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Question of the Day | 10/28/2009 4:00 am

Do you have evidence that the charities you support are really making a difference?

A friend of wOw’s, Millie McCoy, recently shared one of the most tangible tales of one person making a difference through a charity. Mary Wells, Whoopi Goldberg and Liz Smith tell us if they have evidence that the charities they support have done the same …

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Liz Smith

Liz Smith | 10/28/2009 12:00 am

Liz Smith Knows Her Charities Help Actual People

I know my charities help actual people or I wouldn’t keep doing them. I see the tangible safe housing in Brooklyn and the Bronx built for victims (mostly women and children) of domestic violence. The Mayor’s Fund to Advance NYC keeps building these houses and they are just great. We have built three, we want to build more and Nicole Kidman and Mariska Hargitay are the generous chairs of this fund-raiser.

Oh yes, and we added the "Project Runway" star Tim Gunn to our roster this year. Crimes against women are legion and many are joining our fight to end them.

We have learning centers all over New York from Literacy Partners though we have a waiting list of 400 adults waiting to learn to read and we have had to close some of our centers. This is tragic evidence in itself that the economic recession hurts everyone.

I see what the money raised for the Police Athletic League does for the kids of New York, giving them mentors and places to go after school. These are just a few of the charities I raise money for. I never think any of the dough is misspent.

Mary Wells

Mary Wells | 10/28/2009 12:00 am

How Mary Wells Picks Her Charities

I have traditionally helped people or groups of people I know personally who need help badly, however, when I am approached by friends to donate to formal charities, I rely on my friends to know what they are into. I would trust Liz Smith, who helps just about everybody in the state of New York it seems to me, to know a lot about what she is giving her valuable time to, for example.

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Laurie Deer

I support a small women’s shelter each year with clothing donations and food drives.  Because it’s small, it tends to get lost amongst some of the larger ones in the city. So yes, I find that my contributions and those of others really do get to the women and children it’s intended for.  

 I do find it difficult to support larger more mainstream charities because such a small amount of your dollar actually goes to the intended.   Go Eco/Local to see the results you want.  Have a great day. 

By Laurie Deer on 10/28/2009 9:25 am
New Yorker

Does anyone ever use Charity Navigator?

http://www.charitynavigator.org/

My husband and I actually give most of our charitable contributions to art museums, then Habitat for Humanity.  We prefer to volunteer and give hands-on support in our local community so we know first-hand we’re making a difference in someone’s life.

By New Yorker on 10/28/2009 9:29 am
Christine Cline
New Yorker, maybe you would know of a resource I can access. I am a starving artist, literally. I worked diligently these past 20+ years; since I was disabled through a work injury, producing over forty works of art and hundred of photos. I also finished my first book’s draft of poetry ten years ago. I have been trying to find a sponsor, financial partner, etc. someone to help me get my art into galleries. I am unable to mat or frame any of my art. The photography is all on disks as I can not print them. My computer is near to a hard drive failure o I cannot keep it on the computer any more. Transportation is extremely limited and childcare (I am raising my granddaughter) out of the question. My daughter thinks I was meant to bless the world with my unique art. I think I was meant to die undiscovered. I have been so unsuccessful for so long that I hate to bother asking you. I suppose it is too much of a long shot. Just thought just maybe you might know how to find that kind of help. I have some works uploaded in myspace. URL: blueccs. Habitat is a gret organization to give to. I use to help build habitat houses here in Iowa until health, transportation and other things made it too difficult. Have a good day.
By Christine Cline on 10/28/2009 12:01 pm
New Yorker

Christine,

Unfortunately, there isn’t a national artist assistance program.  Our esteemed country simply does not see the importance of art in our educational system.  The federal grants, thanks to legislation passed by congress, the National Endowment for the Arts is no longer granted to individuals, but instead are granted to organizations who can ‘chose’ to share the endowment or not.  Thre are five possible federal grants:

http://www.federalgrantswire.com/artist-federal-grants.html

The University of Iowa art department may be able to assist you in locating local grant possibilities or gallery suggestions:

http://www.uiowa.edu/uima/

(I suggest them because I do have a dear friend and colleague there who I know personally has opened many doors for artists.)  Locally, for me, I refer to the NYFA for possible opportunities in the art or calls for artists:

http://www.nyfa.org/

May I suggest possibly volunteering at a library?  Libraries are a magnificent place to volunteer to teach to children with some budget.  (Imagine a ‘photography class’ with 10 children and disposable cameras?  The possibilities!)  Some libraries have a budget for ‘granting’ an artist the ability to display work in the library.  Also, watermark a few images and offer them on Etsy:

http://www.etsy.com

Interested buyers pay before recieving - so with payment, you’ll have the funds to print, professionally frame, and ship the image out as well as making a little extra on your artistic expression.  Etsy does not charge you a penny unless you sell something.

