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A Friend Stopped By | 06/24/2008 12:55 pm

What's in the wOw Woman's Beach Bag? by Ann La Farge

By Ann La Farge
Editor’s Note: Ann La Farge was Executive Editor at Kensington Books for 15 years. She left her long-time publishing job to work as a book doctor and syndicated columnist. She lives in Millbrook, NY, where she writes for The Independent Online.

Egghead or airhead, admit it: It’s fun to read novels about “ourselves,” meaning others in our age group. Ten-year-olds devour Judy Blume’s Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing and A Girl of the Limberlost; young marrieds choose Couples or The House of Mirth. But, until a recent surge of good novels about older women, those of us of a “certain age” were rarely celebrated in fine fiction. I sense that this is changing, albeit gradually, and there’s hope that, unlike Miss Havisham and Grace Poole, we will no longer be relegated to the attic.

As a 15-year book columnist for a chain of weekly newspapers, I am the happy recipient of review copies of almost everything, including many Jiffy-bag loads of books I have no interest in either reading or recommending to my readers. And even though my life – as English teacher, book editor and lavishly neglected novelist — is one long book club, I do belong to one of those, too. At our last monthly meeting, the ladies neatly eviscerated a book that I had chosen and loved, Maria Doria Russell’s just published Dreamers of the Day, then went on to bemoan the lack of good “domestic fiction” – preferably not set in Kabul – and to dither about next month’s selection. So maybe you don’t want to listen to me, either. But here goes.

I’ll start with my favorite novel of this season (actually a series of linked stories), Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout. While other reviewers have pronounced the eponymous heroine unpleasant, crabby and unlikable, I found her wise, witty and unforgettable. Olive lives in a small Maine coastal town, and all the doings of that town are told through her perspective and with her commentary. If I had to choose a mother, Olive would be mine. If I had to choose a new identity, I’d be Olive. That’s what loving a book really comes down to.

I also want to sing the praises of the novel I read most recently (yesterday), Roxana Robinson’s Cost, in which a family that “lacks the gathering gene” is forced to come together in order to try to help a young son overcome heroin addiction. The grandparents – a crusty, domineering old surgeon and his gentle, dementia-stricken wife; their daughters, one an artist, one a veterinarian, neither liking the other much; the artist’s ex-husband; and her two sons. “Was it a cardinal virtue,” the visiting sister wonders, “being close to your family? What if your family [was] made up of people with whom you had little in common, whose company you didn’t enjoy?” This wonderful novel asks, and answers the question, “Can you ever truly escape your family?”

Indeed, I believe there is a trend here, so I’ll briefly mention a few more books that my fellow wowOwow fans may enjoy. Carol Cassella’s novel Oxygen is about an anesthesiologist faced with an operation that goes terribly wrong. When she takes a leave of absence from the hospital, she vows to grow closer to her father, reconnect with her sister and rekindle an old love.

9 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

rocky rocky
I know I like to read about “us,” because I’m looking for insights — universal ones that I don’t have to get to myself. My mom’s generation deals with aging by just caving in to it or by hiding it … (Once she said to me happily, “I have fewer gray hairs than you do!” I responded, “That’s because you die your hair, mom.”) I want to live it, and books, fiction and nonfiction, help to illuminate and guide.
By rocky rocky on 06/24/2008 12:16 pm
Frannie Em
Rocky I am with you, kid. I want to live it too. Great books are like good friends, you can open the cover and it is like the front door to lives familiar yet new. I luxuriate in all the new titles I have found on Wowowow, can’t wait to get started.
By Frannie Em on 06/24/2008 2:59 pm
Blue Circle Girl
This is a terrific thread. I am all about improving and understanding myself these days. I have marked down every title and the author. GREAT THREAD!
By Blue Circle Girl on 06/24/2008 11:08 pm
Ann La Farge
What’s a thread? (in this context) THanks for commenting? ALaF
By Ann La Farge on 06/26/2008 10:06 am
Blue Circle Girl
Ann, A thread is a “story or topic” on a blog page …. each story is a different thread.
By Blue Circle Girl on 06/27/2008 3:42 pm
doll lady
A good book is like how you feel after taking a nice long bath. Refreshed, happy and looking forward to the next one.
By doll lady on 06/25/2008 10:28 am
Ma Titwonky
I just finished The Vanishing Act of Esme Lennox recently, so that gives me some idea whether you and I share a similar interest in what we read. We do! :) Now I’m going to check into the other titles you’ve mentioned and definitely will be back to pick your book-brain more!
By Ma Titwonky on 06/26/2008 6:23 pm
Shooz
What a great handle, and what a great photo!
By Shooz on 07/03/2008 7:59 pm
Shooz
… and I mean YOU, Ma!
By Shooz on 07/03/2008 8:00 pm