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Stoning of Soroya M. | 06/24/2009 3:00 pm

'The Stoning of Soraya M.': A Heartbreaking Film Based on a True Story (Video)

As women speak out against the tyrannical government in Iran today, an upcoming drama about the stoning of a young woman speaks volumes about the fundamental injustices. The film debuts in theaters June 26.
By Randi Bernfeld
Soraya (Mozhan Marnò)

Images courtesy of MPower Pictures

As the video of Neda, the young Iranian woman fatally shot on a Tehran street during a peaceful protest, haunts the world’s consciousness, an upcoming film, "The Stoning of Soraya M.", about the tragic death of a young woman, is equally telling of the struggles of humanity in Iran.

After Soraya (Mozhan Marnò) refuses to divorce her husband, who has fallen in love with a 14-year-old girl, he conspires with the local mullah (a former criminal) to accuse Soraya of infidelity. Despite a lack of proof, Soraya is found guilty of cheating on her husband and sentenced to death by stoning. Her family, fellow villagers and former friends witness her horrid death.

Throughout the film, a naive Soraya acts very complacent with her life for the sake of her family, even though she endures verbal and physical abuse from her husband and from her own sons. When asked if she has any last words, she finally speaks out against the corruption, and asks her villagers one very relevant but simple question: "How can you do this to me?"

"It is God’s law," one person says, while the local mullah says, "With each stone you throw, your honor will return."

Soraya is buried up to her chest with her arms bound. Dozens of the villagers stand around her — some with heavy pellets in their hands. Her father throws the first rock, followed by her tyrant husband. Her own children witness their mother’s slow and painful death. 2009_0624_theStoningPhoto_1_0.jpg

The jarring film, directed by Cyrus Nowrasteh, is based on the international bestseller The Stoning of Soraya M.: A True Story, written by Freidoune Sahebjam. Similar to the book, the movie is told through the voice of Zahra, Soraya’s aunt. Zahra (Shohreh Aghdashloo) is the only person to fight for Soraya – and even offers to take Soraya’s place. When she spots a journalist whose car has broken down, she convinces him to listen and record her words as she tells of the events that occurred in her village. 

The drama is set in 1986, in a newly fundamentalist, post-revolutionary Iran, but Zahara is much like the women protesters in Iran today, who are refusing to remain silent about the unjustice unfolding. And without Zahra’s voice, "The Stoning of Soraya M." would have never existed. Only time will tell what will become of these new voices.

Real, powerful and haunting, "The Stoning of Soraya M." — though not easy to watch — is a significant film that forever resonates.

Watch a preview of the film below:

 

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Rachel F

" Despite a lack of proof, Soraya is found guilty of cheating on her husband and sentenced to death by stoning."

I understand that you’re attempting to highlight the illegitimacy of the trial…but, even if there was a plethora of real evidence, who cares?! The fact that a woman can be stoned to death for cheating on her husband — whether she did it or not — by those primitive, misogynist laws is the greater crime; not whether the trial was legit or not. Bad trials can happen anywhere because even the greatest laws in the world are only as good as the people who execute them (or don’t); absurd, disgusting "punishments" like that only happen in certain cultures and because of certain oppressive religious laws.

By Rachel F on 06/24/2009 3:59 pm
Maggie W
What people have done to one another, and especially women, in the name of religion is past horrific.  Not only this stoning, but the sexual mutilation,  acid in the face, the continual rape that is the norm in many countries, the sex trade that occurs with  girls as young as four, and the list goes on and on.   I cannot help but wonder what has hardened  people, as seen in this film,  to cheer at torture of a beautiful wife and mother.   What saddens  and appalls me is not only the atrocity, but that it has been done in God’s name, .. and we call Him by many names, according to culture.   When violence equates free entertainment is truly the marker for oppression and the total absence of sanity.  Surely, in that crowd of  " holy" men, there must have been one who refused to pick up a stone.  I really want to believe that.  
By Maggie W on 06/24/2009 4:18 pm
MK P
If anyone would have had the courage not to pick up a stone — you would think it would have been her own father.
By MK P on 06/24/2009 4:23 pm
Rachel F

