When I lived near race tracks - I used to it was fun. My hope is to one day attend the Kentucky Derby. I forget about it and then its too late to make arrangements. I find it fun and exciting.
When I lived in Albany, NY for 17 years in the month of August. Albany is 30 minutes from the Saratoga Raceway (Saratoga Springs). That’s fun!!! But it’s for the social scene, with the peasants outdoors who bring their picnic tables and go to the windows to bet for fun.
Not the people that go to the expensive club house (where you have to dress up) or with the die-hard gamblers hanging by the benches or seats with TVs so you can’t do anything but watch the horseraces.
Used to fly to the races in La. with Edna Gardner Whyte, and she always placed the bets for me, but of course, I was left seat in those days! ;-)) What a hoot.
I’m horse crazy. Used to jump and ride hunter-hack, would go to Arena Polo games, a horse trader friend gave me a foal in the blood lines of Northern Dancer, and I read Seabiscuit at least 6 times. I watch the Kentucky Derby and major races, but don’t bet on horses. Even though it is exciting, am also aware of the cruelty in it.
When the Argentine polo ponies dropped dead in Florida I instantly assumed it was foul play. Even at small equestrienne centers I belonged to there is inner rivalry [esp between very intent teenaged girls] that it wasn’t unheard of that just before a major 3-day event someone would sneak in and hack off a prized horse’s mane or tail so they wouldn’t look good in a show.
This question made me remember something I’d forgotten. I had a trainer who would stand in the ring and give a course of instructions. Do a posting trot, a sitting trot, turn, change leads, canter, and then take a series of jumps in a certain order. On one jump my horse didn’t like the configuration and put on his brakes 2-3 times just before throwing his head back into my face.
It was hot, the instructor was standing in the sun and getting testy. "Come to the center of the ring" meant you are going to get chewed out. She said, "If you stare at the jump [obstacle] in anticipation of what he is going to do, you will crash every time. Look out in the distance at your goal which is the other side…look at the barn and aim for that." I did it and flew over. I was making the horse lose confidence. I used to use ‘aim at the barn [goal]’ as a metaphor for flying past any obstacle. It worked.
I miss that horse…he was a thoroughbred in every sense. Horses are so sensitive, smart and sweet and misunderstood and horribly mistreated.
PS If you go to a public stable, or take children, and don’t know how to ride. Get a library book or read online. A horse’s back, sides, mouth are very sensitive. Yanking on his bit, kicking his sides, flopping hard on his back hurt. And people do it all day. You communicate by how you sit, and how you squeeze you legs against his side, how you gently but firmly hold the reins. And you maintain your balance by putting all your weight in your heels, which are turned down. Horses know/appreciate if you know how to ride.
I also loved riding - took centered riding classes as well. I found controlling a horse helped me in my management and leadership skills with people and the looking at your goal - not the short term obstacles, instilling confidence through body language etc. Great lessons. I have mixed feelings about the race tracks. Never went until a few years ago when my husband took me. I bet with his aid and won. But I am not a gambler and prefer to look at the beauty of the horses. I would love to go to the Kentucky Derby sometime however.
That’s nice, Kay. They often use learning to ride as therapy for people who have disabilities of all kinds….I really think it helps many things because it is a real discipline…so feel accomplished..and plus horses are just such rare spirits and when work with them you see it. And you never forget them…and I hope they don’t forget the people they loved, too.
thanx for these important tips suzanne. i have never owned a horse, but was forced to ride in the past with groups of friends and one time by an ex bf. frankly most of those places that offer horse riding give no instructions, just let anybody ride and the horses get treated badly as a result. i usually came away with a sore back and an unhappy horse.
one time i could tell my horse was in some pain (it was walking on the front of her hooves like tippy toes and i could sense her pain). my bf at the time supposedly raised horses in his youth and got mad b/c i wanted to go back and tell them and let the horse rest. i won out of course and we went back. they didn’t refund our money and they put the horse right back with the other horses to do it again. i was pissed.
funny story, i had went horse back riding with some friends and we found a place that had a bunch of horses to ride. i asked for the most gentle horse of the bunch. well, i got on her back and i was exceedingly gentle. well, she didn’t want to take anybody riding that day (and frankly i totally commiserated with her) and started to gallop as fast as she could to try and scare me. she succeeded. i’m yelling whoa and pulling back the reins. they are all yelling and chasing her. then some idiot decided to close the gate. she sped up. i swear she cleared that gate with me on her. the turned around came back and (after they reopened the gate) sauntered back to her spot in line. where she then turned around and looked me straight in the eye as if to say "bitch off my back now, i’m on rest today!" i got off her back and apologized. needless to say i didn’t ride a horse that day and so i didn’t have to pay for my little jaunt. i doubt she got the same consideration. but she certainly told me a thing or to with that look! who says horses aren’t intelligent? TOTALBS!
