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Question of the Day | 08/27/2009 11:00 pm

What's the most physically grueling/challenging thing you've ever done?

Join Mary Wells, Liz Smith, Marlo Thomas, Candice Bergen and Joan Ganz Cooney as they share their most physically challenging moments
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Candice Bergen

Candice Bergen | 08/27/2009 11:00 pm

From Leg Waxes to 15-Mile Hikes, Candice Bergen Pushes Her Limits

Does a leg wax count? Perhaps the most recent was a very challenging 15-mile hike I took at the first spa I ever went to. It was The Ashram and they really pushed you to your limit. By the way, I won "Biggest Loser," having lost seven pounds in a week there.

Also, doing the Colorado River rapids in the Grand Canyon for a week in wooden dories.

Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 08/27/2009 11:00 pm

Mary Wells's Sickening Experience

Six weeks of radiation on the stomach area after surgery for a tumor. It made me so sick I didn’t dare move.


Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 08/27/2009 11:00 pm

Liz Smith Swam With the Sharks for James Bond

The most physically grueling, challenging thing I’ve ever done happened during the filming of "Thunderball" in the Bahamas back when James Bond was played by Sean Connery. I was writing a story for Sports Illustrated. These tough guys working the movie took me out in a small boat to a mountain sticking up out of the water and said, "We’re going to get in the water, swim down and come up inside of this peak, which is hollow inside. We’ll guide you through a hole under the water and we are filming inside." I demurred. I said I didn’t swim all that well. They said, "Don’t worry we’ll guide you."

Then these tough guys working on the film said, "Either you swim down with us or we leave you here alone on top of the water, which is surrounded by sharks. And this is an awfully small boat." I opted to swim but it was horrible and they had affixed a dead shark at the entrance impaled on a spear under the water. I have never been so frightened. Even if I knew they were goofing with me, it was still hard. And coming back out and up to the boat wasn’t fun either. Later, I saw what they filmed in the movie inside that little mountain in the water, but though it probably "made" my story, it was daunting. 

Joan Ganz Cooney

Joan Ganz Cooney | 08/27/2009 11:00 pm

Joan Ganz Cooney: Grief Is Like Being Thrown Off a Horse

I haven’t done very much that is physically challenging since I was thrown off a horse as a youngster in Arizona. As for grueling, the second most was (mass) producing live television shows on a shoestring in the early days of Channel 13. But like Marlo, the most grueling and painful physical experiences I’ve ever had were related to grief over the deaths of loved ones. It was like being thrown off a horse only not being able to get back on the horse again for a long, long time.
Marlo Thomas

Marlo Thomas | 08/27/2009 11:00 pm

Marlo Thomas: The Physical Pain of Loss

This may sound odd, but, the single most physically grueling experience for me was the death of my father. No one ever told me that grief is a physical thing. I felt like I had been hit with a plank.

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Chrome Toe
Holy SHIT pdr… you had a WHIPPLE?  And you were misdiagnosed??? OMG! My best friend had a Whipple. She wasn’t misdiagnosed. but wow. that’s insane! i hope you got some dough out of it! my friend then had a sponge left inside of her after her whipple. The  nurses had a shift change and even though they knew they might have miscounted…. decided they didn’t. she got some dough. I can’t believe that happend to you! oh i take that back. yes i can. i’ve been in shock watching what has happend with my friend. in her med records they had some parts that said she had stage 3 cancer and some places stage 4. ummmm…. big difference morons. they also can’t agree whether or not they left a stent inside of her or not. she’s super super smart and gets every single sheet of paper from her doc the minute it’s available. she noticed they left a stent inside of her before they did. then they argued with her about it. doctors….. they are most CERTAINLY not the gods we used to think of them as in other decades are they?
By Chrome Toe on 08/30/2009 7:14 pm
Pdr de

No, they’re not.  I didn’t sue - all the six doctors I consulted stuck together and said they had concurred with the diagnosis of pancreatic cancer and since it was hard to detect, blah, blah, blah!  That’s not the end of the story, for several months I’ve had pain in my midriff beneath my left breast (that’s where the remainder of my pancreas is).  I went to my family doctor about it a month ago, showing him where the pain was and telling him it got worse as the day wore on.  They did a CT scan - diagnosis was "inflammed intestines".  I told him I had horrible problems with gas that I’d never had before - constant - 24-hour a day problems - he should have deducted that with only 35% of my pancreas and with the other problems added to it that something was going on with the pancreas but he didn’t - recommeded an over-the-counter product which is supposed to be for acid reflux which I don’t have.  Two weeks ago I had a terrible attach, felt as though someone had put a steel vise around my diaphram and tighted it as hard as they could, abdomen was filled with gas, I was in agony.  Walked the floor that night and by morning the symptoms were gone and gradually I forgot about it - stupid, stupid, stupid.  Two nights ago, it happened again only much worse - I phoned a friend and asked her to take me to the emergency room where they did x-rays, etc - diagnosis - pancreatitis - a very serious disease, often fatal disease which is much more dangerout in my case since there’s so little of my pancreas left.  enzyemes attach th pancreas leaving dead sells.  There is a surgical procedure to remove them but it is rarely done because it’s so dangerous.  One of the reasons for the disease is surgery on or around the pancreas.  So, I probably won’t live to be 80 as I’d hoped - I will have to be on an extremely restricted diet the rest of my life and will have to take products that help to digest the food - something I’ve only done when I was eating something with a higher than normal fat content in the past.  The emergency room doctor wants me to call my doctor tomorrow and ask for the name of a surgeon - she didn’t explain why she thought I need one.  

I had a healthy, working pancreas when I walked into that hospital nearly two years ago - I was healthy in every respect and only wanted a by-pass so I wouldn’t have to have a stent put in every two months - it was wrecking my bile duct and it was an expensive procedure.  I was deliberately scared into having the Whipple and will never forgive myself.  

