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The Etceterist | 03/30/2009 12:00 pm

Model Carmen Dell'Orefice Speaks Out on Life After Madoff

By Billy Norwich
© Getty Images
BILLY NORWICH: Carmen, I just read in one of the New York papers that after your 12-year marriage to the late real-estate magnate Norman Levy — the man who got you into Bernie Madoff’s fund, where you lost your entire life savings, the second time something like this has happened to you — you have gone back to work at age 77, and something called the Agency Sacks is helping give you a chance at a comeback. I see your modeling work all the time and didn’t think you had stopped working — unless all your salary was going to some charity?

CARMEN DELLOREFICE: First of all, I was never Mrs. Levy. Somebody must have somehow not read this month’s Vanity Fair [in which Carmen tells all about Bernie Madoff, her investment man and, with his wife, Ruth, one of Carmen’s best friends]. I didn’t want to be Mrs. Levy. Mr. Levy was a close friend, a bosom buddy, and he was a lifesaver for me when my first life savings was lost and I finally won the arbitration and got about three quarters of my life savings back. I settled, I didn’t want to go to trial.

BILLY: How did you win?

CARMEN: I had some very good help. Randy Jones of Worth magazine did a ten-page story after David Susskind died. It was David’s broker, you see. Of course, I thought David was the smartest man around and he’d have the smartest broker … I did it twice in my lifetime! The same mistake!

BILLY: I guess you will never invest in the stock market again, will you?

CARMEN: Of course I would.

BILLY: Really? What qualities would you look for in your broker?

CARMEN: I would take whatever percentage per year that the “normal” person makes on his or her investments and never, ever expect to make more than my neighbor can because I would now know, I would know — not even suspect — that some injustice is going on (laughs wryly) when you are getting more than your neighbor!

BILLY: Very wise.

CARMEN: I’d know goldmines and oil wells are a no-no to invest in, and that the word “margin” is also a no-no. All kidding aside, stupid I am not. The worst that happens with me is I am uninformed and too trusting of the experts, but the next time around I will make it an occupation to be vigilant and watch when I put money back into the market because, yes, I believe in America and the basic integrity of this country as a leading nation in the world. So, therefore, I will invest again someday, or I hope to.

BILLY: You sound so upbeat. Since I met you — even the first time you lost your savings and now this second time around — you have this amazingly positive attitude. You sound so enthusiastic. No one I talk to these days is enthusiastic about anything except their next drink.

CARMEN: Well, I am enthusiastic.

BILLY: About what?

CARMEN: About living!

BILLY: How do you sustain that attitude? Are you really so forgiving?

CARMEN: I move right along; I live every day in that day. I try to look at the facts, and at my participation. I am not a victim, and I look at what I can change and do differently moving forward. I’m grateful. Gratitude is very important — gratitude to myself when I get it right and to other people.

BILLY: And this notion that you are going back to work — you never stopped working, did you?

28 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Lucy Baty
My dear Carmen, sorry to hear that crook took your hard earned $.. I admire your attitude about it all.. You will  get it all back and more due to your great karma.. God bless you.
By Lucy Baty on 03/30/2009 7:37 pm
Diana T
I have been a fan of Carmen’s for decades, considering her one of the most beautiful women in the world.  She has style and class, and after reading this,  I think she is terrific and very courageous…
By Diana T on 03/30/2009 7:45 pm
rocky rocky
Thank you, Billy Norwich. That was a very nice read about quite an interesting woman.
By rocky rocky on 03/30/2009 8:59 pm
siasp surate
She is gorgeous.
By siasp surate on 03/31/2009 4:40 am
Mommy Dearest

My dears, I think we can agree that Carmen is indeed beautiful, isn’t she?  That said, this is the second time she’s made the mistake of trusting one person with all her investments.  That repeated error shows that, style, class and courage aside, she did not learn from her first mistake.

No one, not a friend, not a family member, NO ONE PERSON should ever be in a position to control one’s money.  Both her previous broker and Madoff had discretionary control (could buy and sell at will without her prior approval), my dahlings.  That was an expensive lesson learned twice, and hopefully will not need be learned even once from any of the rest of us, dears.

