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A Friend Stopped By | 12/04/2008 8:45 am

Barack Obama Turns Children Into Believers, by Vishakha N. Desai

By Vishakha N. Desai
Courtesy of Vishakha N. Desai

Editor’s Note: Vishakha N. Desai is president and CEO of Asia Society, a global educational organization. 

On the Sunday before Election Day, I talked to my brother, an Indian American physician living in Cincinnati, on the phone. He was in a hurry, he said, because the entire family – his wife, their daughter (a freshman at Barnard) and their 15-year-old twin boys – was headed to a Barack Obama rally. They wanted to be there early so that they would have a good shot at seeing the candidate. Living in Hamilton County in the suburbs of Cincinnati, they were deeply aware of the importance of Ohio for the Democratic candidate. A staunch Democrat, my brother was, for once, seeing that the tide was on the right side.

I asked him how his twin boys were feeling about Obama now. He had previously mentioned that both of them, while excited about Obama’s candidacy, were convinced that America would never elect a black candidate. I found this surprising. Born and brought up in an affluent suburb of Cincinnati, these Indian American kids always struck me as privileged suburban kids, not particularly aware of — or at least vocal about — matters of race. On the other hand, in casual conversations, you would hear some sentiments about being a minority in a predominantly white culture at school. Their comment on the perceived un-electability of Obama made clear that they had unconsciously accepted the reality of racial differences and the inevitability of the majority culture holding the power in the public arena. 

I was also surprised when I heard a very similar story from another Indian friend, married to a European American wife. He mentioned that in the early days of the primaries, he and his wife were discussing the candidacies of Hillary Clinton (his wife’s initial choice) and Barack Obama at their dinner table. Their high-school-age son, after feigning no interest in the conversation, looked up from his plate and said, “Why are you arguing over something that will never happen? There’s no way that America is ready for a black president!” Amazingly, neither my nephews, nor the young son of my friend remembers these conversations now. They were so excited about Obama’s win that all of them – in Cincinnati and in New York – stayed up late watching debates, canvassing for voters and waiting for results.

In a span of less than one year, Obama made believers out of them. Believers in the possibility that a person embodying cultural diversity can indeed become president of the United States. Believers in the American dream — that indeed it was possible to be part of this great nation even if you didn’t look like your other classmates.

In this sense, Barack Obama’s victory is not historic simply because he’s the first African American to become our president. It is historic because he has now given hope to every child of color and mixed race that she is not simply a minority in a majority culture, but one that is included in the grander project that is the USA.

I have to admit, I too was choked up on Election night and the next day. As I said to my husband, a 6’4” WASP, I was proud to be an American – to be able to witness the occasion when America finally acknowledged that it was time to celebrate our greatest strength: our diversity. It was time to celebrate the election of a truly global individual, one who could connect Americans with the rest of the world, not just as a “superior power,” but also with a sense of responsibility and partnership.

7 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Brooklyn Gal
I think those of us who lived during the Civil Rights movement were chocked up. As a former school teacher, I can only hope Obama becomes the new hero rather than some sports figure or singer for all of America’s children.
By Brooklyn Gal on 12/04/2008 10:01 am
Belinda Joy
You’re right Brooklyn Gal, his win was more profound for Americans that remember all the trials and tribulations of the Civil Rights movement. Young people today don’t see race as we do (and did). The historic moment that took place on November 4th will forever be burned in our minds now. Everything about his win, the number of electorates, the diversity of those who voted for him, the issues he will have to tackle on January 20th, everything is so historic. I said to everyone I know during the election process that even the most racist, narrow minded among us would step in the voting booth and vote for Barack. They won’t tell their family and friends, but come November 5th it would be evident this had indeed happened. And my prediction was true. So too I think is the case with Obama’s monumental win. Even the most racist among us I am sure felt shocked, surprised and yes….proud of our nation because he was elected. They’ll never admit it, but in their hearts they know it is true. Not all Brooklyn, you and I know there will always be those narrow minded among us. But I feel strongly there are many that share in our emotion of being choked up by his win.
By Belinda Joy on 12/04/2008 12:38 pm
Ms. Dee
Oh, Ms. Desai. I just love it when you drop by! I believe and celebrate what you say in this article. The American dream has never been so much about material things as it is about the liberty to pursue whatever goals matter to each and every citizen. We’ve never really fired up the engine of diversity in our nation. But, like you, I believe it will prove to be a powerful locomotive force as we travel into a new century in a more perfect union.
By Ms. Dee on 12/04/2008 10:30 am
rocky rocky
Yes, Ms. Desai. That is so much like what happened in my family. The children thought I was a bit addled to think that Obama could possibly win. Being the “white” ma/grandma to children and grandchildren of color, they were even surprised that I championed him at all: “But you’re creamy colored, Grandma,” as if color were the basis on which people should choose their candidates. My daughter even refused to listen to his speeches during campaign against that Republican guy —“Why should I?” she’d tell me, “He won’t win.” But he did. And life has since been a little brighter because of it.
By rocky rocky on 12/04/2008 10:59 am
Sandbee (FB) 54
It wasn’t just the young who didn’t believe he could win. My husband 78 and my mother 80 both thought it would never happen. They grew up in the time when it could not have been. Isn’t it a great country?
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 12/04/2008 11:33 am
DeBúrca obj
I think the Obama campaign and win has helped to propel a whole generation of young people ( roughly16-30 yrs old) into a love of the political system and a new interest in government. This generation will not be as docile and easily manipulated as the one immediately preceding it.
By DeBúrca obj on 12/04/2008 6:48 pm
Willow K
I had the same experience, my young niece and nephew were all about Obama over my Thanksgiving visit. I think they are too young to have realized the prejudice (or maybe not), but how cool it is that that barrier is now lifted from even possibly limiting their ideas of their own potential. That is what this election did, not eliminate prejudice or bigotry, but end the sense that one’s color is the overriding determinant of what one can achieve..
By Willow K on 12/04/2008 7:21 pm