They’re the worst ones, often enough. Honor killings (murders) are often perpetrated by the possessing male (forgive the word, but that’s what it is in those cultures — possession, pure and simple). Depending on her situation, it’s either the father, brothers or husband. It often doesn’t matter what she’s done, or if she’s even done anything at all; the mere suspicion that she’s smirched the possessing male’s honor is "crime" enough. Whether it be a 12 year old riding home on a bike with a boy, or a girl talking to a soldier, or the suspicion that a girl has lost her virginity, etc., etc. — it doesn’t matter. The male who "owns" her considers that the mere suspicion is an affront, and the only redemption is her (often horrifically brutal) death.

If possible, it becomes even more disgusting and unimaginable when the mothers support and even facilitate these barbarous crimes — and sometimes they do, too.

By Rachel F on 06/24/2009 4:48 pm
Maggie W

Exactly, MK P.  The "first stone" honor belonged to him.  As for the 14 year old girl who the husband took as his lover, we already know what fate lies before her as well. 

I think of my own precious ,deceased father, who would lie sleepless, worrying, fretting and walking the floor, until I called him, safe and sound,  after a 5 hour drive back to my dorm room after a home visit.

By Maggie W on 06/24/2009 5:10 pm
Belinda Joy

There are so many things about our culture and mindset that gives me pause. But whenever I hear of the treatment of women and children in the middle east….it breaks my heart.

The only thing that gives me hope for them is that they are now living through what we as a nation lived through in the 60’s. An era of real and tangible change, and those that are discriminated against are rising up and demanding to be treated as equals. Slowly but surely things will change in the middle east for women and one day how they are treated today, will be a faint but sad memory.

By Belinda Joy on 06/24/2009 4:56 pm
Andrea Brandon

Belinda Joy,

"….. they are now living through what we as a nation lived through in the 60’s."   Other than the horrible treatment slaves edured, our nation never went through what goes on in Iran.  But I get your point: it’s a revolution.

As the old people age out and the young idealistic Iranians become more potent, things will change.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/24/2009 6:19 pm
Belinda Joy

Our country changed dramatically in the 60’s. You may view slavery as the only pivotal and dark chapter of our country, but that pales in comparison to the pervasive discrimination and violence our country has seen and allowed to happened since those days. I need not reach back in my memory to slavery to substantiate my comments and opinions.

Well I guess you and I view our history quite differently.  Up until the 60’s women had a hard time being seen as equals and were routinely discriminated against. Women had few rights and for decades accepted their second class status. We were slapped on the butt by males in the work place, objectified and demeaned.

Minorities were not allowed to live, work, socialize, learn in the areas they wanted.  Blacks up to (and in some instances beyond) were lynched on a regular basis and murdered at a steady clip. Iran has its militias and we had the KKK terrorizing and bombing buildings throughout the U.S.  The 40’s were a time when Asians and Italians were placed in interment camps, and everyone was suspected of being a communists. So Andrea in my eyes we (Americans) lived through decades of horror, pain, death and destruction, until the time was just right for massive and sweeping change. And when it happened many people gave their lives for the changes we experienced, just as Iran is going through today.

By Belinda Joy on 06/24/2009 7:08 pm
Andrea Brandon

Hi, Belinda,

As someone who was in both high school and college in the 60’s and saw the changes in America, and having spent a fair amount of time in the Middle East, I find the degree of change decidedly different between US and Iran.

US:

          During the 60’s we could voice our opinions and have protests without the government having overwhelming control. I’m not saying that KKK bombings  or placement in interment camps wasn’t damned frightful, but the reality is that the whole US had a government that represented the people. American women in the 60’s were treated as second class citizens, but they were also key manipulators - they knew how to get what they wanted from their spouses or fathers. They could cut their hair and dress as they pleased.  Slap on the butt in the American workplace? No comparison to being stoned to death in Iran. Americans for the most part have never had to walk on eggshells; it’s a 24/7 occurrence in Iran.

Iran:

Women have not been able to radically reverse and fight back these strict laws because it can lead to serious reactions. And yet four decades earlier they had more rights. They have basically fallen from the near-top of the totem pole.

