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Question of the Day | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

What are you doing for Memorial Day weekend?

Cynthia McFadden, Candice Bergen and the wOw women share their holiday plans. For further inspiration on what you can do this weekend, revisit what the wOw women did last Memorial Day by clicking here.

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Cynthia McFadden

Cynthia McFadden | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Cynthia McFadden on Memorial Day: 'Lobster Will Be Involved'

My son and I are driving to Maine for my goddaughter’s graduation from Bowdoin College. Her godfather and I are throwing a lunch for her on Saturday. Praying for sun! We’ll then hang out with my mother — who lives on the coast of that beautiful state in a log cabin she and my father built. Whatever we do, there is no doubt, lobster will be involved.  
Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Liz Smith to Sleep Through Memorial Day?

I intend to sleep for this holiday. So don’t wake me.
Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Joan Ganz Cooney Will Have the Best Houseguest in the World

My husband and I will be in Water Mill with the best houseguest in the world, Joel Schumacher, the movie director. We’ll have quiet lunches and one not so quiet at my stepdaughter’s with lots of kids, and go to a party Saturday night nearby. And tennis, my great love, plus the happiness of summer beginning — and with some sunshine for a change.
Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 05/21/2009 11:00 pm

Candice Bergen Will Spend Her Time Outside

We are leaving tonight for East Hampton, where we will bike and kayak and walk our dogs on the beach and see a good summer flick.
Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 05/22/2009 12:00 am

Mary Wells Awaits Her Special Visitor

I am in Vancouver where there is no Memorial Day. I did celebrate Queen’s Day without knowing it, but I didn’t meet up with anybody who wanted to talk about this or any other queen. Vancouver is busy, busy, busy getting ready for the Olympics, and if you were here ten years ago you won’t know you are in Vancouver if you come again. It is very glam. And green. And, as in all pre-Olympics towns, wondrous places are being created on all sides.

I bought a small apartment here that has turned out to be bigger than I expected now that the furniture is moving in. A few more weeks and I am going to send you pictures of it and the views. You can ignore me if you choose, but some of you will see why I actually plunked down the cash for a little holiday place here. Last summer I told you about the whales and Bubbles, the seal in Coal Harbor who slept cuddled next to our boat. I can’t find Bubbles but hear she is about and have sent word out that I have goodies waiting for her. News to come.

Julia Reed

Julia Reed | 05/23/2009 5:00 pm

Julia Reed Recaptures Her Youth

Tonight we’re staying in New Orleans where we’ll celebrate the birthday of my friend McGee at her sister Elizabeth’s house. The three of us grew up together in Mississippi and now we celebrate all "family" birthdays at Elizabeth’s great house (where John and I lived for six months while renovating our own monstrosity). I will marinate some Roman steaks, and John, master griller, will cook them and I’ll make a tomato and mozzarella salad and roast some asparagus and we’ll have birthday cake and gelato from this amazing place here called Sucre (check out shopsucre.com for the most fabulous macaroons and handmade chocolates in gorgeous packaging).

Then tomorrow we’ll get in the car and go to Mississippi to be with another of my closest friends from childhood, M.T. Her father, who has been my father’s business partner and best friend for more than 56 years (and is one of the people I love the very, very most in this world), is under the weather, so we are going to do what we always do – gather ‘round and cook and laugh and just be together. And I’m sure at more than one point M.T. and I will slip off to the pool house to smoke and drink wine – as though we are still hiding like we did more than 30 years ago!

I would rather spend a weekend like this than hang in the finest beach house in the world – the older I get, the more I know I had better cherish the people I’m lucky enough to have in my life while we’re still all here. McGee and Elizabeth and M.T. and I are all doubly blessed because we have such continuity – our parents are friends, our extended families are friends. That bedrock love, those layers of shared experience have enriched my life beyond measure and I wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world.

Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 05/24/2009 2:21 pm

Marlo Thomas Celebrates 29 Years of Marriage This Weekend

May 21st was our 29th anniversary so we’ve been celebrating all weekend - a boat ride in the park, some pals for dinner on our terrace, and now biking and barbecuing in CT. 29 years! We can’t believe it. It seems more like 12. Well, on some days!
Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 05/24/2009 4:15 pm

Marlo Thomas: How Time Flies

May 21 was our 29th anniversary so we’ve been celebrating all weekend – a boat ride in the park, some pals for dinner on our terrace and now biking  and barbecuing in Connecticut. Twenty-nine years! We can’t believe it. It seems more like 12. Well, on some days!

Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 05/24/2009 4:20 pm

Judith Martin: Reading for a Cause

Reading the newspapers. Yes, all weekend long.

It’s not that my lips get tired. The problem is that I’ve already had my vacation (in Venice, where I read the International Herald Tribune and the Gazzettino – but only the Venezia section of the latter and, of course, the daily Berlusconi scandal on the front page). Two weeks’ worth of The Washington Post and The New York Times have piled up in my absence. I will read them all. I’m hoping that this devotion will counterbalance the general abandonment of newspapers and save their lives.

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Rebecca G

I’ll be working on the web site that is going to help my dear friend get the word out about the Memorial Ride we are doing this summer to remember her son and all the fallen soldiers.  It will be raising money for Blue Star Moms and Honor and Rememberance.

My friend lost her baby in Iraq on March 10, 2008.  

I think it’s an appropriate activity for Memorial Day.

By Rebecca G on 05/22/2009 8:46 am
Chips AHoey
opening camp on a island in a lake in the shadows of Mount Katahdin along the gateway to Baxter State Park in Maine - *sigh*
By Chips AHoey on 05/22/2009 8:49 am
deber B

We will visit Arlington Cemetary to visit my husband’s father’s grave…a wonderful man, a true Patriot, Lt. Col in the Air Force who went on to be a test pilot for the Germans and the Israeli’s, and a veteran of World War II.     On Sunday I will drive to my father’s grave in a nearby city.  He, too, was a World War II veteran, a wonderful man, a true Patriot and the kindest man to all he knew and those he didn’t know.   On Monday I will tackle a few chores I’ve been neglecting and fire up the grill for a cookout.

I wish all of my fellow bloggers a truly wonderful and memorable Memorial Day whether it be with family, friends or by yourselves.  We live in the best country in the world, the least racism country in the world and we should be proud of who we are.   Our daily struggles to perserve what it means to be an American are ongoing but worth the fight.

By deber B on 05/22/2009 8:56 am
deber B
correction: “the least racist country in the world.”
By deber B on 05/22/2009 8:58 am
Mommy Dearest

My dears, Liz Smith and I, ladies of a certain age, will be napping - on opposite coasts.  Please, dahlings, don’t shake Mommy with any more earthquakes!

By Mommy Dearest on 05/22/2009 9:19 am
Andrea Brandon
We’re taking 2 veterans and 2 Marines stationed at Camp Pendleton out sailing.
By Andrea Brandon on 05/22/2009 12:00 pm
Susan Crawford

Going to take time to think about what this holiday means: men and women who put their needs second to the greater needs of their country and their world and serve with honor. Then I’m going to buy my plants for the planters on my deck and terrace, and spend a blissful morning with my hands in the potting soil. And when that’s done, I’ve got a pile of to-be-read books piled up, and I’m going to kick off my shoes and lose myself in a thumping good read!

Cheers, wowers!

 

 

By Susan Crawford on 05/22/2009 12:24 pm
kermie b

I received an award from my firm for 15 years service about a month before I was laid off.  The irony of this ugly, heavy, star-shaped, embossed, glass paperweight is not lost on me.  My boyfriend and I have been scouting for the perfect place to destroy what is now known as the Death Star (a bow to Star Wars).  I want to find a deserted cliff where no one will get hurt from flying pieces of glass and record it on our digital camera.

