Although this profession maybe distasteful to many, women and men alike, the women depicted in this photo essay were resourceful, strong and articulate business women. Simply referring to them as ” business savvy” would be an understatement.
Lexington, Ky. boasts one of the most famous madams of all: Belle Brezing; she is the madam that was the inspiration of the one in Gone With the Wind.
Google her name…a very interesting, but sad story.
I am fascinated with these women. Even in the ancient days of old, there were madams. I took an ancient history class once and was just astounded when this came up. These ladies must have been true business women to be able to survive in this kind of atmosphere.
I always wondered if Miss Kitty on Gunsmoke was a madam. I bet she was but I don’t remember anyone ever referring to it on the show….but of course I was young then. LOL
Hi Doll!
I too have always been fascinated with them. And by the fact that so often they and their employees say they feel a sense of power by what they do. That they feel they are the ones in control and they are the ones who feel they are using, rather than being used.
I don’t understand this exactly, but I am nevertheless quite fascinated by it.
I’m sorta shocked by the comments so far. I see madams as the worst kind of women - women exploiting women. It’s bad enough when men acting as pimps do it to women, it’s worse when we do it to ourselves.
Lorraine ……… your point of “women exploiting women” I find to be a quite valid. However, there are volumes of women whom have chosen to pursue this profession. My former daughter-in-law did just that, resulting in the disintegration of her marriage to our son. She has now found another man who is more “suited to and supportive of” her chosen profession.
Hi, Linda, I, too, was going to respond to Lorraine, but had to leave to complete some domestic chores and while doing them thought about her “women exploiting women.” I’m sure there must be cases where this could be the case, but, like you, I think it’s certainly a chosen profession–––I use the word loosely. The question SHOULD be why women go into this in the first place. Look at the picture of Jessie Williams in the pictorial views ––now doesn’t she look like someone you’d love to have a bowl of grits with at her Chicken Ranch? She was played by Dolly Parton in the film depicting her life and if I recall it was a fun-filled bawdy romp of a film, just as cute as it could be. Compare this with a film like “Klute” which is a realistic portrayal of a call-girl who is mired in anguish and fear. That film breaks your heart. And here we have your former daughter-in-law and again the question is why? And I think there are as many answers to that then there are women who indulge in it.
Phyllis and Lorraine …. Greed, disregard for another’s emotional or physical well being, thrill junkie (all of which describe my former daughter in law) ….. any or all of these descriptions could be considered motive.
But another one comes to mind; the inability to address or deal with the indecencies that they may have experienced themselves at the hand of another. That they simply gave up trying to build the life that they had stolen out from under them (also my former daughter in law). In this instance, her mother was emotionally vacant unless the situation revolved around money or any other benefit. She was and still is an opportunist, and her daughter got tired of fighting to get away from what she knew ….. what she was familiar with. And so, the cycle continues …………
Hi Lorraine,
I share your sentiments - to some extent. I think there are some madams that are not nice people (I hope that some of them are), and they probably treat people terribly. (I happen to think that Heidi F. is one of them. I don’t think she has a nice bone in her body. What a no-class mess she is. If you saw the HBO program last night, I think she would have knocked that old madam off herself, had she not died first - just to get her birds! I do.)
Anyway, I think the profession of prostitution isn’t going anywhere soon. So, I am in favor of legalizing it.
At least the women who work in that profession would have some protection. They wouldn’t get screwed - literally and figuratively.
It would get the women off the street. They wouldn’t need pimps. So they would get the money they earn. Or at least more of it.
They would get health care, so they wouldn’t infect the clients, and it would help to control/prevent the spread of disease to others.
I also don’t condone drug use. But I think the addicts who live on the streets should be able to go into a free clinic, and get clean needles.
Lorraine, Spot on!… How in the world can women protest the treatment of the pimps, whilst our own sisters deliver each other in to the hands of those who are just as “Vile” as the pimp. And to call these “Great Buisness women” is like saying hooray to the hit-man as they too make great money for dicarding people as well. One may say, How can you compare a hit-man to a madame? Simple…. They both rob life. One physcialy and the other spiritualy. A woman no matter what the reasoning, who feels she has to sacrafice/sell her very being in order to make money….Is already dead!
Furthermore woman are continually bitching and moaning about all the hideous behaviors of men, when the best these women do is perpeuate the whole notion that women are nothing but objects for men to use at their own disposal and are good for nothing but their (Men’s) sexual pleasure…And now all of a sudden, it’s not so bad because the women are being paid……This is why we have all the things going wrong with rape, child molestation, pornography ect..ect. It’s flat out WRONG to think anything about the use (Physcially or Emotionally) of women is a good thing. It is an abuse to them, no matter what label you try to stick on it!
Lorraine,
Back during the Civil War when Belle Brezing was a madam, she was not doing it to “exploit women”. In fact, you would do well to read the biographies of some of these women, especially of the ones a hundred years ago. They were just trying to survive. The reason I mention Belle Brezing is that she was the model for Gone With The Wind.
As I said in my previous post, google her and you will see how she came into the profession and the horrors of her childhood.
My great-great-grandmother had a similar story to Belle Brezing’s, and she didn’t become a madam. She found other was to survive.
And, pardon me, but what exactly does that have to do with Heidi Fleiss, Sydney Biddle Barrows, and other modern madams? They both came from very well-to-do backgrounds. They definitely had other options.
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I too have always been fascinated with them. And by the fact that so often they and their employees say they feel a sense of power by what they do. That they feel they are the ones in control and they are the ones who feel they are using, rather than being used.
I don’t understand this exactly, but I am nevertheless quite fascinated by it.