My best friend is not human. It is my little dog, she listens and then I get hugs and kisses. She never gives her opinion, just her ears and her unconditional love.
On most days, I would rather be with my boxer, Zena, than most people. She always makes me smile, gets me out of the house into the fresh air, and is completely dependent upon me. I was never a dog-lover but I am a true convert! She brings so much joy to my life!
I never had the chance to have children so this is the next-best thing.
Exercise! Without a doubt. I am highly stressed right now because my exercise capacity is extremely restricted while I recover from surgery. I know I only get one chance to heal correctly and I am following all the doctor’s orders but at the same time, I am not sleeping well and feel constant stress and tension in my back and neck and shoulders… my whole body! I can hear that aerobic class going on without me! The spring wildflowers are blooming beside the hiking trails and I am missing it! Perhaps I should try one of the other stress relievers on the list.
Reading is my all time stress reliever. I can crawl inside classic literature, such as Edith Wharton, Bronte,or Jane Austin and forget my woes for a while. My favorite is “House of Mirth” because Lily Bart is a complex contradictory character. We have 3 Abys that are fun to watch and always provide a laugh…My favorite snuggle love purr face is Snazzy Mae.
Well since shopping is not on the list I picked being alone. Even being alone I am not alone because the cat will scratch on the door wanting to come in. Yesterday I found myself standing in a closet for a few minutes of peace and tranquility. Meditating, praying for all those people worse off than me.
My cat, reading for hours, writing articles, walking miles with my mp3, taking a long bath, reading some more, going to a book store to read even more.
Depends on what causes the stress. Work, family (I am raising a child with bipolar disorder, and have 3 teens at home). The best escape is Saturday night poker and vodka tonics with my girlfriends.
May I suggest for future polls an option: None of these, let me explain in my post.
That would have been my selection this time. Like Carol Wilson *waves* reading, most especially something truly engaging and positive. Talking with friends always helps as well, but sometimes that can be troublesome. Bless our hearts, women sometimes talk ourselves into worse states of strain. I know exercise helps as well, but *hangs head* I rarely turn to that de-stressor.
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