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State Department, Same-Sex Partners Benefits | 05/26/2009 9:55 am

Hillary Clinton to Announce Spousal Benefits for Gay Diplomats

Draft memo being prepared for Clinton’s signature says benefits will help recruit the best diplomats U.S. has to offer
By The Staff at wowOwow.com
Secretary of State Hillary Clinton will soon announce that the partners of gay U.S. diplomats will receive some of the same benefits as their straight, married peers.

According to a draft memo being readied for Clinton’s signature and obtained by outlets like The Advocate and The Washington Post, same-sex partners of staffers could be eligible to receive paid travel to and from overseas posts, visas and diplomatic passports, shipments of household items to duty stations, emergency travel to visit sick or injured partners, use of medical facilities at posts overseas, and emergency evacuation if needed. Some heterosexual couples who aren’t married but are domestic partners will also be entitled to such benefits.

The draft memo states (via The Avocate):

Historically, domestic partners of Foreign Service members have not been provided the same training, benefits, allowances, and protections that other family members receive. These inequities are unfair and must end. Providing training, medical care, and other benefits to domestic partners promote the cohesiveness, safety, and effectiveness of our posts abroad. [Providing these benefits will help the department] attract and retain personnel in a competitive environment where domestic partner benefits and allowances are increasingly the norm for world-class employers. At bottom, the Department will provide these benefits for both opposite-sex and same-sex domestic partners because it is the right thing to do.”

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S G
Its the right thing to do.
By S G on 05/26/2009 10:13 am
Nancy Cleveland
Yes,. it’s the right thing to do but why, for the moment at least, for diplomats??  We don’t allow gay/lesbian in our military (forget the "don’t ask, don’t tell"…that’s a cop out) but diplomats will get dispensations?  I am totally in favour of such rights but NOT just for some specifically designated and especially not to the tax-payers cost.  As a lesbian with a partner…neither of whom have security of ‘legal rights’ yet who pay federal, state, property taxes and, thus, the expenses so named for diplomats, how about simply working to bring fruition to a civil union bill which affords all of us secure legal recourse in our daily lives?
By Nancy Cleveland on 05/26/2009 5:04 pm
Maggie W

…."because it is the right thing to do.” …

Enough said!

By Maggie W on 05/26/2009 10:37 am
Belinda Joy
I disagree 100% with this. I hope that this story is not true.
By Belinda Joy on 05/26/2009 10:44 am
Lily Rose

My friend Belinda, please tell us what it is that you disagree with, and why.

Namaste.

By Lily Rose on 05/26/2009 11:27 am
Belinda Joy

It depends on how the policy is written. The article makes reference to "some domestic partners" who are heterosexual as being eligible for benefits as well. There is no some in my view. If you are going to open the door to homosexual men and women and those that claim to be domestic partners, the same should apply for heterosexuals across the board.

The cynic in me immediately reading this thought of countless men and women bringing their (truly platonic) friends on free trips. Where in cases where they are claiming them to be a spouse, they would/should provide a marriage certificate. And there in lies the importance (in my opinion) of legalizing gay marriage. If we are going to allow special provisions for married couples do so, but this open ended"domestic partners" label is something I have a real problem with.

By Belinda Joy on 05/26/2009 11:52 am
Amanda C
And there in lies the importance (in my opinion) of legalizing gay marriage.

exactly belinda!

By Amanda C on 05/26/2009 12:21 pm
R.J.B. Reed

Yes, this is yet another example of why same sex marriage should be legalized across the board.  However, it is not fair to tell same sex couples that they simply have to wait the decade or so it will take for that to get sorted out once and for all.

In any case, I should think it would be easy to require some sort of documentation to prove that the domestic partner you’re bringing is not simply a friend.  Either way, I’d rather give some rights to people who lack them and end up sending a few people on free travel than the other way around.

By R.J.B. Reed on 05/26/2009 12:59 pm
aud b

I agree Joy.

there is room for fraud here.

By aud b on 05/30/2009 11:13 pm
Kelly In Texas

Believe it Belinda…Hilliary is starting her pandering in hopes of the 2012 election….

If gay couples want to be "married" then they  should move to the appropriated state and be "married". Only married couples are "married" couples….anyone else should be exempt.

How ridiculous to even begin to think of giving benefits to those that are not legal spouses…..

By Kelly In Texas on 05/26/2009 11:50 am
Amanda C

dear, even if they are married in a state, the federal government does not recognize the union and thus would not be eligible for federal marriage benefits, which is why they need this extra provision for gay couples.

educate yourself, you sound ignorant when you spout silly ideas that don’t matter.

By Amanda C on 05/26/2009 12:22 pm
R.J.B. Reed
Lemon is correct.  Thus far the federal government does not recognize same sex marriages so even couples married in MA (or the other progressive states) are not eligible for any of the 1,049 federal rights associated with marriage.  What they do gain are the rights that the states which recognize same sex marriage offer to their married couples.  A same-sex couple married in MA won’t have their marriage recognized in Texas, for instance, were they to choose to live (travel) there. 
By R.J.B. Reed on 05/26/2009 1:03 pm
L. P Sodano
It’s about it….it is the right thing to do.
By L. P Sodano on 05/26/2009 10:59 am
DeBúrca obj

"Some heterosexual couples who aren’t married but are domestic partners will also be entitled to such benefits."…. why?

I can understand giving benefits to unmarried gay couples because they are not given the same rights to GET married, but hetrosexual couples who are not married should not be getting benefits. 

By DeBúrca obj on 05/26/2009 11:03 am
C Hardy
Why is that?  Why is that hetrosexual couples who chose not to get married for whatever their reasons are, not entitled to those benefits?  I know plenty of people who aren’t married and just as happy and live as married for many, many, many years. 
By C Hardy on 05/26/2009 12:34 pm