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A Friend Stopped By | 07/05/2009 11:00 pm

Who Is (Not) Passing the Buck on Gay Rights? by Brenda Feigen

From Prop 8 to DOMA and Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, Brenda Feigen makes sense of the latest in the ever-changing legalities of the gay/lesbian world.
By Brenda Feigen

Editor’s Note: Brenda Feigen is counsel to Kenoff & Machtinger, LLP, where she practices anti-discrimination and entertainment law. A graduate of Harvard Law School, she co-founded Ms. Magazine with Gloria Steinem and directed with (now Justice) Ruth Bader Ginsburg the Women’s Rights Project of the ACLU. Her memoir, Not One of the Boys: Living Life as a Feminist, was published by Alfred A. Knopf in 2000. She moved from Manhattan to Los Angeles to produce her first feature film and currently lives there with Joanne Parrent, her longtime partner and spouse. 

Things have been happening so fast in the gay/lesbian legal world that I am dividing this into three sections. The first is, once again, about Prop 8 in California; the second addresses the federal Defense of Marriage Law (DOMA) that is being challenged in federal courts in California and Massachusetts; the third is about the horrible Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell federal law that infringes on the constitutional rights of gays and lesbians in the military and is finally being attacked. My thesis is that these sorts of constitutional issues are not appropriately decided by voters, as Prop 8 was. It provides the perfect example of the tyranny by the majority of a minority group. There is certainly a role for state legislatures and Congress to legislate the wrongs away, but there is also plenty of room for the courts to decide what does or does not offend the 14th amendment of the U.S. Constitution.

I. Prop 8

When I last wrote about the Prop 8 mess in California, I expressed my delight that two big-deal litigators, Ted Olson and David Boies, have started a lawsuit (Perry v. Schwarzenegger) in the U.S. District Court in San Francisco challenging Prop 8 as being unconstitutional. The argument being that it denies gays and lesbians both equal protection and due process rights. The big surprises came first when CA Attorney General Jerry Brown wrote a brief agreeing with the unmarried gay plaintiffs that Prop 8 unfairly deprived them of equal rights. And then even Republican Gov. Arnold chimed in that the matter is for the courts to decide. It is rare, to say the least, to have the highest ranking state officials disapprove of their own state constitution. That said, Obama’s Justice Department will undoubtedly be all alone in its defense of California’s newly, badly amended constitution.

It’s really too bad that most of the groups lobbied hard to defeat Prop 8 are deploring this lawsuit. I, on the other hand, can’t imagine anything worse than having this fight repeat itself at the polls every two years. The Supreme Court isn’t going to get any more liberal. The older members are all Democratic appointments. They, including outgoing Justice David Souter, are the most likely to leave sooner rather than later. Obama will appoint liberals to replace them, but the balance in the Court is unlikely to change for a very long time, given the relative youthfulness of the Republican appointees. What are the detractors really waiting for? Another chance to spend millions of dollars going back and forth on Prop 8, its repeal, its return and so on, like a ping-pong ball. Finally, Hollywood has awakened to the issue and to how bad it is, so we’ll get the support of a gaggle of movie stars, but that still feels like taking or asking for a handout. As I’ve said before, I do NOT want my rights determined by voters, even a majority of voters. I belong to a minority group (gays and lesbians) who do not deserve to be tyrannized by the majority in any way whatsoever.

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S G
This in my opinion is discrimination on the largest scale. The people opposing others rights would be the first to cry foul if you stopped them from something. This is the 21st century. By this time I had hoped people could see other people for who they are. It saddens me that some would stop another from sitting by the bedside of the one they love to hold their hand or try to keep them from getting the same benefits due a straight couple. Indoctrination is quite sad and that is our problem as a country. Believe what you will, but afford others the courtesy of the same.To live their life in the pursuit of happiness.
By S G on 07/06/2009 7:44 am
Brenda Feigen
You are very kind. I, for better or worse, just get mad at the inequities we continue to suffer.
By Brenda Feigen on 07/09/2009 10:11 pm
Chrome Toe

Brenda,

I just got done reading the posts on this thread this morning. I am no longer naive as to how it is that people allow Gay and Lesbian folks to be discriminated against. Not after reading the thoughts of some of the women on this thread. I just want to say… I am so sorry. And now I’m angry as well. It’s in incredible. So fight the fight lady. If given the opportunity at some point I will fight the fight as well. It’s a battle for tolerance and love and equality for peoples daughters, sons, mothers, friends, aunts, uncles, sisters, brothers…. One I would gladly stand up for.