That’s how I will be spending the holiday.  Making memories.  And getting the past out of my system.

By kermie b on 05/22/2009 2:19 pm
Jan Allman

I am going to an American Indian Pow Wow. Where we will honor all of the fallen Veterans, and all who are living, but most of all, all who are still serving. God Bless you boys.

May my nephew have a safe journey home from Kuwait for a 2 week leave.

By Jan Allman on 05/22/2009 9:20 pm
C jay

A friend showed up this afternoon with 2 delicious, fresh watermelon (her grandfather used to grow all varieties on their Colorado River property "which is now more water than land … "). We enjoyed a mid-afternoon diuretic dose of the luscious stuff, and it stalled my routine clearning-out-the-cave activities.

Planning another rather sponstaneous Salad Night, again, with movies and friends (their idea) - cannot clean fast enough, so I’m resting, instead.

The ‘dressing’ is my job! We’ll pull greens from our individual gardens - but it rained here! RAINED!

Hope you are all relaxing.

 

 

By C jay on 05/23/2009 6:45 pm
KatyDid Wells

My husband and I just came inside after spending the better part of our first day of this holiday weekend splitting and stacking wood.  

We live on beautiful wooded acreage along the river and we’re killing three birds with one stone.  Cleaning up the property a bit, getting some much needed excercise, and making a couple of bucks!  Since we no longer have a wood-burning stove (replaced it with gas) we’re putting the wood up on the road for folks to buy (or take - it’s karma wood so if they take it without putting money in our mailbox then it really isn’t a big deal).  There’s a lot of people that drive up our road during the summer and on holiday weekends - trailheads, forest land and places to camp about 10 more miles up our road - and most need wood so we’ve managed to make a fair amount of cash!  

It’s a gorgeous day today - we may grill tonight and then settle in for a relaxing evening, but after today,  I just might follow Liz Smith’s lead and sleep the rest of the weekend! 

By KatyDid Wells on 05/23/2009 7:45 pm
DeBúrca obj
My oldest son’s birthday is on Memorial Day, so we’ll be celebrating Memorial Day with a parade and my son’s birthday. And I will say a special prayer for peace.
By DeBúrca obj on 05/24/2009 8:39 pm
DeBúrca obj

Obama’s Memorial Day Celebration At Arlington Cemetery 

"WASHINGTON — Barack Obama marked his first Memorial Day as president on Monday, saluting the men and women of America’s fighting forces, both living and dead, as "the best of America." 

"Why in an age when so many have acted only in pursuit of narrowest self-interest have the soldiers, sailors, airmen and Marines of this generation volunteered all that they have on behalf of others," he said. "Why have they been willing to bear the heaviest burden?"

"Whatever it is, they felt some tug. They answered a call. They said ‘I’ll go.’ That is why they are the best of America," Obama said. "That is what separates them from those who have not served in uniform, their extraordinary willingness to risk their lives for people they never met." 

President Obama and his wife, Michelle, have made veterans and military families a priority during his administration. His budget proposal includes the largest, single-year funding increase in the last three decades to revamp the Department of Veterans Affairs."

By DeBúrca obj on 05/25/2009 12:02 pm
central coast cabin home
Oh God, how I long for the weekend…weenies on the bar-bi, beer and chips.  I miss you guys.  I am in the study mode for my (gasp) PhD.  WHAT AM I THINKING AT AGE 61?  I am going to be 65 someday anyway, I might as well be what I want.  This is the first time I have had to check in with the girls.  Love to you all and I will squeeze you in between research and tearing my hair out.  Rock on!
By central coast cabin home on 05/25/2009 11:17 pm
Ine Drage

I’ll probably work and study for my exams…                                    But I’m not missing anything, since we don’t celebrate Memorial Day weekend…

By Ine Drage on 05/26/2009 1:20 pm