By New Yorker on 10/28/2009 12:55 pm
Dawn Murphy
Charity Navigator, a great site, rates all charities using the same criteria.  It is not possible to do that when you are rating save a shelter vs a Habitat for Humanity.  Apples and oranges.
By Dawn Murphy on 10/28/2009 2:28 pm
Chrome Toe
oh yes. Like Mary Wells I tend to give money on a personal level to people in need. However I do donate to charities. They are ones that i feel connected to and have access to. So i get to see what they, and the money I give…are doing. One of my very best friends is the chair person of the board for orphan’s over seas. they have an orphanage in Africa. I support that as well. She’s actually over there as we speak meeting with African officials and touring some folks. I trust her so I trust the money is making a difference.
By Chrome Toe on 10/28/2009 10:50 am
Chris Glass`
I give to our local food bank and Community Ministries. I am on the family council of the Veteran’s Home where my father-in-law resides. I participate in educational community activities with our local gem and mineral society. I donate to Myasthenia Gravis research. I know that the money I give is working for people in my community.
By Chris Glass` on 10/28/2009 11:24 am
Christine Cline

My personal experience has been that though there are many charities I am slowly dying from malnutrition, lack of the ‘correct’ medical care and having no alternative but to push my body far beyond its limits. And most painful of all a life so focused on survival that there is no room for my hopes, dreams, ambitions or even just a normal traditional holiday break or a day off. So I urge people who are interested in making a difference to carefully consider two things. One research your charities. I do not mean  read "their" literature or speak to who "they" reccomend. I mean do some real detective work. If they check out then donate to them. Secondly consider helping people one on one. Charities tend to be a one size fits all; yet, life does not work that way (i.e. I did not say I had no medical care; rather, I have the wrong medical care.) Quietly investigate the person you are considering helping. (Personally I would have no qualms about someone running a full background check and whatever else they wished to check out about me if they were considering helping me.) Then if they are in legimate need of your help tailor that help to fit their needs and dreams.  Also keep in mind that many charities may seem to offer some wonderful things such as day camps , art events, etc. for underpriviledged youth; yet, something like this often misses the poorest of children except for a lucky few because transportation and or other factors may be an insurmountable obstacle. Therefore such a ‘gift’ is really targeted more at the lower middle and upper low income families. Most people are shocked to find out just how many charitable opportunities I am too poor to access. Lastly please remember that a lot of people get nothinged to death here in America because noone will help because they assume someone else already is.

By Christine Cline on 10/28/2009 11:38 am
Baby  Snooks

All too often people are followed by the "number of clients served" in annual reports and informational brochures and packets. And you are right. Often the people who would benefit most are the ones served least. 

Most people assume writing the check solves the problem for someone. Sometimes it does. Sometimes it doesn’t.  A growing number of people in this country cannot keep the mortgage or rent paid and keep food on the table or keep the lights on. And the organizations trying to help them cannot keep up with the requests for help. And yet these community organizations, particularly the faith-based organizations, are at the bottom of the list for most people.  Assuming, as you point out, that someone else will take care of them. And so they write the check to help people who in many cases realy don’t need it. The money just goes to buy the executive director a new big BMW or a new big Mercedes.

In these times the old adage about charity begins at home has some relevance.  At home.  In the neighborhood.  We all probably have a neighbor we know needs some help.  Helping them is the best way to help the community.  And yet few of us do so. We assume somone else will.  And often no one does.  And we wonder why no one did after our neighbor commits suicide. Refusing to look in the mirror as we wonder.   That is happening more and more.  They’re not depressed. They’re simply depleted.  Mainly depleted of hope.  

Sending you an angel to guide you to someone who will help you instead of telling you they can’t.

