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Question of the Day | 03/15/2009 11:00 pm

What is the best present you have ever received?

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Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 03/15/2009 11:00 pm

Candice Bergen's Favorite Shoes

Whoa. My daughter once made me a pair of birthday shoes when she was 10 or 11. I had them framed in a glass box and they hang on the wall in NYC. They are brilliant. Made of paper, lace and ribbon, and she taped Q-Tips inside them to massage my feet. And my husband is one of the all-time great gift givers. He really loves it and creates a sense of fun and surprise. He always hides his gifts in something else. The first big one was camouflaged inside a new pair of Tod’s loafers — which I loved. When I found what was inside them (a beautiful, understated piece of jewelry), I almost plotzed.
Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 03/15/2009 11:00 pm

Liz Smith's 'Most Satisfying' Present

I have said before that I have a pair of diamond clip-on earrings, which are panther heads, and I wear these almost every day. They were handmade by the jeweler who made Marie Antoinette’s infamous necklace. They are still in business in Paris and Rome. I have never had a gift that gave me so much satisfaction. 
Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 03/15/2009 11:00 pm

Joan Ganz Cooney: The Gift of Family

The best present I ever received was from my stepdaughter, Holly, when she gave birth to Chloe, now 12. Holly encouraged and facilitated in every way my bonding with my granddaughter. When she knew I was coming by, she’d pump breast milk so that I could feed the baby and then rock her to sleep. Whenever she and her husband went away for a weekend or, sometimes, longer periods, the baby and her nanny stayed with us, or when we spent vacations in Florida, Chloe would come with us sometimes without her parents. Germaine once wrote, and it described perfectly those early years (and later ones too), when she wrote of caring for the infant girl of a friend. "Ruby lit up my life in a way that nobody, certainly no lover, has ever done. I was not prepared for the incandescent sensuousness of this small child, the generosity of her innocent love."

Judith Martin

Judith Martin | 03/15/2009 11:00 pm

Judith Martin: Meaningful Family Gifts

From my daughter, when she was six years old and I was going to a dinner for the queen at the British Embassy: a cardboard tiara that she hastily made while I was getting dressed, because she was worried that I would be the only tiara-less woman there.

From my son: Two books he designed and made when he took up bookbinding as a hobby: one volume containing my father’s 1926 Ph.D. thesis, which he laboriously copied from microfilm; and one with specific pages for me to keep an inventory of the peculiar flatware that we use.

From my husband — that he designed and made: my huge, L-shaped command-post desk, with specific shelves, drawers and cubbies for the things he knew I like to have within reach; a window seat with damask pillows for the music room, in which to hide the music scores that I complained everyone was leaving strewn around; and a variety of high, firm pillows, each covered in carpeting, to serve as footstools under our dining room table, because I am short. And that he commissioned — a song cycle by Dominick Argento, set to my writing; and a portrait capturing what he and the artist agreed is my Don’t-Think-I-Don’t-Know-What-You’re-Up-To expression.
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Cindy Figorski

My dad is not one to give gifts, but once he gave me a necklace made of seeds and beads, which cost him a 1.00 (he told me the cost) handmade by a lady that was selling them when he and my mom went on vacation one year. I treasure it because it was my dads way of expressing his love.

From my husband- he wrote me a simple love letter, which I will always treasure.

From my Mother- an antique butter churn she loaned to my teacher Mrs. Stewart in 2nd grade to make homemade butter for the classroom.

By Cindy Figorski on 03/16/2009 12:38 am
Frannie Em

It is hard to say.  At one time in my marriage my husband and I decided to every day write each other a small note with something positive on it.  We did them on small enclosure cards and would place them in places sure to be found.  I have every single one of them.

My oldest gave me a pretty crystal bracelet.  He thinks it is white gold, but it isn’t and I love it for that.

My youngest wrote  me a poem:

My Perfect Mom

Her teeth are as clean as a new mustang convertible

Her eyes are a extravagant as a fireworks show.  She has brown hair.

