Elizabeth Edwards Calls Rielle Hunter 'Pathetic' | 04/30/2009 9:55 am
Elizabeth Edwards Calls Rielle Hunter 'Pathetic' in Memoir Resilience

"He should not have run," Edwards writes in the book, which hits bookstores on May 12.
While the Daily News, which reportedly obtained a copy of the book pre-publication, reports that Resilience does offer further details about Mr. Edwards’s fall from grace, Mrs. Edwards did not write a cutthroat book that harshly attacks those who betrayed her. In fact, Edwards does not once use the name of John Edwards’s mistress, Rielle Hunter. But she describes the aspiring videographer as "pathetic." The book also talks about her husband’s lies and her immediate reaction to his confession of betrayal.
"I cried and screamed, I went to the bathroom and threw up," writes Edwards, 59, who is terminally ill with cancer.
The paper also reports more book details:
Her own life may be tragic, she concludes, but Hunter’s is ‘pathetic.’ Even when Edwards confessed to his wife, he lied, claiming he had slipped up just once, Elizabeth writes. His original version of the story ‘left most of the truth out,’ she writes. While Elizabeth still hasn’t fully come to terms with her man’s roaming, the memoir is laced with a powerful dose of forgiveness. ‘I lie in bed, circles under my eyes, my sparse hair sticking in too many directions, and he looks at me as if I am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. It matters,’ she writes.
Mrs. Edwards has been criticized for standing by her husband’s side. However, she and her husband of nearly 32 years have endured a lifetime of tragic adversities together. Their son Wade was killed in a freak car accident when he was only 16 years old. Days before the 2004 presidential election — when Edwards was running for vice president, Elizabeth was diagnosed with breast cancer. During the campaign, as she supported her husband, she was undergoing rounds of chemotherapy, radiation and surgery. In 2007, she was told the cancer had returned, spread and was untreatable.
On January 30, 2008, Edwards suddenly withdrew from the Democratic presidential nomination race. In early August, after a string of stories in the National Enquirer, he confessed his affair to the public. His wife, though, had known of his extramarital activities for nearly two years. His campaign exit came exactly one month before Hunter gave birth to baby Frances Quinn, who many suspect is Edwards’s baby.























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Dorothy…so true. She is the only one that has stayed true to her vows, she has found something in her soul searching that brings her peace.
She certainly deserves that.
Any women who sleeps with a man she knows is married is the textbook definition of pathetic! Elizabeth has it right on that count!
I personally feel her husband is pretty pathetic too but I haven’t bore his children, I don’t love him, and those bonds seem pretty strong to Elizabeth. I hope she finds peace and happiness with the cad of a man she married!
Sorry……I think any woman who thinks it is the "other woman’s" fault is the one who is pathetic. Generally I admire Elizabeth Edwards — but, I am somewhat peeved that she allowed her husband to run for President when she knew he had had an affair and therefore ruined his chances — I just don’t understand why she felt the need to call Rielle Hunter "pathetic"…….I mean what is the point, except to make Elizabeth look bitter.
My ex-husband had an affair which broke up our marriage (well let’s just say it was the cherry on the top of the disasterous cake of our marriage) — HE was the one responsible for his actions, not her.
"I think any woman who thinks it is the "other woman’s" fault is the one who is pathetic."
I have to admit, I was tempted to write that…but I understand that Elizabeth’s was not a rational statement, but simply one she made attempting to shield the man she loves. It is pathetic, but not in the negative sense of the word; and so I refrained from using it, lest it be misunderstood. But, sadly, human kind has always blamed the other woman, and women have bought into it for far too long; maybe because it’s easier to focus their anger on someone else than facing the truth, that the man they love let them down. The other woman isn’t the problem, at least, not as much of a problem as the man — whose commitment it was. Better to place the blame where it lays, instead of letting someone else be the focus of anger; it wasn’t the other woman who betrayed her trust and her; it was him.
"the liklihood is very good that he will betray her trust again……..if he hasn’t already"
Exactly. She only knows about this time because it was ferreted out by someone else. She may never know about it next time, or any times before. Cheaters cheat — and, when one thinks so little of one’s spouse to cheat while he or she is dying of a terrible illness, well…that speaks for itself, really.
The "other woman" certainly isn’t blamless here. She put her selfish desires over the sanctity of a family and a marriage. Someone once said, "There is nothing that a woman treasures more than victory the over another woman."
So sad, so true.
My dahlings, I knew everythiing I needed to know about John Edwards by looking at his hair - which does looks like a televangelist’s. Why, come to think of it, he behaved quite like Jimmy Swaggart, didn’t he?
Pathetic girlfriend? No, my dears, pathetic man-boy.