summer flick.
Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 05/22/2009 12:00 am

Mary Wells Awaits Her Special Visitor

I am in Vancouver where there is no Memorial Day. I did celebrate Queen’s Day without knowing it, but I didn’t meet up with anybody who wanted to talk about this or any other queen. Vancouver is busy, busy, busy getting ready for the Olympics, and if you were here ten years ago you won’t know you are in Vancouver if you come again. It is very glam. And green. And, as in all pre-Olympics towns, wondrous places are being created on all sides.

I bought a small apartment here that has turned out to be bigger than I expected now that the furniture is moving in. A few more weeks and I am going to send you pictures of it and the views. You can ignore me if you choose, but some of you will see why I actually plunked down the cash for a little holiday place here. Last summer I told you about the whales and Bubbles, the seal in Coal Harbor who slept cuddled next to our boat. I can’t find Bubbles but hear she is about and have sent word out that I have goodies waiting for her. News to come.

Julia Reed

Julia Reed | 05/23/2009 5:00 pm

Julia Reed Recaptures Her Youth

Tonight we’re staying in New Orleans where we’ll celebrate the birthday of my friend McGee at her sister Elizabeth’s house. The three of us grew up together in Mississippi and now we celebrate all "family" birthdays at Elizabeth’s great house (where John and I lived for six months while renovating our own monstrosity). I will marinate some Roman steaks, and John, master griller, will cook them and I’ll make a tomato and mozzarella salad and roast some asparagus and we’ll have birthday cake and gelato from this amazing place here called Sucre (check out shopsucre.com for the most fabulous macaroons and handmade chocolates in gorgeous packaging).

Then tomorrow we’ll get in the car and go to Mississippi to be with another of my closest friends from childhood, M.T. Her father, who has been my father’s business partner and best friend for more than 56 years (and is one of the people I love the very, very most in this world), is under the weather, so we are going to do what we always do – gather ‘round and cook and laugh and just be together. And I’m sure at more than one point M.T. and I will slip off to the pool house to smoke and drink wine – as though we are still hiding like we did more than 30 years ago!

I would rather spend a weekend like this than hang in the finest beach house in the world – the older I get, the more I know I had better cherish the people I’m lucky enough to have in my life while we’re still all here. McGee and Elizabeth and M.T. and I are all doubly blessed because we have such continuity – our parents are friends, our extended families are friends. That bedrock love, those layers of shared experience have enriched my life beyond measure and I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.

Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 05/24/2009 2:21 pm

Marlo Thomas Celebrates 29 Years of Marriage This Weekend

May 21st was our 29th anniversary so we’ve been celebrating all weekend - a boat ride in the park, some pals for dinner on our terrace, and now biking and barbecuing in CT. 29 years! We can’t believe it. It seems more like 12. Well, on some days!
Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 05/24/2009 4:15 pm

Marlo Thomas: How Time Flies

May 21 was our 29th anniversary so we’ve been celebrating all weekend – a boat ride in the park, some pals for dinner on our terrace and now biking  and barbecuing in Connecticut. Twenty-nine years! We can’t believe it. It seems more like 12. Well, on some days!

Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 05/24/2009 4:20 pm

Judith Martin: Reading for a Cause

Reading the newspapers. Yes, all weekend long.

It’s not that my lips get tired. The problem is that I’ve already had my vacation (in Venice, where I read the International Herald Tribune and the Gazzettino – but only the Venezia section of the latter and, of course, the daily Berlusconi scandal on the front page). Two weeks’ worth of The Washington Post and The New York Times have piled up in my absence. I will read them all. I’m hoping that this devotion will counterbalance the general abandonment of newspapers and save their lives.

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Karen R

How many even know anymore who Memorial Day originally commemorated?

http://www.thehenryford.com/events/civilWarRemembrance.aspx

By Karen R on 05/22/2009 12:00 am
Frannie Em

Remembering my brother and my parents and waiting for news to see if my son gets out of the army and doesn’t have a 4th deployment to Iraq - (no thanks Mr. President)

 Garden and beach figures in there somewhere. 

