Margo Howard | 07/01/2009 8:25 am
Whatever Happened to Discretion?
Editor’s Note: A longtime journalist, Margo Howard went into the family business (her mother was the fabled Ann Landers) in the 1990s as Dear Prudence. Her broad experience and understanding of human nature provide answers for the troubled — and entertainment for everyone else. Margo’s advice column, Dear Margo, appears twice a week — on Thursdays and Fridays — on wowOwow.com.
What’s up with Gov. Mark Sanford? I cannot remember another public confession so loaded with detail. It’s as though he were a "sinner" looking for forgiveness, and we are Oprah. Sanford is making John Edwards’s stonewalling look positively admirable. (You know … it was only one night and the baby isn’t his.)
I heard a reporter from South Carolina saying on NPR that the governor apparently “wanted to talk." I’ll say. We learned the Argentinean bombshell was his "soul mate," that he "had crossed the line before" — but "not the sex line" — on trips out of the country to unwind with the boys. He went public with this tidbit: "This was a whole lot more than a simple affair. This was a love story."
However … let’s hear it for the little woman. Three cheers for Jenny Sanford who threw him out. How refreshing to see a political wife act like a woman instead of some humiliated helpmate who is often trying to save a political career. No Silda or Hillary she, in effect saying to the public: "If I don’t care, why should you?"
I am trying really hard not to entertain feelings of schadenfreude about love-struck dude being yet another one in a long conga line of Republican moralists who are caught with, well, their pants down. I am frankly embarrassed for the guy. How much more dignified to have sought out a therapist if he had the need to spill? In one of his confessionals he said he had blown up his career, his marriage and the lives of his children. So: what next? Putting on my advice columnist hat I would recommend that he move to Argentina to be with Chapur and become a gaucho, or something. And also that he sit down and shut up.

























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MKP: Your right, Kennedy just killed his aid, then divorced his wife ( sorry , an annullment, so he could stay a good catholic) declaring his children to be bastards. And Clinton just swore, UNDER OATH , the he never had an affair with that woman (in the scummy blue dress)
Oh, were you talking about JFK? so sorry, yes he screwed anything in a bra, but never had to own up to that. Like father, like son, I guess!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Geez…….let’s go back 50 years and dig up some dirt — Irish Eyes. Want to talk about NIXON’s lies — that scandal rocked the whole country.
I feel badly for Republican candidates who feel they have to prostitute themselves to the right wing conservatives — Sanford is paying the price now.
mkp, yes we could talk about Nixon, I had no use for him as well.
Oh how wonderful, "you feel badly for Rep candidates………………."
Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze~!
Here’s what deber B actually posted:
"Jenny walks away with dignity. Hillary "stood by her man" because it was in her best interest politically." If that equates, in any way, to the bizarre post that "My daddy is bigger than your daddy" analogy, then I don’t see why. Jenny did one thing and Hillary did another. They both handled their situations in a way that was best for them. Period.
Deber, how did Margo advance that thought that you so adamantly cling to? It exists only in your own mind because you detest and and abhor the current administration so heartily.
Here are are Margo’s remarks…" I cannot remember another public confession so loaded with detail. It’s as though he were a "sinner" looking for forgiveness."
You immediately jumped in with such back pedaling to the Clinton era and bringing up every Democrat that has ever walked a morally corrupt path. You have been so out muscled here, but you still soldier on in the Republican name. You come up with every possible history to prove that you are right. And let’s face it, Deber, being right is what floats your boat. You post many multi paragraph " evidence " of Obama’s downfall of this country, ( day after day after day.. you are all over the map)) but hey… the guy who believes in clean air, affordable health care, and dialogue with other countries is still in good standing with the populace. That must pain you greatly. So sad, too bad.