By Chrome Toe on 07/10/2009 8:47 am
Brenda Feigen
I’m delighted you’ll join our fight.  We need you!"’
By Brenda Feigen on 07/14/2009 2:55 pm
caj p
I believe this ban should be lifted as regards the "don’t ask don’t tell" policy in the military but I think for right now Prez Obama has more pressing things to take care of.  I do believe he will lift that but I feel things are going on behind the scenes right now that will take time to sort out.  I personally don’t believe in gay marriage that to me is strictly between a man and a woman but I do believe in civil unions that give them the same rights as married couples.  Everyone is entitled to be happy in the life they choose and if they find that happiness with someone of the same sex then so be it. 
By caj p on 07/06/2009 8:24 am
Kelly In Texas

I tend to agree with your post caj p.

By Kelly In Texas on 07/07/2009 11:20 pm
Brenda Feigen
IF you follks really believed in equality for all you wouldn’t want to relegate Joanne and me and thousands like us to 2nd class status, e.g. “Civil Unions”!!!!
By Brenda Feigen on 07/09/2009 10:16 pm
Kelly In Texas

Brenda…work it out, many support civil unions…but marriage is between a male and a female. I will not insist that my mate and I must be included in your partnership unions….call it what you would like to, designate it for homosexuals only. Fine with me.

Marriage is between a male and a female, so leave traditional marriage as it is…for us.

By Kelly In Texas on 07/09/2009 10:43 pm
Chrome Toe

You know…. I’ve  known that gay and lesbian people/couples were discriminated against. But I had no idea as to the utter scope of it in terms of the courts and the government until reading this piece. I feel really… naive. I guess I’ve just always assumed that because NOT discriminating is the right thing to do that the battle to not be discriminated against was being won by the gay and lesbian community. Even though I knew prop 8 had failed I just sort of thought of this as a slight bump in the road on the way to full access to everything married heterosexuals have access to.

How IS it that fighting gay and lesbian rights is anything anyone would put time and energy into? i don’t understand. seriously. with all the pain and suffering in the world. In our country. with everything that we could be doing that’s positive for people… we’re battling the right for gay and lesbians to get married? what the hell? what is WRONG with us?

By Chrome Toe on 07/06/2009 8:57 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe

What a good question, Chrome—what indeed is wrong with us! Even in the liberated 1960’s, mainstream attitudes toward homosexuality were benighted to a degree that is difficult to exaggerate. "Sodomy" between consenting adults was against the law almost everywhere. "Perversion" was a firing offense throughout the federal government, not just in the military. The American Psychiatric Assoc. classified homosexuality as a "sociopathic" mental disorder.And then of course, religion, which is at the core of all this, rears its biblical head and declares it evil, a sin, unnatural, unclean, and so forth. In 1966. three years before Stonewall, Time magazine published a long essay on "The Homosexual in America" and concluded that homosexuality

"is a pathetic little second rate substitute for reality, a pitiable flight from life. As such it deserves fairness, compassion, understanding and ,when possible, treatment. But it deserves no encouragement, no glamorization, no rationalization, no fake status as minority martyrdom, no sophistry about simple differences in taste–––and, above all, no pretense that it is anything but a pernicious sickness."

So–––given all that, we could say we have made some progress, but oh, how long is it going to take before we become more full human beings? 

By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 07/06/2009 9:37 am
Andrea Brandon

Phyllis,

Even the APA realized the error of its ways and removed homosexuality as a disorder from the DSM  in 1973. They continue to research homophobia though. [That says a lot.]

By Andrea Brandon on 07/07/2009 10:57 pm
Kelly In Texas
Wow phyllis…that was kinda harsh…"pernicious sickness". Sexual identity problem maybe…but really no one elses business. It is no one elses business what goes on behind closed doors.
By Kelly In Texas on 07/07/2009 11:27 pm
Andrea Brandon

Kelly,

Re "pernicious sickness":  Phyllis is quoting someone.

By Andrea Brandon on 07/08/2009 1:38 am
Kelly In Texas
Sorry that I was not clear…I was agreeing with her.
By Kelly In Texas on 07/08/2009 7:25 am
Brenda Feigen
Very supportive. Thank you!
By Brenda Feigen on 07/09/2009 10:20 pm