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My dad is not one to give gifts, but once he gave me a necklace made of seeds and beads, which cost him a 1.00 (he told me the cost) handmade by a lady that was selling them when he and my mom went on vacation one year. I treasure it because it was my dads way of expressing his love.
From my husband- he wrote me a simple love letter, which I will always treasure.
From my Mother- an antique butter churn she loaned to my teacher Mrs. Stewart in 2nd grade to make homemade butter for the classroom.
It is hard to say. At one time in my marriage my husband and I decided to every day write each other a small note with something positive on it. We did them on small enclosure cards and would place them in places sure to be found. I have every single one of them.
My oldest gave me a pretty crystal bracelet. He thinks it is white gold, but it isn’t and I love it for that.
My youngest wrote me a poem:
My Perfect Mom
Her teeth are as clean as a new mustang convertible
Her eyes are a extravagant as a fireworks show. She has brown hair.
My mom is as sweet as hot apple cider
She is as smart as Steven Hawkings
She is very gentle and she loves me very much.
And it goes on with greater adjectives that always make me smile, he accompanied it with a portrait he drew of me. I love that.
My mother left me a piece of jewelry that I really treasure, because she gave it to me to show me how much she treasured me even though she didn’t give birth to me.
My dad taught me how to grow things.
Phyllis, thanks -
I think he was about 7 or 8, it goes on much longer but I just left the first stanza. I like the mustang convertible teeth.
Frannie - What a treasure your son’s poem is, so full of love for you put in his own wonderful words. I know how much you love your family, and this is just one more example of what a great mom you are.
Mo
James … it is the people that have come into our lives, cared for us, raised our spirits, been with us through thick and thin — but mostly, those who we have loved and were loved in return that are the gifts of gifts. They come in every shape and size, new or sometimes well-worn, but we find our hearts filled to overflowing. And as we do not know what the many tomorrows may bring, they bring us life and all of its treasures in unmeasureable way today. Friends, family, they are life’s greatest gifts.
You, Jim, are one of those joys for so many of us.
In my post below of how I chose to revere those I love I have chosen smooth stones … as you will read. One stone in my beautiful glass bowl in the living room has no name on it — only the world NAMASTE, which is the most meaningful word in the vocabulary of my best friend and author, Jim Klobuchar. It seemed fitting this morning to have you read his most wondrous story of the gift that this single Nepalese word has meant in his life — a true gift of two strangers connecting for moments only but finding the lifelong connection was the touching of the heart. Please read on:
He was a boy on a mountain trail, a poor kid with large brown eyes and floppy hair, staring at me where I sat on a great flat-topped boulder high in the Himalayas. He seemed bewildered. But now I remember him as a child who altered a part of my life.
I may have been the first westerner he’d seen–an alien creature on a rock, clad in the trekker’s garments of wool cap, expensive down jacket and multipocketed Patagonia pants. In three days my friends and I had hiked down from the base camp of Mt. Everest. We’d camped beside the roiling Dudh Khosi River and, with supper still a half hour away. So I walked up the trail and scrambled to the boulder top to admire the vast Himalayan panorama. and dozed beneath the streamers of sun radiating off the glaciers. I woke to sounds on the trail. A young Sherpa couple was returning from the potato patch they farmed. Neither noticed me. The boy fell behind and for a few moments stood motionless, regarding me. Then slowly he raised his arm and waved.
I waved in appreciation. He smiled. I smiled. He scrambled to catch up with his parents, turned at the head of the bridge, and waved. I waved. By now we were friends. His parents, oblivious, crossed the bridge. The boy followed and waved. Because the trail through the rhododendron forest was steep and rose 500 feet to their village home, it switched back five or six times. At each switchback the boy stopped and waved. Some times he had to duck beneath branches. Our mutual arm thrashings became very aggressive and more or less fun. At the top of the slope the mother saw me, noticed her son’s excitement and then said something to him. The boy turned, slowly put his hands and fingerips together beneath his lips and said something. I couldn’t hear, of course. But I knew what he was saying:
“Namaste.” In the Himalayas Namaste (Nah-mah-Stay’) means in its most lyric sense, “I praise the God who lives within you.” It’s the most beautiful word I know. It’s the greeting you exchange there. Consider. The God within you. Within me. Something divine dwells there. And if we allow it, if we release our resentments and fears, it can bring us closer together; to better understand each other, to forgive when we are wronged, to cleanse us when we need.
I put my fingertips to my lips, turned to the boy a half mile away and said “Namaste.” And at that moment, the poor boy and I were together, perhaps for the rest of our lives.
He was a boy on a mountain trail, a poor kid with large brown eyes and floppy hair, staring at me where I sat on a great flat-topped boulder high in the Himalayas. He seemed bewildered. But now I remember him as a child who altered a part of my life.
I may have been the first westerner he’d seen–an alien creature on a rock, clad in the trekker’s garments of wool cap, expensive down jacket and multipocketed Patagonia pants. In three days my friends and I had hiked down from the base camp of Mt. Everest. We’d camped beside the roiling Dudh Khosi River and, with supper still a half hour away. So I walked up the trail and scrambled to the boulder top to admire the vast Himalayan panorama. and dozed beneath the streamers of sun radiating off the glaciers. I woke to sounds on the trail. A young Sherpa couple was returning from the potato patch they farmed. Neither noticed me. The boy fell behind and for a few moments stood motionless, regarding me. Then slowly he raised his arm and waved.
I waved in appreciation. He smiled. I smiled. He scrambled to catch up with his parents, turned at the head of the bridge, and waved. I waved. By now we were friends. His parents, oblivious, crossed the bridge. The boy followed and waved. Because the trail through the rhododendron forest was steep and rose 500 feet to their village home, it switched back five or six times. At each switchback the boy stopped and waved. Some times he had to duck beneath branches. Our mutual arm thrashings became very aggressive and more or less fun. At the top of the slope the mother saw me, noticed her son’s excitement and then said something to him. The boy turned, slowly put his hands and fingerips together beneath his lips and said something. I couldn’t hear, of course. But I knew what he was saying:
“Namaste.” In the Himalayas Namaste (Nah-mah-Stay’) means in its most lyric sense, “I praise the God who lives within you.” It’s the most beautiful word I know. It’s the greeting you exchange there. Consider. The God within you. Within me. Something divine dwells there. And if we allow it, if we release our resentments and fears, it can bring us closer together; to better understand each other, to forgive when we are wronged, to cleanse us when we need.
I put my fingertips to my lips, turned to the boy a half mile away and said “Namaste.” And at that moment, the poor boy and I were together, perhaps for the rest of our lives.
Joan,
Thanks for the story, I really enjoyed it. "I praise the God who lives within you." It is funny, I see it a little differently, I live within it, there is no separation.
Joan,
I love your story!!
I put my fingertips to my lips, turned to the boy a half mile away and said “Namaste.” And at that moment, the poor boy and I were together, perhaps for the rest of our lives.
Thank you for sharing.


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