My mom is as sweet as hot apple cider

She is as smart as Steven Hawkings

She is very gentle and she loves me very much.

And it goes on with greater adjectives that always make me smile, he accompanied it with a portrait he drew of me.  I love that.

My mother left me a piece of jewelry that I really treasure, because she gave it to me to show me how much she treasured me even though she didn’t give birth to me.

My dad taught me how to grow things. 

 

By Frannie Em on 03/16/2009 12:49 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Frannie, how old was your son when he wrote that poem? That is so very precious, and very funny. Bless his heart.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 03/16/2009 8:23 am
Frannie Em

Phyllis, thanks -

I think he was about 7 or 8, it goes on much longer but I just left the first stanza.  I like the mustang convertible teeth. 

By Frannie Em on 03/16/2009 9:45 am
Maizie James

Frannie,

You are truly blessed to have such a wonderful son!

Thank you for sharing!

 

By Maizie James on 03/17/2009 2:05 pm
Frannie Em

Thanks Maizie, 

You are sweet for noticing.  I think I like them. 

By Frannie Em on 03/17/2009 5:54 pm
Maurine H

Frannie - What a treasure your son’s poem is, so full of love for you put in his own wonderful words. I know how much you love your family, and this is just one more example of what a great mom you are.

Mo

By Maurine H on 03/18/2009 12:31 pm
James the Game
The people who’ve been in my life.
By James the Game on 03/16/2009 2:56 am
joan larsen

James … it is the people that have come into our lives, cared for us, raised our spirits, been with us through thick and thin — but mostly, those who we have loved and were loved in return that are the gifts of gifts.  They come in every shape and size, new or sometimes well-worn, but we find our hearts filled to overflowing.  And as we do not know what the many tomorrows may bring, they bring us life and all of its treasures in unmeasureable way today.  Friends, family, they are life’s greatest gifts.

You, Jim, are one of those joys for so many of us.

By joan larsen on 03/16/2009 8:42 am
joan larsen

In my post below of how I chose to revere those I love I have chosen smooth stones … as you will read.  One stone in my beautiful glass bowl in the living room has no name on it — only the world NAMASTE, which is the most meaningful word in the vocabulary of my best friend and author, Jim Klobuchar.  It seemed fitting this morning to have you read his most wondrous story of the gift that this single Nepalese word has meant in his life — a true gift of two strangers connecting for moments only but finding the lifelong connection was the touching of the heart.  Please read on:

He was a boy on a mountain trail, a poor kid with large brown eyes and floppy hair, staring at me where I sat on a great flat-topped boulder high in the Himalayas. He seemed bewildered. But now I remember him as a child who altered  a part of my life.

I may have been the first westerner he’d seen–an alien creature on a  rock, clad in the trekker’s garments of wool cap, expensive down jacket and multipocketed Patagonia pants. In three days my friends and I had hiked down from the base camp of Mt. Everest. We’d camped beside the roiling Dudh Khosi River and, with supper still a half  hour away. So I  walked up the trail and scrambled to the boulder top to admire the vast Himalayan panorama. and dozed beneath the streamers of sun radiating off the glaciers. I woke to sounds on the trail. A young Sherpa couple was returning from the potato patch they farmed. Neither noticed me. The boy fell behind and for a few moments stood motionless, regarding me. Then slowly he raised his arm and waved.

