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A Friend Stopped By | 02/13/2009 11:45 am

Alexandra Pelosi: Don't Judge All Republicans (Video)

By Alexandra Pelosi
Photo courtesy of Michiel Vos/HBO

This President’s Day — yes, patriots, that’s this coming Monday — HBO is airing my new film, "Right America Feeling Wronged: Some Voices from the Campaign Trail." (See below for clips from the film.) Filmed last year, the film offers some McCain supporters a space to tell the rest of America how they feel about the new president, Barack Obama.

While a majority of Americans may still be on their Obama honeymoon, they must remember that 58,343,671 of their fellow citizens did not want Barack to be their president. The question now is: How many of them will put "Nobama" bumper stickers on their cars, the way liberals put "Not My President" bumper stickers on their Priuses during the Bush years?

In the months leading up to the 2008 election, I traveled to 28 states and stood in line with the masses of die-hard conservatives who waited for hours (sometimes in below-freezing temperatures) to support the GOP ticket. In talking with some of the party faithful about the fight for the soul of America, I found a country at war with itself over the religious identity and what some perceive as a national decline in moral values. A large number of conservative Republicans are so bitterly divided along cultural and political lines, that they will never trust this president, Congress or the media. This documentary captures their point of view.

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After every election, the losing half of the nation inevitably struggles to make peace with the fact that they feel like strangers in their own country. But this election was particularly frustrating for conservatives, because they felt that the mainstream media was biased against them and their candidate. They accuse the media of being liberal, yes, but definitely not open minded. That would require airing both sides of the debate, which conservatives insist didn’t happen

After 15 years as a journalist, and my now-famous friendship with George W. Bush, I was able to make friends at McCain events. In fact, many even invited me over for dinner to continue our conversations! Obviously I did not talk to every Republican – but I did talk to hundreds of them, which is more than most did in this election. (The campaign press corps usually parachute in and out of town so quickly that they never get a feel for the residents.)

Of course, my film couldn’t represent the views of every Republican — and certainly there will be some GOP members who will be embarrassed by their party peers. Surely only a small minority of people who voted for McCain actually believe that “Obama is a terrorist” – but you cannot dismiss these views, because if you hung around campaign rallies, you’d realize views are much more common than you would think. This election may have brought out the best in America, but it also brought out the worst in us.

My Republican brother-in-law would never use the N word like the old guys in the Mississippi; and my next-door neighbor would never say "Obama is a Muslim like Osama," like so many people did at the rallies last fall. And if you fixate on the one guy who says that “Obama is the Antichrist” you will be making the same mistake that many of the cable news shows do simply for a sensational story. Please do not dismiss all the kind, decent Republicans who appear in my film!

Since there are only two political parties in this country, each party’s a big tent. Not all Republicans want to associate themselves with everyone in their party, just like Blue Dog Democrats don’t want to be associated with Moveon.org. Both parties have racists, extremists and lots of normal people, too!

