There is a long list including all of the above. From my upbringing, aesthetic nature, and design school I love beauty, order, peace, immaculate, well styled, healthy, and minimalist everything. I’d never have a mate who wasn’t refined, we’d drive each other crazy. The absolute most revolting thing I’ve seen is when men runners/bike riders hold one nostril and then the other and blow their nose into the air. I used to jog every night from 10-11PM around the long rectangle block of Huntington Park/Pacific Union Club on top of Nob Hill across from the Fairmount, Mark Hopkins, Huntington Hotels where I lived. At night it is beautifully lit and all you hear are doorman whistles and the Cable Car bells. I loved it, did it for years, and was friendly with all the doormen who watched for my safety, especially the ones at the Huntington Hotel because I had dinner there often with friends at the Big Four. A man started jogging nightly at the same time. He’d repeatedly do that horrid blow-nose-in-the-air thing. I did a slow burn for two nights, on the third night I waited until we were both across from the Huntington Hotel. I stopped in front of the man, glanced at the doorman DW and back at him so he got the message. Then stated in a tone that made it clear it wasn’t a request or a conversation. “You get a Kleenex, or stop doing that, or go elsewhere, or I will call the police.” He stopped. If an attractive blond yuppie calls the SFPD whatever unsavory man opposes her is toast. I knew he knew that much.

How is this even a questions? Smoking, i.e. infringing on someone else’s right to breathe fresh air, oxygen, etc. Because it’s harmful to OTHERS, moreso than the actual smoker. Especially people like me who have chronic lung diseases such as ASTHMA (acquired at a disturbingly young age BECAUSE OF second-hand smoke, thankyouVERYmuch) who still deserve to be able to have as much fun as anyone else!!!!!!!!!