I am tall, almost 6’, and have big feet, so sexy shoes are IT for me. I suppose it is because I could never find any in my size for so many years. Ah, the elusive Big Sexy Shoe. Kinda sounds live Shel Silverstein’s “Big Scary Tree” :-)

I think confidence is sexy. And intelligence, and humor. What I wear to feel that … Lipstick, the right shade. Very empowering. A dab or two of the right fragrance. Most of the time I prefer my own. A touch of black lace. A dark-wash, boot-cut jean with a bit of lycra. A T and a fedora. A low-cut, peep-toe shoe with a two inch stack heel. A black high-waisted pencil skirt, just below the knee, worn with either a deep plum very drapy blouse, opened just enough, not too. Or worn with a man’s white oxford shirt, light starch.

None of the above!

Black Stockings.

I feel sexy in a well-cut pair of jeans, because, for me, comfort is a huge part of feeling sexy. I also love wearing my man’s white dress shirt when he casts it off for being old and frayed. That is when it is really soft from wear and I can roll up the sleeves and wear it tucked into a skirt, over a tank top. I used to wear heels, can’t do that anymore.

I don’t wear underwear, so cool and breezy I stay, and the knowing that at the faint possibility I could have a encounter any where at any time keeps my imagination in tuned for a little duet spontaneous exercise. So sexy is what you put on, or what you leave behind..