Question of the Day | 10/28/2009 4:00 am
Do you have evidence that the charities you support are really making a difference?
A friend of wOw’s, Millie McCoy, recently shared one of the most tangible tales of one person making a difference through a charity. Mary Wells, Whoopi Goldberg and Liz Smith tell us if they have evidence that the charities they support have done the same …

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I support a small women’s shelter each year with clothing donations and food drives. Because it’s small, it tends to get lost amongst some of the larger ones in the city. So yes, I find that my contributions and those of others really do get to the women and children it’s intended for.
I do find it difficult to support larger more mainstream charities because such a small amount of your dollar actually goes to the intended. Go Eco/Local to see the results you want. Have a great day.
Does anyone ever use Charity Navigator?
http://www.charitynavigator.org/
My husband and I actually give most of our charitable contributions to art museums, then Habitat for Humanity. We prefer to volunteer and give hands-on support in our local community so we know first-hand we’re making a difference in someone’s life.
Christine,
Unfortunately, there isn’t a national artist assistance program. Our esteemed country simply does not see the importance of art in our educational system. The federal grants, thanks to legislation passed by congress, the National Endowment for the Arts is no longer granted to individuals, but instead are granted to organizations who can ‘chose’ to share the endowment or not. Thre are five possible federal grants:
http://www.federalgrantswire.com/artist-federal-grants.html
The University of Iowa art department may be able to assist you in locating local grant possibilities or gallery suggestions:
(I suggest them because I do have a dear friend and colleague there who I know personally has opened many doors for artists.) Locally, for me, I refer to the NYFA for possible opportunities in the art or calls for artists:
May I suggest possibly volunteering at a library? Libraries are a magnificent place to volunteer to teach to children with some budget. (Imagine a ‘photography class’ with 10 children and disposable cameras? The possibilities!) Some libraries have a budget for ‘granting’ an artist the ability to display work in the library. Also, watermark a few images and offer them on Etsy:
Interested buyers pay before recieving - so with payment, you’ll have the funds to print, professionally frame, and ship the image out as well as making a little extra on your artistic expression. Etsy does not charge you a penny unless you sell something.
My personal experience has been that though there are many charities I am slowly dying from malnutrition, lack of the ‘correct’ medical care and having no alternative but to push my body far beyond its limits. And most painful of all a life so focused on survival that there is no room for my hopes, dreams, ambitions or even just a normal traditional holiday break or a day off. So I urge people who are interested in making a difference to carefully consider two things. One research your charities. I do not mean read "their" literature or speak to who "they" reccomend. I mean do some real detective work. If they check out then donate to them. Secondly consider helping people one on one. Charities tend to be a one size fits all; yet, life does not work that way (i.e. I did not say I had no medical care; rather, I have the wrong medical care.) Quietly investigate the person you are considering helping. (Personally I would have no qualms about someone running a full background check and whatever else they wished to check out about me if they were considering helping me.) Then if they are in legimate need of your help tailor that help to fit their needs and dreams. Also keep in mind that many charities may seem to offer some wonderful things such as day camps , art events, etc. for underpriviledged youth; yet, something like this often misses the poorest of children except for a lucky few because transportation and or other factors may be an insurmountable obstacle. Therefore such a ‘gift’ is really targeted more at the lower middle and upper low income families. Most people are shocked to find out just how many charitable opportunities I am too poor to access. Lastly please remember that a lot of people get nothinged to death here in America because noone will help because they assume someone else already is.
All too often people are followed by the "number of clients served" in annual reports and informational brochures and packets. And you are right. Often the people who would benefit most are the ones served least.
Most people assume writing the check solves the problem for someone. Sometimes it does. Sometimes it doesn’t. A growing number of people in this country cannot keep the mortgage or rent paid and keep food on the table or keep the lights on. And the organizations trying to help them cannot keep up with the requests for help. And yet these community organizations, particularly the faith-based organizations, are at the bottom of the list for most people. Assuming, as you point out, that someone else will take care of them. And so they write the check to help people who in many cases realy don’t need it. The money just goes to buy the executive director a new big BMW or a new big Mercedes.
In these times the old adage about charity begins at home has some relevance. At home. In the neighborhood. We all probably have a neighbor we know needs some help. Helping them is the best way to help the community. And yet few of us do so. We assume somone else will. And often no one does. And we wonder why no one did after our neighbor commits suicide. Refusing to look in the mirror as we wonder. That is happening more and more. They’re not depressed. They’re simply depleted. Mainly depleted of hope.
Sending you an angel to guide you to someone who will help you instead of telling you they can’t.
Because the truth is I want them together so I can commit suicide.
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Been there, done that. In fact, honestly, am there now, doing it again. Fortunately my list of things to do first is so long I will drop dead of natural causes long before I can pick up the proverbial razor blade. Be grateful for the day. Each day. I am. So are others. There are so many of us.
If you scroll up it appears there is an angel named New Yorker. And some of your photography is more than just good. It is quite good. For those who want to look at it, it’s under photos at myspace.com/blueccs. I think you just need to get it :out there" so people can see it. To quote Carole Lombard who came to Lucille Ball at a point where Lucille Ball didn’t know what to do, "give it a whirl kid." She ended up with a television show and a televsion studio. You may end up far too busy selling your photography to think about suicide.
Few people realize how "welfare" prevents them from getting back on their feet. SSI is indeed a "Catch-22
and blocks everyone from supplementing what is really for most an income that does not allow them to survive.
But we live in a society where "out of sight, out of mind" solves the problem for them. Ignore there are problems and there are no problems.
We have people selling everything they own just to be able to qualify for Medicaid. The same with Medicare in terms of nursing homes. People don’t want to deal with it so they refuse to see it. And send a check to the opera and pretend everything else is taken care of.
Still sending you an angel to guide you.

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