By Frannie Em on 05/22/2009 12:36 am
Frannie Em
Just remembered - an exhibit at the Getty is about to end.  Black and gold lacquered Japanese boxes and chests (made for export).  They are one of my favorite things.  Did a paper in College on them and there are a few in the collection I have never seen before.  LOVE IT!
By Frannie Em on 05/22/2009 12:37 pm
Sam Mirando
We should all remember your family’s sacrifices - far more important than any parade or barbecue.
By Sam Mirando on 05/23/2009 6:56 pm
Frannie Em
That is so kind of you.  My heart is with all the families that have loved ones over there right now.  I know how they feel.  While their loved ones are deployed, there is not one minute of any day that there is total rest or peace.  Even while sleeping there is a listening for the phone.  No turning the phone off in the bedroom, always a waiting for a call or their return.  The calls come in the middle of the night and everyone in the family jumps up and we put the call on speaker phone and savor every word as if they were rare and precious jewels.  Never wanting to let the thought enter that those may be the last words of theirs you hear.  I still have messages left on my answer machine from my son when he was gone.  I leave them there there so that I will always have his voice somewhere.  I know it is odd now that he is back and I can call him if I want to, but he is stop lossed to go again and who knows what will happen.
By Frannie Em on 05/24/2009 1:40 am
Sam Mirando
Your eloquent comments brought tears to my eyes.  Would you consider sending them to our President?  You could do so very easily via http://www.whitehouse.gov/CONTACT/
By Sam Mirando on 05/24/2009 5:48 am
Frannie Em
Sam - you know, I just might do that.  Good idea, I appreciate it. ;-)
By Frannie Em on 05/24/2009 11:56 am
Sam Mirando
Send them to him "for Memorial Day."  Go for it!
By Sam Mirando on 05/24/2009 12:12 pm
Sam Mirando

This might interest you, Frannie, from the New York Times:

[The President] asked all Americans to pause at 3 p.m. on Monday for a moment of remembrance. And he addressed head-on his own lack of military service, in one of the few passages that brought applause from the crowd.“My grandfather served in Patton’s army in World War II; I cannot know what it is like to walk into battle,” the president said. “I’m the father of two young girls, but I can’t imagine what it is like to lose a child. These are things I cannot know. But I do know this: I am humbled to be the commander-in-chief of the finest fighting force in the history of the world.”

By Sam Mirando on 05/25/2009 12:15 pm
Frannie Em

Sam

Thanks for that, remembered you posted it to me, but couldn’t remember if I responded - so now I am.  Appreciate it - good to read. 

By Frannie Em on 06/01/2009 10:23 am
joan larsen

Think of a whimsical, multileveled tree house on Heck-of-a-Hill Road (for good reason) outside Jackson Hole, Wyoming, a B&B like no other high in the Grand Tetons as our lodging for a long, long weekend.  An irrresistibly beautiful area that draws us back again and again … so close to the long, high mountain climb to 11,000 foot Surprise Lake - where we saw a black bear high in the tree guarding this gorgeous, rather-hard-to-get-to place.  Each time we have climbed, down below the Rockefeller family hideaway at Phelps Lake is just visible — and it is a "wow"!  Moose abound.

On Sunday, we had reservations for an early morning sunrise hot-air balloon ride high over the mountains - one that takes the breath away each time we have gone.

That was our long-awaited plan and journey. . but…  However, there always seem to be twists and turns in life, aren’t there?  Always unexpected.  On our way Tuesday we did get into the the Colorado Rockies, snow-encrusted still… where I somehow took a leap gone wrong, ruining my leg and hip (as well as our dreams.) 

So now - the wondrous Memorial Day weekend will begin at the hospital at dawn with X-rays, no doubt physical therapy, and no doubt spent flat on my back.  Hardly the return to the wilds — not close.  We already are calling this journey only "a plan postponed" perhaps until Fall rolls around. 

May your weekends have a happy beginning and a happy ending … and I will save up my doctor stories that are sure to come when the right question comes around!!!

By joan larsen on 05/22/2009 1:22 am
Green Tears
Speedy recovery to you, Joan! So glad your ‘posting fingers’ are still in working order. Rest properly and feel better.
By Green Tears on 05/22/2009 6:55 am
joan larsen
Oops … an added thought for those of you who are only looking forward to an ordinary weekend.  . well, I have a good idea.  Almost all of us are over 40 - and then some - and there is a Dustin Hoffman DVD just out called Last Chance Harvey about people that could be like us. It is "real" and worth a look — and you can let me know what you think!!!
By joan larsen on 05/22/2009 11:43 am
C jay
Joan, I’m ‘here’ if you need me - you know how to reach me. Remember, your first step must be only that which brings you health and recovery!
By C jay on 05/23/2009 10:07 am
C jay

Thinking about what to do on "wheels" - frankly after seeing the horrors of the elders in AZ (AARP and all insurance companies need to be put in federal prision for selling their pseudo-HMO plans and taking our most vulnerable populations off of original Medicare so they cannot see the doctors they need (and doctors don’t give a damn), I need more rest!

I’ll be with self-actualizing humanists on Sunday, I hope, but the DVD sounds like a good idea (The Savages threw me into a depression). Maybe a Grouch Marx DVD will cover up The Savages.

I cannot get near a cemetary on wheels, or I’d pack a little salad, and go to one for Memorial Day - I’d be the only one there, I’m sure, and certainly the only one in a powerchair with a ventilator on it. ;-))

 

By C jay on 05/23/2009 10:13 am