I waved in appreciation. He smiled. I smiled. He scrambled to catch up with his parents, turned at the head of the bridge, and waved. I waved. By now we were friends. His parents, oblivious, crossed the bridge. The boy followed and waved. Because the trail through the rhododendron forest was steep and rose 500 feet to their village home, it switched back five or six times. At each switchback the boy stopped and waved. Some times he had to duck beneath  branches. Our mutual arm thrashings became very aggressive and more or less fun. At the top of the slope the mother saw me, noticed her son’s excitement and then said something to him. The boy turned, slowly put his hands and fingerips together beneath his lips and said something. I couldn’t hear, of course. But I knew what he was saying:

“Namaste.”  In the Himalayas Namaste (Nah-mah-Stay’) means in its most lyric sense, “I praise the God who lives within you.” It’s the most beautiful word I know. It’s the greeting you exchange there. Consider. The God within you. Within me. Something divine dwells there. And if we allow it, if we release our resentments and fears, it can bring us closer together; to better understand each other, to forgive when we are wronged, to cleanse us when we need.

I put my fingertips to my lips, turned to the boy a half mile away and said “Namaste.” And at that moment, the poor boy and I were together, perhaps for the rest of our lives.

He was a boy on a mountain trail, a poor kid with large brown eyes and floppy hair, staring at me where I sat on a great flat-topped boulder high in the Himalayas. He seemed bewildered. But now I remember him as a child who altered  a part of my life.

I may have been the first westerner he’d seen–an alien creature on a  rock, clad in the trekker’s garments of wool cap, expensive down jacket and multipocketed Patagonia pants. In three days my friends and I had hiked down from the base camp of Mt. Everest. We’d camped beside the roiling Dudh Khosi River and, with supper still a half  hour away. So I  walked up the trail and scrambled to the boulder top to admire the vast Himalayan panorama. and dozed beneath the streamers of sun radiating off the glaciers. I woke to sounds on the trail. A young Sherpa couple was returning from the potato patch they farmed. Neither noticed me. The boy fell behind and for a few moments stood motionless, regarding me. Then slowly he raised his arm and waved.

I waved in appreciation. He smiled. I smiled. He scrambled to catch up with his parents, turned at the head of the bridge, and waved. I waved. By now we were friends. His parents, oblivious, crossed the bridge. The boy followed and waved. Because the trail through the rhododendron forest was steep and rose 500 feet to their village home, it switched back five or six times. At each switchback the boy stopped and waved. Some times he had to duck beneath  branches. Our mutual arm thrashings became very aggressive and more or less fun. At the top of the slope the mother saw me, noticed her son’s excitement and then said something to him. The boy turned, slowly put his hands and fingerips together beneath his lips and said something. I couldn’t hear, of course. But I knew what he was saying:

“Namaste.”  In the Himalayas Namaste (Nah-mah-Stay’) means in its most lyric sense, “I praise the God who lives within you.” It’s the most beautiful word I know. It’s the greeting you exchange there. Consider. The God within you. Within me. Something divine dwells there. And if we allow it, if we release our resentments and fears, it can bring us closer together; to better understand each other, to forgive when we are wronged, to cleanse us when we need.

I put my fingertips to my lips, turned to the boy a half mile away and said “Namaste.” And at that moment, the poor boy and I were together, perhaps for the rest of our lives.

By joan larsen on 03/16/2009 11:20 am
Frannie Em

Joan,

Thanks for the story, I really enjoyed it.  "I praise the God who lives within you."  It is funny, I see it a little differently, I live within it, there is no separation. 

By Frannie Em on 03/16/2009 11:38 am
Maizie James

Joan,

I love your story!!

I put my fingertips to my lips, turned to the boy a half mile away and said “Namaste.” And at that moment, the poor boy and I were together, perhaps for the rest of our lives.

 

Thank you for sharing.
By Maizie James on 03/17/2009 2:09 pm
Frannie Em
Maizie, there you are.  I was wondering where you were.  Great picture. 
By Frannie Em on 03/17/2009 5:52 pm
Maurine H
Joan, thank you for sharing this beautiful story.
By Maurine H on 03/18/2009 12:34 pm
James the Game
Likewise, Joan! I can’t wait for heaven, when nice people like you are walking around all around smiling. No more worries, no more fears, no more hurt, no more politics! Yeehaw!
By James the Game on 03/16/2009 3:45 pm