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Susan B
I will be watching this.
By Susan B on 02/13/2009 12:00 pm
Sherrie Crews
I won’t Susan. Even if I had HBO I wouldn’t. At my age I don’t need to give my blood pressure an excuse to start getting out of control.
By Sherrie Crews on 02/13/2009 12:01 pm
Lily Rose
My friend Sherrie, why would listening to fellow Americans with differing points of view raise your blood pressure? How do you expect the US to help facilitate peace in the Middle East (and in other parts of the world with warring factions where we have diplomatic ties) when we cannot even listen to each other’s differing opinions at home? What would you do with those who love their country and disagree with you?
By Lily Rose on 02/13/2009 12:19 pm
Green Tears
Nice, Lily Rose, very nice.
By Green Tears on 02/13/2009 12:37 pm
sibelle daubigne
Lily, you are always blooming Dear!
By sibelle daubigne on 02/14/2009 12:44 am
nanchan u
Lily, very well put. Until both sides learn to listen to each other and to encourage meaningful debate, we can hardly expect to succeed internationally (and I would add to your comment above that our internal strife and inability to have a united front also affects us in international business: think Microsoft’s anti-trust case in the EU). It’s our constitutional right to be able to disagree with each other, and is a fundemental upon which our country was founded. Either side that is intolerant of the other’s opinions is as bad as they say the other side is. Thank you, Lily.
By nanchan u on 02/14/2009 3:42 am
phyllis Doyle Pepe
Differing opinions? From what I saw on this video, except perhaps for the first crying young woman, one would not be able to have a civil discourse with people who say that guns, and freedom of religion are things that Obama is against coupled with a sly reference that someone who goes to Harvard Law is out to lunch––doesn’t understand “us REAL people,” that say Obama never lived in REAL America, is a con man, that this is God’s Country and “he’s[Obama] never seen it”, but “we are the backbone of this country. What all this smacks of is ignorance, possibly racism, and a hard core belief in rhetoric that is deep seated and generational. Your reference to to Middle East diplomacy is not relevant here––two different factors entirely.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 02/14/2009 2:10 pm
f p
This is the old BS: my country right or wrong.
By f p on 02/13/2009 12:25 pm
Sherrie Crews
What would you do with those who love their country and disagree with you?” By Lily Rose on 02/13/2009 1:19 pm Avoid them if I can’t respond to them and I don’t think this is interactive TV. What little TV I watch is either for entertainment of information and I consider this neither. I saw and heard enough of the racist redneck rabble reactionaries during the campaign.
By Sherrie Crews on 02/13/2009 12:57 pm
Lee Harrison
Sherrie, “I saw and heard enough of the racist redneck rabble reactionaries during the campaign.” Ya know, I think this is exactly the attitude the author is trying to address. As a moderate Republican, I can tell you it’s exhausting and frustrating…and insulting, to be lumped into the category you so colorfully describe.
By Lee Harrison on 02/13/2009 1:19 pm
Lady Gator
Lee - As a Conservative Independent, I so agree with you. It is indeed exhausting and frustrating…and insulting, to be lumped into the category she so colorfully described. I saw Ms. Pelosi on Sean Hannity’s program last evening. I was very impressed with her. I look forward to seeing her show on HBO. Perhaps there are a few women on this site who might want to watch so they can understand how we feel.
By Lady Gator on 02/13/2009 2:04 pm
Lee Harrison
Actually Merrell, I do post quite a bit. If you click on my avatar, you can see how verbose I am;-) But I’m pretty low key…don’t try to pick fights. And I don’t think I can accomplish anything jumping into the fray when the extremes are ranting about the sins of the other side…so I lurk. But thank you for the encouragement.
By Lee Harrison on 02/13/2009 8:14 pm
Lucinda Herbert
Lee I agree with you — I’ve found it to be pointless to participate when the extremes from both sides of the aisle go on and on and on. Like you, I feel as if I do a whole lot more lurking these days. I still find it all interesting — the different points of view — but feel no need to fan the flames. I’m not sure what I consider myself to be these days because neither party speaks for me entirely — I am a pro-business, fiscal conservative, yet socially liberal. I am very disapointed by the stimulus package and the complete lack of details — it’s no surprise the stock market crashed the other day. While on the one hand, I hope it will do something to stimulate the economy, I fear that all it will do is increase the national debt.
By Lucinda Herbert on 02/13/2009 8:45 pm
Marina B.
Lee, I think that maybe what Merrell was saying is that, if you, as a Republican, stand quietly by while a fellow Republican says something completely off the rails, others cannot be faulted for thinking that you approve, or at least condone, what was said. I know that I get considerably more irritated when a fellow liberal (as contrasted to a conservative) says something completely whacked, because I feel it reflects poorly on me. When I see something like that, I try to set the record straight.
By Marina B. on 02/15/2009 11:28 pm
Steve Douglass
Wow. So if we don’t agree with you, we’re racist rednecks. Yes, the Liberals are truly compassionate, as long as you follow their mantra. We conservatives were subjected to the trash of Al Gore (Inconvenient Truth) and Michael Moore (Farenheit 911). I guess it is now time for the Libs to hear what’s coming from those that are not ‘the establishment’. Because, like it or not Sherrie, Nobama and his ilk are the ‘establishment’ now.
By Steve Douglass on 02/13/2009 1:55 pm