I’m so sorry about your friend - what hell they’ve put her through; and it isn’t over yet.  It’s hard to sue doctors - they stick together no matter what. 

Each time those attacks occur, more of the pancreas is destroyed. In effect, my life is being cut short and I think it all comes down to ego where some doctors are concerned. they don’t listen to their patients and they will never admit they’re wrong.  When I brought the surgeon my medical records which I’d carefully organized and had in a folder, he went through them like he was looking for a phone number, never even took a report or test result out to look at it closely; closed the folder and said, I concur with the diagnosis of pancreatic cancer.  When I said I just wanted the by-pass he looked at me like I was out of my mind and promised I’d be dead in two months if I didn’t have the surgery and left the room.  His nurse then began to cry and threw her arms around me saying if I were her sister she’d beg me to have the surgery.  I panicked!  I caved in!  The surgery nearly killed me and now the pancreatitis will probably kill me.  I got five opinions - didn’t rush into anything - learned all I could and still let fear make the decision to go ahead with it.  My fault!  

By Pdr de on 08/30/2009 7:42 pm
Pdr de

a very serious disease, often fatal disease which is much more dangerout in my case since there’s so little of my pancreas left.  enzyemes attach th pancreas leaving dead sells.

Correction:

a very serious, often fatal disease, which is much more dangerous in my case since there’s so little of my pancreas left.  Enzyemes attack the pancreas leaving dead cells. (think this crisis is affecting my brain - sorry).

Thanks for caring and writing - appreciate your outrage and concern on my behalf.  pdr

By Pdr de on 08/30/2009 7:46 pm
Patricia Haden
The most physically grueling and challenging time of my life was the 16 weeks I spent in the police academy at 38 years old.  It was in the middle summer in Florida.  Every day included miles of running, physical agility, firearms training, defensive driving and those were the fun parts.  At the end of each day I swore I would never make it, but I did due to my husband’s support and my determination not give up.
By Patricia Haden on 08/30/2009 3:38 pm
Maggie W
My dad was quite the character.  As a kid growing up, he was always smiling and laughing.  Always willing to help another person and expected nothing in return. To see him bedridden with Alzheimers the last three years of his life was heartbreaking.  A friend on this forum reminded me to always remember the smiling,  laughing  dad.  That has been good advice.
By Maggie W on 08/30/2009 4:38 pm
Chrome Toe
Today… I decided to take up motocross. Just got home. I told my husband that (per another thread) I built up some serious brain reserve as it was very challenging. Physically… I do so much weight lifting that my muscles aren’t all that sore but when you are out there on that track trying to not kill yourself…. it’s SERIOUSLY grueling.
By Chrome Toe on 08/30/2009 7:08 pm
Diane  Rainey

The most physically challenging thing i did was as a 16 year old member of the United States Youth Conservation Corps, engaging in things like building stone walls and cutting down trees with 2-man saws in a state forest. It was also one of the the most rewarding experiences I’ve had. the YCC was formed after the model of the Civilian Conservation Corps. I know it still exists, much smaller than when i was in it in 1978.   

By Diane Rainey on 08/30/2009 9:14 pm
Racheline Schwartz
I don’t know about you guys…but raising my two sons to adulthood was the most grueling task I’ve ever undertaken. Not that I’m complaining or anything…they’re my best friends and wonderful successful and accomplished young men…but when I think of what it took to get them there…I can’t believe I did it without losing my mind or part of it at the very least.
By Racheline Schwartz on 09/05/2009 7:32 pm
Patrice Baldwin
Skiing at ten thousand feet. Thrilling and dangerous and all downhill.
By Patrice Baldwin on 09/09/2009 6:07 pm
Theresa Hernandez

I’m new to this site.  but I will soon be 60 and I am happy to have a "grown up" group of women to talk with.  I have just decided to retire from being a Doula.  this is a new decision, I have not even anounced it to my friends.  but anyway, being with a woman who is going thru labor and giving birth is a wonderous, joyous and can be a grueling physical experience.  Being truly present to a woman who is giving birth is mental but also very physical. 

My Mom died almost two years ago and watching her go thru the process of dying was most grueling too. 

I don’t know who started this site but THANK YOU!

By Theresa Hernandez on 09/26/2009 3:58 pm
Elinor Stone

Sherry Dale, your story makes me want to scream and cry simultaneously. Having Crohn’s disease is bad enough, having a careless surgeon is worse, but then to have to back off holding that surgeon accountable is a sin and nothing worse. Why should it cost so much to initiate a worthy legal procedure. Lawyers charge far too much and include many other items but their time in the time billing. Now, the new health care legislation will have to include LESS accountability for such surgeons. Kind of a blackmail item so that some Congressmen and women will change their votes.

Let them try to go for months without eating, with two surgeries, with a long healing time and then ask them what they think we should do about health care.

I’m glad you’re OK after what you’ve gone through. Do you have suggestions as to how we can cause improvements to the legal and medical systems? 

All the best to you,

Elinor 

By Elinor Stone on 09/27/2009 6:36 pm
K T
The hardest physical thing I have done was sprinting laps for 15 minutes straight. I worked so hard because other people weren’t doing anything that I gave myself a nosebleed and almost puked! It was horrible!
By K T on 11/03/2009 6:58 pm
Pamela Robb
I’ve never been so challenged, as I was today, at the non stop, one hour step class at the "Y" in Welland, Ontario, Canada…Killer Kim was teaching the class. It was brutal. Wimpy me, internally complaining, watched the clock through a curtain of sweat that down poured over my eyes. 
By Pamela Robb on 11/04/2009 2:38 pm