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A Friend Stopped By | 12/02/2008 8:00 am

Barack Obama: A Surprise Reaction From Women Abroad, by Vishakha Desai

By Vishakha N. Desai
Courtesy of Vishakha N. Desai

Editor’s Note: Vishakha N. Desai is President and CEO of Asia Society, a global educational organization.

I read in the American press about Europeans’ preference for President-elect Barack Obama, but I was not prepared for the deep affection, bordering on almost a crush, that I found all over Barcelona on my recent trip there.

In several small women-run shops that I went into, I was greeted with a warm embrace once the shopkeepers discovered that I was a resident of the United States. These warm greetings were followed by exclamations about Obama’s election and many a discussion about how they had stayed up all night to watch the results and had cried upon hearing the results.

Later that same evening I had dinner with three professional colleagues, all female, but from different generations. The conversation immediately turned to President-elect Obama. The youngest of the three, Anna, who had spent years in Beijing and had just returned to Barcelona six months ago, confessed that she cried at the election results because every time Obama talked about “change” she felt that he was talking about change globally. She felt deeply connected to him as a 21st-century global leader who understands what it means to go beyond specific national, cultural or political borders.

Eva, in her 40s, and the more analytical and cerebral of the three, talked about finally seeing the cosmopolitan, intellectually sophisticated side of America that was largely absent in years past. She also pointed out that Sarah Palin and Barack Obama symbolize two distinct sides of America – cosmopolitan and provincial, the intellectually oriented and the anti-intellectual.

The third woman, Maria, in her early 50s, said she was finally relieved that she no longer had to dislike the United States. During the Bush era, she attested she carried the weight of negative emotions because she could no longer respect the country that had forsaken its decency toward people and behaved as the bully of the world. She pointed out, and the others agreed, that the nimbleness of America, its almost youthful capacity to change was back and they were surprised by it.

All three of them previously believed that the U.S. had begun its inevitable decline and it was unlikely that the country could reverse that process. Amazingly, even the current wave of global financial crisis had not dampened their enthusiasm for Obama and, by extension, the U.S. Eva pointed out that the fact that the United States could and did elect Barack Obama — something that no other country could possibly achieve, given the long-standing prejudices of class, race and social hierarchy — was reason enough to rejoice in America coming back as a strong, powerful nation.

Each of these women, in different ways, proved Obama’s point, made early on to his wife and his advisers, that by the very fact of being elected president of the United States, he would change history.

It was striking that each of the women saw different things in Obama and related them to the U.S. in a different way. Anna was less concerned about the U.S.– a powerful nation – and was able to feel the leadership of Barack Obama as transcending national boundaries. Eva was able to see a better aspect of America and appreciate its potential. Maria, meanwhile, was willing to lift her veil of negativity and give America another chance to be an admirable country again. Together they proved that dislike for America is not as deep as many may have feared and the U.S. still matters a great deal around the world. Even the current financial crisis and its implications of American greed have not dimmed the bright halo that the world has bestowed on Barack Obama, and by extension, the United States.

10 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Chrome Toe
the fact that the United States could and did elect Barack Obama — something that no other country could possibly achieve, given the long-standing prejudices of class, race and social hierarchy — was reason enough to rejoice in America ” wow… that’s such a beautiful statement. I hadn’t ever thought about how this may not happen in other countries. So cool. Interesting piece.
By Chrome Toe on 12/02/2008 8:39 am
Belinda Joy
This article is a wonderful way to start my day. Thank you wOw. There are so many posters on this site that slam PE Obama and the admiration he has established throughout the world. Attempting to diminish and belittle the importance of his election and what it will mean to our country’s perception through eyes of people from different countries, and that is sad on some level. But articles like this remind me, and reinforce in me that the majority in America got it right…think the right way. Believe in ways that the small and narrow minded of which there are some on this site and of course in our nation, will never get. They will be left behind and perceived as relics of the past, as the rest of us grow, change and evolve into a new kind of country. One that they fear and don’t understand. I pity them. They’re invited to the party, but they’ll always choose to stand outside the house while the rest of us celebrate.
By Belinda Joy on 12/02/2008 9:04 am
Lena B
Great article. It’s good to know that open hearts prevail throughout the world for President-Elect Obama.
By Lena B on 12/02/2008 9:19 am
Marva Marva
What a powerful article. Thank you. Confirmation, again, that we are “On the right road now” ; which is the title of an old hymn the older women of my church used to sing. Reading this article, brought that song back to my memory for some reason.
By Marva Marva on 12/02/2008 11:18 am
rocky rocky
Ms. Desai, thank you for this article. We in the U.S. have been fooled so much by our so-called leaders that I’m finding it difficult to rid myself of a deeply engrained cynicism. But the very thought of the United States regaining (never having lost?) “its almost youthful capacity to change” encourages me to wholeheartedly hope again for our future. As my family ended our thanks for all our blessings this past holiday, someone added: May the good lord bless our newly elected president and watch over him to keep him safe and guide him …
By rocky rocky on 12/02/2008 12:15 pm
Ms. Dee
Oh, this is beautiful All these people who thought the world would be connected with financial incentives and global economics must be so hornswoggled to see what’s happening. Democracy, equality, these are not economic constructs, even though they may have certain economic aspects, but it’s this concern for the least among us. This is what has brought us together since the dawn of the Enlightenment. A leader who is responsible for the strength and well-being of all his citizens is truly a great leader. Barack Obama promises to be such a god-send, not only with his words, but with his actions. Let’s hope it continues to be so.
By Ms. Dee on 12/02/2008 12:48 pm
DeBúrca obj
I can identify with the women Ms. Desai was speaking with. I too have felt the US had become a bully, was on a downward spiral and was burdened by these negative feelings. Before the election it felt as though this country was at the threshold of making a pivotal decision about which direction it would go in and not only the election of Obama and the direction he wants to take this country in, but the very DECISIVE margin in the election, brought back my pride and confidence in this country and its people. As Eva in the article states, “… Sarah Palin and Barack Obama symbolize two distinct sides of America – cosmopolitan and provincial, the intellectually oriented and the anti-intellectual.” I am so relieved that “intellectual” triumphed.
By DeBúrca obj on 12/02/2008 3:49 pm
Bonnie Oliver
News story today is that the Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi who met with the auto leaders this afternoon will be asserting herself as a powerful Speaker, a la Tip O’Neil to Jimmy Carter. The Carter Presidency failed partially due to the inability of the Democratic held Congress to persuade the incoming President that even though he might not agree with an “imperial Presidency” neither did they and then showed him what they meant. Let us hope that the President-Elect will not follow down that path and that he will be able to rein in the power grabs being tendered now by members of his own party in the Congress. My oh my.
By Bonnie Oliver on 12/02/2008 4:18 pm
Susan B
He certainly has his hands full, doesn’t he?
By Susan B on 12/03/2008 1:22 pm