1925-1979 Pahlavi Dynasty 
  • No longer permitted men to have four permanent and as many temporary wives.
  • Custody of children was in the hands of the father and after his death, in the hands of the male relatives on the father’s side. So if the couple were divorced, even after the death of the father, the mother would never get custody.
  • The woman no longer had to have written permission from her husband to travel outside the country. 
  • 1936:  women’s shrouded dresses were gone and women wore colorful clothes that were more revealing
  • 1963: women could vote
  • Women became scientists, university officials, worked outside the home

1979 and > : the Khoumeni Years

 

Almost immediately upon assumption of power by Khomeini, women protested the policies of the Islamic government.

 
  • In courts a woman’s testimony is worth half of what a man’s is. This applies to many basic rights - just half of what he is entitled.
  • Women had to go back to wearing the hijab.
  • Separation of the genders in every venue was the rule once again.
  • Females who didn’t cover all parts of their body, except hands and face, were subject to punishment of up to seventy lashes or sixty days imprisonment.
  • Men could again abandon wives by simple declaration, while wives had no judicial recourse for divorce.
  • Children of divorce went to the father and widowed mothers could lose their children to the nearest male relative.
  • Many women rights activists who challenged the reversal of these laws were arrested, jailed or banned from working.
In summary women lost most of the rights they gained few decades earlier under Pahlavi dynasty. With the 2005 election of President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, women’s rights advocates have been beaten, jailed and persecuted.  While I’ve focused on women’s rights and restrictions in Iran, I think a comparison between those of American women in the 60’s compared to Iranian women today are a far cry from similar.  Imagine going backwards.  
By Andrea Brandon on 06/24/2009 8:55 pm
S G
Andrea maybe its not a large scale of death but 1 is too many. I want to remind you of a line from a song but a true one 4 dead in Ohio.It may be small but the government took pictures and wrote files on people in those years also. Our government at that time wasn’t for us.
By S G on 06/25/2009 7:10 am
Andrea Brandon

SG,

I agree that one death is one too many. But the issue at hand was comparing change in the US in the 60’s versus what’s happening in Iran today.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/25/2009 2:42 pm
KatyDid Wells
You make good points, Andrea.  All I can add is if I had to choose between being a woman in the Middle East or going back to live in 1960’s USA, the 60’s would win hands down - in fact, it wouldn’t even be close. 
By KatyDid Wells on 06/27/2009 8:41 pm
Andrea Brandon

Yes, Katydid, I agree. I remember being out of college and working for a few years when FINALLY the mega-corp I worked for allowed women to wear nicely tailored pant-suits. Until then it was no pants of any kind. Kind of makes me angry know that women didn’t have the wherewithal to just do it.  What’s that old saying?

Better to ask forgiveness than to ask permission.

They’re still protesting in Iran. Of course you wouldn’t know it with Michael Jackson being in the headlines all this time. I think some people in broadcasting and other websites  have a screwed  up sense of priorities.

By Andrea Brandon on 06/27/2009 10:20 pm
KatyDid Wells

Oh Andrea, you don’t want to get me started on that topic… Iran, N. Korea, Iraq, Afghanistan all have hot button situations going on currently and yet Michael Jackson is all you see or hear.  Ok, he died and it’s a sad thing, but the rest of the world doesn’t stop while we wring our hands and review every thing the man ever did or said (and what his family says, what his doctor says, what his past friends say, what his fans say, what everyone who ever worked with him says, what his neighbor from 20 years ago says…) 

I agree with you 100%, but in my opinion, the priorities in broadcasting have been screwed up for some time now - this is just the latest manifestation and a prime example of why I gave up watching TV - my priorities differ greatly from the powers that be.

By KatyDid Wells on 06/28/2009 2:30 am
Barbara B
Their way of thinking goes against normal instinct.  I have seen on vacation in 100 degree weather where the man has a modern day bathing suit on along with his sons.  They are having a great old time and the woman sit in beach chairs with their bodies wrapped.  As Whoopi would say "What the Hell"
By Barbara B on 06/24/2009 4:59 pm