By Baby Snooks on 10/28/2009 12:16 pm
Christine Cline
Thank you, I do not know if I am crying because you care or because you hit the nail on the head. I have after my daughter to get her financial affairs straightened out. I have also been trying to get her daughter to like her better. Because the truth is I want them together so I can commit suicide. My daughter’s boyfriend just came back from I raq. He wants to move to Hawaii. I want them to take Shea with them. I love Shea with all my heart and to lose her would kill me. But that is what I want. I just can not take anymor of the same old pain, fatique, suffering and sights. I come to beleive that noone is ever going to help. Survival short term is a feat worth of thankfulness but survival long term is just beyond cruel especially when better is being spouted at you everywhere you turn. Men don’t starve because they do not know how to fish. They starve because thy have no equipment to fish with. So if he gets his wish and they move to Hawaii soon they I may get the one present that I can provide for myself thi Christmas and end to pain and suffering an end to unrealized hopes and dreams an end to my life. You take care girl.  
By Christine Cline on 10/28/2009 12:34 pm
Baby  Snooks

Because the truth is I want them together so I can commit suicide.

___________________________

Been there, done that. In fact, honestly, am there now, doing it again.  Fortunately my list of things to do first is so long I will drop dead of natural causes long before I can pick up the proverbial razor blade.  Be grateful for the day. Each day. I am.  So are others.  There are so many of us. 

By Baby Snooks on 10/28/2009 12:53 pm
Christine Cline
My to do list is finished. All that is left is sending Shea away and that is not far away now. Nothing else matters. I suspect you still have hope and usefulness. Good for you. Hang in there. I am already dying. It is just too slow and painful. I am a firm beleiver in euthanasia. I’d prefer life; but, I’ve hit my breaking point. I’m out of time. I have to save myself. So that is what I am doing. Life is better than death. Long term excruiciating survival is not. I am grateful for the day. I just don’t want another one under the same or worse circumstances. You hang in there.
By Christine Cline on 10/28/2009 1:09 pm
Baby  Snooks

If you scroll up it appears there is an angel named New Yorker.  And some of your photography is more than just good. It is quite good.  For those who want to look at it, it’s under photos at myspace.com/blueccs.  I think you just need to get it :out there" so people can see it.  To quote Carole Lombard who came to Lucille Ball at a point where Lucille Ball didn’t know what to do, "give it a whirl kid."   She ended up with a television show and a televsion studio.  You may end up far too busy selling your photography to think about suicide.

 

By Baby Snooks on 10/28/2009 1:32 pm
Christine Cline
Thanks, I did scroll up. Unfortunately her advice fell into the low middle maybe very upper low income category. I am so low that I fall below the low low income group. I can not put it in a gallery without framing it first. That is the catch twenty two that leaves my works in my apartment unseen. Etsy poses two problems. One that is an Internet resource and my computer faithfully warns me now every 15 minutes to back it up because a hard drive failure is imminent. Two. Nickle and diming my way up the ladder will net me almost nothing to actually costing me money because of the rules of SSI and Welfare. My final cut off point may be $674.00 but any amount made under that is assessed and a large chunk of it deducted from the next SSI check. That is why after expenses I can actually end up paying to work. As for grants not only can I not call any long distance numbers.  Iowa City is long distence for me. I am in Council Bluffs. But all grant money is considered income. So again over $674.00 and I lose my SSI. Under  that amount and that is deducted from the SSI.  So you see I am much too poor for the advice offered. I think my only hope would be a full out show. But that would mean a gallery, a means of getting there, something better than dumpster clothes if I am required to be at the opening,  possibly a babysitter and all art to be shown matted and framed and all photos to be shown printed, matted and possibly framed. Quite an investment. Yes I would not only pay every penny back to the one who helped; but, I would wish it to be an ongoing manager-artist relationship. I am an artist, I do not have a business bone in my body. So I would need a partner to handle that end of my career anyway. So now you see. I always fall under the poor enough to be helped line. No I think it just isn’t meant to be. Oh well at least I won’t have to think about how much it is going to cost me to get my medical care on track and my health back. Suicide is free. Thanks anyway kiddo.
By Christine Cline on 10/28/2009 1:58 pm
Baby  Snooks

Few people realize how "welfare" prevents them from getting back on their feet. SSI is indeed a "Catch-22
and blocks everyone from supplementing what is really for most an income that does not allow them to survive.

But we live in a society where "out of sight, out of mind" solves the problem for them. Ignore there are problems and there are no problems. 

We have people selling everything they own just to be able to qualify for Medicaid.  The same with Medicare in terms of nursing homes. People don’t want to deal with it so they refuse to see it. And send a check to the opera and pretend everything else is taken care of. 

Still sending you an angel to guide you.

By Baby Snooks on 10/28/2009 2:49 pm