The Etceterist | 03/30/2009 12:00 pm
Model Carmen Dell'Orefice Speaks Out on Life After Madoff

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BILLY NORWICH: Carmen, I just read in one of the New York papers that after your 12-year marriage to the late real-estate magnate Norman Levy — the man who got you into Bernie Madoff’s fund, where you lost your entire life savings, the second time something like this has happened to you — you have gone back to work at age 77, and something called the Agency Sacks is helping give you a chance at a comeback. I see your modeling work all the time and didn’t think you had stopped working — unless all your salary was going to some charity?
CARMEN DELL’OREFICE: First of all, I was never Mrs. Levy. Somebody must have somehow not read this month’s Vanity Fair [in which Carmen tells all about Bernie Madoff, her investment man and, with his wife, Ruth, one of Carmen’s best friends]. I didn’t want to be Mrs. Levy. Mr. Levy was a close friend, a bosom buddy, and he was a lifesaver for me when my first life savings was lost and I finally won the arbitration and got about three quarters of my life savings back. I settled, I didn’t want to go to trial.
BILLY: How did you win?
CARMEN: I had some very good help. Randy Jones of Worth magazine did a ten-page story after David Susskind died. It was David’s broker, you see. Of course, I thought David was the smartest man around and he’d have the smartest broker … I did it twice in my lifetime! The same mistake!
BILLY: I guess you will never invest in the stock market again, will you?
CARMEN: Of course I would.
BILLY: Really? What qualities would you look for in your broker?
CARMEN: I would take whatever percentage per year that the “normal” person makes on his or her investments and never, ever expect to make more than my neighbor can because I would now know, I would know — not even suspect — that some injustice is going on (laughs wryly) when you are getting more than your neighbor!
BILLY: Very wise.
CARMEN: I’d know goldmines and oil wells are a no-no to invest in, and that the word “margin” is also a no-no. All kidding aside, stupid I am not. The worst that happens with me is I am uninformed and too trusting of the experts, but the next time around I will make it an occupation to be vigilant and watch when I put money back into the market because, yes, I believe in America and the basic integrity of this country as a leading nation in the world. So, therefore, I will invest again someday, or I hope to.
BILLY: You sound so upbeat. Since I met you — even the first time you lost your savings and now this second time around — you have this amazingly positive attitude. You sound so enthusiastic. No one I talk to these days is enthusiastic about anything except their next drink.
CARMEN: Well, I am enthusiastic.
BILLY: About what?
CARMEN: About living!
BILLY: How do you sustain that attitude? Are you really so forgiving?
CARMEN: I move right along; I live every day in that day. I try to look at the facts, and at my participation. I am not a victim, and I look at what I can change and do differently moving forward. I’m grateful. Gratitude is very important — gratitude to myself when I get it right and to other people.
BILLY: And this notion that you are going back to work — you never stopped working, did you?
CARMEN DELL’OREFICE: First of all, I was never Mrs. Levy. Somebody must have somehow not read this month’s Vanity Fair [in which Carmen tells all about Bernie Madoff, her investment man and, with his wife, Ruth, one of Carmen’s best friends]. I didn’t want to be Mrs. Levy. Mr. Levy was a close friend, a bosom buddy, and he was a lifesaver for me when my first life savings was lost and I finally won the arbitration and got about three quarters of my life savings back. I settled, I didn’t want to go to trial.
BILLY: How did you win?
CARMEN: I had some very good help. Randy Jones of Worth magazine did a ten-page story after David Susskind died. It was David’s broker, you see. Of course, I thought David was the smartest man around and he’d have the smartest broker … I did it twice in my lifetime! The same mistake!
BILLY: I guess you will never invest in the stock market again, will you?
CARMEN: Of course I would.
BILLY: Really? What qualities would you look for in your broker?
CARMEN: I would take whatever percentage per year that the “normal” person makes on his or her investments and never, ever expect to make more than my neighbor can because I would now know, I would know — not even suspect — that some injustice is going on (laughs wryly) when you are getting more than your neighbor!
BILLY: Very wise.
CARMEN: I’d know goldmines and oil wells are a no-no to invest in, and that the word “margin” is also a no-no. All kidding aside, stupid I am not. The worst that happens with me is I am uninformed and too trusting of the experts, but the next time around I will make it an occupation to be vigilant and watch when I put money back into the market because, yes, I believe in America and the basic integrity of this country as a leading nation in the world. So, therefore, I will invest again someday, or I hope to.
BILLY: You sound so upbeat. Since I met you — even the first time you lost your savings and now this second time around — you have this amazingly positive attitude. You sound so enthusiastic. No one I talk to these days is enthusiastic about anything except their next drink.
CARMEN: Well, I am enthusiastic.
BILLY: About what?
CARMEN: About living!
BILLY: How do you sustain that attitude? Are you really so forgiving?
CARMEN: I move right along; I live every day in that day. I try to look at the facts, and at my participation. I am not a victim, and I look at what I can change and do differently moving forward. I’m grateful. Gratitude is very important — gratitude to myself when I get it right and to other people.
BILLY: And this notion that you are going back to work — you never stopped working, did you?
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My dears, I think we can agree that Carmen is indeed beautiful, isn’t she? That said, this is the second time she’s made the mistake of trusting one person with all her investments. That repeated error shows that, style, class and courage aside, she did not learn from her first mistake.
No one, not a friend, not a family member, NO ONE PERSON should ever be in a position to control one’s money. Both her previous broker and Madoff had discretionary control (could buy and sell at will without her prior approval), my dahlings. That was an expensive lesson learned twice, and hopefully will not need be learned even once from any of the rest of us, dears.
Carmen is unforgettable.
That hair, those checkbones. I’ve missed seeing her in fashion magazines. I hope she gets a lot of dough to look so beautiful for our pleasure.
Also, as Suzanne said, a biography by Ms. Dell’Orefice would fly off the shelves and be purchased by all of us of an older generation who love beauty in all its manifestations.
Carnmen Dell’Orefice is one of the most beautiful Ladies & models in history. Her geniuine, unpretentious aura excells any female representing modelling.