it pisses me off no end that they take horses out like that and charge an arm and leg to have ppl ride them. the first time i did it was in the 70’s when i was about 15 and i was so sore. i knew nothing about moving with the horse. then we had passover that night and it was a must attend for the witnesses and i would have to be laid up in the hospital or on bed rest (knowing her she would have wheeled me into the kingdom hall for it bed and all) to get out of attending.
my horse was hungry for some tasty grass and we had to follow another bunch of horses around golden gate park in san francisco. well, most of the other horses were off and galloping. there were two trainers and one was at the lead and one was in the back. well, since i was the last horse, he would come up and swat the horse very hard on the muzzle with his riding crop to stop him from eating. it was HORRIBLE to say the least and no matter how much yelling i did at the guy he ignored me b/c we had a schedule to keep. needless to say i never went back there. i think they shut those down in the 80’s. you know those poor things were abused.
My ex-father-in-law was a breeder/owner/trainer and when I asked if I could take one of his horses out for a ride he immediately directed his idiot daugter-in-law to the public stable a mile away. Up until that time I would go to the track occasionally with my then-husband. But as I came to learn more about what went onl behind the scenes I refused to support in any way horse-racing.
HOwever, back in the early 70’s my FIL had a horse named after my MIL, "Mae W S" who was run in a claiming race. My FIL felt certain that this horse was a poor performer and would never win - it had no heart. And wouldn’t you know it? A busby in the French Quarter had the sole ticket to win. It paid the most money ever paid [at that time] in North American continental racing history. Oh - and the horse never even left the starting gate again.
Don’t bet on the horses, but doesn’t mean I won’t if the opportunity presents itself. Haven’t been to Santa Anita in years.
Living on a ranch we rode all the time, we would finish, clean the horses and the tack up and then go jump in the pool (we wore our bathing suits under our riding clothes). I love horse and riding and have been lucky to ride some great ones.
We used to have a friend that was a wrangler for the movies, some of his best work was in The Man From Snowy River - Denzel Cameron. He was such a wonderful horseman and would saddle up horses and trailer them over to our ranch so that kids that had never ridden before got to ride and taught horse husbandry by one of the best. We had 5 horses, but there were a lot more kids. He was amazing. He could get a horse to do anything and was always gentle and respectful. He taught me how to listen and watch your horse to understand it better. I miss him.
I looked at the link….Western riding is not my thing…too rough hewn for me. But reminded me that I kept my horse stabled at Flag is Up Farms…the farm of the original horse whisperer, Monty Roberts. You could go there and glance at the guest book for the day and there’d be signatures from Christy Brinkley, Queen Elizabeth…
"something so beautiful and graceful about a great cutting horse.’ True…horses are just amazing. And the Monterey SPCA practically gives them away for free because the area farms are turning them in as can’t afford to feed them…sad.
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When I lived in Albany, NY for 17 years in the month of August. Albany is 30 minutes from the Saratoga Raceway (Saratoga Springs). That’s fun!!! But it’s for the social scene, with the peasants outdoors who bring their picnic tables and go to the windows to bet for fun.
Not the people that go to the expensive club house (where you have to dress up) or with the die-hard gamblers hanging by the benches or seats with TVs so you can’t do anything but watch the horseraces.
Used to fly to the races in La. with Edna Gardner Whyte, and she always placed the bets for me, but of course, I was left seat in those days! ;-)) What a hoot.
http://iwasm.org/Profile-EdnaGardnerWhyte.htm
I’m horse crazy. Used to jump and ride hunter-hack, would go to Arena Polo games, a horse trader friend gave me a foal in the blood lines of Northern Dancer, and I read Seabiscuit at least 6 times. I watch the Kentucky Derby and major races, but don’t bet on horses. Even though it is exciting, am also aware of the cruelty in it.
When the Argentine polo ponies dropped dead in Florida I instantly assumed it was foul play. Even at small equestrienne centers I belonged to there is inner rivalry [esp between very intent teenaged girls] that it wasn’t unheard of that just before a major 3-day event someone would sneak in and hack off a prized horse’s mane or tail so they wouldn’t look good in a show.
This question made me remember something I’d forgotten. I had a trainer who would stand in the ring and give a course of instructions. Do a posting trot, a sitting trot, turn, change leads, canter, and then take a series of jumps in a certain order. On one jump my horse didn’t like the configuration and put on his brakes 2-3 times just before throwing his head back into my face.