By Mommy Dearest on 03/31/2009 10:34 am
Suzanne de Cornelia
Mommy Dearest, Today there are numerous ways for bright, responsible, always careful with money people to get totally wiped out. Although I agree, never a good idea to put all our eggs in one basket. That goes with wives of rich men. ie Olivia Goldsmith "First Wives Club" she was reamed by her rich lawyer husband….hence the book….and her great interview in the NYT later about learning to manage money in her 50s as a result. Unfortunately, she died after making a ton of her own money during minor facial surgery. So, Carmen is right, things happen, learn, move on. No one is immune to the things we never thought could happen to us.
By Suzanne de Cornelia on 03/31/2009 5:01 pm
Pat M
Carmen is fabulous. It’s as simple as that.
By Pat M on 03/31/2009 11:12 pm
T. BYNUM
Bravo to you Carmen….great attitude for a bad situation!
By T. BYNUM on 04/01/2009 8:49 pm
Dab-a- do

Carmen is unforgettable.

That hair, those checkbones. I’ve missed seeing her in fashion magazines. I hope she gets a lot of dough to look so beautiful for our pleasure.

Also, as Suzanne said, a biography by Ms. Dell’Orefice would fly off the shelves and be purchased by all of us of an older generation who love beauty in all its manifestations.

By Dab-a- do on 04/02/2009 1:41 am
Darlene Craven
When you look up the word class in the dictionary, Carmen’s name will be next to it. WOW! When I grow up I want to be an Old Woman — just like Carmen. It’s all in the perspective, isn’t it?
By Darlene Craven on 04/02/2009 11:24 am
Beth Cornell
I have been a fan of hers since an interview I saw about 15 years ago. I think it was Oprah. Anyway I thought she had class then. I still think she does. :) You take care Carmen. ;)
By Beth Cornell on 04/02/2009 7:49 pm
Joan Cimon
I, too, was a Depression child, who has rather the same attitude as you regarding money, investment, etc.  And like you, I have lost almost everything I had to poor decisions made during the "good years", while I was a successful singer.  My fault was with my choices of men - two husbands who took me for everything I had.  I raised three children on my own, without support from the fathers.  I digress.  I use to live in NYC where I worked, went to school, and thrived - and who wouldn’t?  I have admired your beauty my entire adult life, and I am so sad to learn of your recent disappointment. I won’t comment on what I think should be done to Mr. Maddoff, but imprisonment for life is not a sufficient punishment.  By the way, I had a face lift  long ago at Ivo’s clinique in Rio.  He was wonderful to me and did a gorgeous job on my little face.  I was only 40 years of age and dreadfully stupid, depressed, afraid, etc., etc. At any rate, I am too old now to care about my looks, beyond being as elegant as possible when required and as relaxed and comfortable as permitted at all other times.  I would so love to speak with you sometime, although I know it is doubtless an impossibility.  You see, I want to take a young girl to meet the Ford Agency in NYC this year (in September).  She has potential as a model, I believe, and I would so appreciate any info you could provide to me, in order to make the experience more simple.  I don’t have the courage I use to, nor the physical strength, to buck the system, so to speak.  I could use your expert advice re "how to reach the right people?", etc.  Please don’t give up being the magnificently beautiful, charming, graceful woman you are, for the sakes of all of us women who are reaching the winter of our lives.  What keeps me younger is being able to assist younger people to reach their full potential.  All the best to you.  You are in my thoughts, and each time I look at your photos, I am inspired to carry on.  As the saying goes, "One must  rage against the dying of the light.". I do believe, however, it is easier to "rage" if you live in NYC!!! And yes, my dear, you are very fortunate, believe me, very fortunate.
By Joan Cimon on 04/05/2009 2:29 pm
Chicago Sugano

Carnmen Dell’Orefice is one of the most beautiful Ladies & models in history.  Her geniuine,  unpretentious aura  excells  any  female  representing modelling.

By Chicago Sugano on 06/21/2009 2:29 pm