It was hot, the instructor was standing in the sun and getting testy. "Come to the center of the ring" meant you are going to get chewed out. She said, "If you stare at the jump [obstacle] in anticipation of what he is going to do, you will crash every time. Look out in the distance at your goal which is the other side…look at the barn and aim for that." I did it and flew over. I was making the horse lose confidence. I used to use ‘aim at the barn [goal]’ as a metaphor for flying past any obstacle. It worked.
I miss that horse…he was a thoroughbred in every sense. Horses are so sensitive, smart and sweet and misunderstood and horribly mistreated.
thanx for these important tips suzanne. i have never owned a horse, but was forced to ride in the past with groups of friends and one time by an ex bf. frankly most of those places that offer horse riding give no instructions, just let anybody ride and the horses get treated badly as a result. i usually came away with a sore back and an unhappy horse.
one time i could tell my horse was in some pain (it was walking on the front of her hooves like tippy toes and i could sense her pain). my bf at the time supposedly raised horses in his youth and got mad b/c i wanted to go back and tell them and let the horse rest. i won out of course and we went back. they didn’t refund our money and they put the horse right back with the other horses to do it again. i was pissed.
funny story, i had went horse back riding with some friends and we found a place that had a bunch of horses to ride. i asked for the most gentle horse of the bunch. well, i got on her back and i was exceedingly gentle. well, she didn’t want to take anybody riding that day (and frankly i totally commiserated with her) and started to gallop as fast as she could to try and scare me. she succeeded. i’m yelling whoa and pulling back the reins. they are all yelling and chasing her. then some idiot decided to close the gate. she sped up. i swear she cleared that gate with me on her. the turned around came back and (after they reopened the gate) sauntered back to her spot in line. where she then turned around and looked me straight in the eye as if to say "bitch off my back now, i’m on rest today!" i got off her back and apologized. needless to say i didn’t ride a horse that day and so i didn’t have to pay for my little jaunt. i doubt she got the same consideration. but she certainly told me a thing or to with that look! who says horses aren’t intelligent? TOTAL BS!
it pisses me off no end that they take horses out like that and charge an arm and leg to have ppl ride them. the first time i did it was in the 70’s when i was about 15 and i was so sore. i knew nothing about moving with the horse. then we had passover that night and it was a must attend for the witnesses and i would have to be laid up in the hospital or on bed rest (knowing her she would have wheeled me into the kingdom hall for it bed and all) to get out of attending.
my horse was hungry for some tasty grass and we had to follow another bunch of horses around golden gate park in san francisco. well, most of the other horses were off and galloping. there were two trainers and one was at the lead and one was in the back. well, since i was the last horse, he would come up and swat the horse very hard on the muzzle with his riding crop to stop him from eating. it was HORRIBLE to say the least and no matter how much yelling i did at the guy he ignored me b/c we had a schedule to keep. needless to say i never went back there. i think they shut those down in the 80’s. you know those poor things were abused.
My ex-father-in-law was a breeder/owner/trainer and when I asked if I could take one of his horses out for a ride he immediately directed his idiot daugter-in-law to the public stable a mile away. Up until that time I would go to the track occasionally with my then-husband. But as I came to learn more about what went onl behind the scenes I refused to support in any way horse-racing.
HOwever, back in the early 70’s my FIL had a horse named after my MIL, "Mae W S" who was run in a claiming race. My FIL felt certain that this horse was a poor performer and would never win - it had no heart. And wouldn’t you know it? A busby in the French Quarter had the sole ticket to win. It paid the most money ever paid [at that time] in North American continental racing history. Oh - and the horse never even left the starting gate again.
Don’t bet on the horses, but doesn’t mean I won’t if the opportunity presents itself. Haven’t been to Santa Anita in years.
Living on a ranch we rode all the time, we would finish, clean the horses and the tack up and then go jump in the pool (we wore our bathing suits under our riding clothes). I love horse and riding and have been lucky to ride some great ones.
We used to have a friend that was a wrangler for the movies, some of his best work was in The Man From Snowy River - Denzel Cameron. He was such a wonderful horseman and would saddle up horses and trailer them over to our ranch so that kids that had never ridden before got to ride and taught horse husbandry by one of the best. We had 5 horses, but there were a lot more kids. He was amazing. He could get a horse to do anything and was always gentle and respectful. He taught me how to listen and watch your horse to understand it better. I miss him.
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I looked at the link….Western riding is not my thing…too rough hewn for me. But reminded me that I kept my horse stabled at Flag is Up Farms…the farm of the original horse whisperer, Monty Roberts. You could go there and glance at the guest book for the day and there’d be signatures from Christy Brinkley, Queen Elizabeth…
http://www.montyroberts.com/flag__intro.html