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Politics | 08/27/2008 10:30 am

British Prime Minister's Dementia Is Described in Daughter's Memoir

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
Margaret Thatcher
Margaret Thatcher returns home from the hospital after

spending the night there for medical checks in March 2008/ AP

The daughter of Britain’s former Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher has publicly admitted that the woman once known as one of the world’s sharpest political minds is suffering from dementia.

In Carol Thatcher’s memoir, A Swim-On Part in the Goldfish Bowl, which will be published next month, she describes the 82-year-old "Iron Lady’s" deteriorating health, failing memory and inability to remember world affairs or even the 2003 death of her husband, Denis.

The memoir was recently serialized in Britain’s Daily Mail newspaper.

Thatcher writes:

"The woman who had dominated discussions for so long could no longer lead debates or keep up with the thread of a drinks-party conversation. On bad days, she could hardly remember the beginning of a sentence by the time she got to the end."

Thatcher also describes the pain she and her family endures often for having to remind their mother that her husband is dead.

"I had to keep giving her the bad news over and over again," Thatcher writes. "Every time it finally sank in that she had lost her husband of more than 50 years, she’d look at me sadly and say ‘Oh’ as I struggled to compose myself. ‘Were we all there?’ she’d ask softly."

Rumors that Thatcher was in poor health began several years ago. Reuters reports how Thatcher rarely appears in public since being advised by doctors in 2002 that she should avoid public speaking following a series of minor strokes. Carol said she first noticed her mother’s failing memory during lunch in 2000, a decade after she left 10 Downing Street after leading Britain from 1979 to 1990.

People suffering with dementia commonly suffer from significant loss of the mental skills that affect daily life. Many factors can cause dementia, such as strokes, tumors, head injuries and Alzheimer’s disease. The disease affects the lives of millions, including their families. An estimated 6.8 million people in the United States have dementia, and at least 1.8 million of those are severe, the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke reports.

According to ABC News, readers across Britain called the memoir "exploitive," "opportunistic," and said that it underscores the shame many feel about the consequences of dementia — especially when it strikes the most intellectually powerful.

"It’s obviously a tragedy," Ronald Reagan Jr. told ABC, whose political father suffered for many years from the most common form of dementia — Alzheimer’s disease — before his death in 2004. "But the idea of going into details of [Thatcher’s] dementia are in monumentally bad taste and unnecessary."

 

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Diana T
You may not have agreed with her stance on things, but she was a helluva leader. One good example of women being very capable of being a head of state. My mother had dementia. It’s a very tragic situation for the patient and for the family. I agree with Ronald Reagan, Jr.
By Diana T on 08/27/2008 10:36 am
Mignon Grey
There is nothing shameful about dementia. After all, it is a disease/condition like any other. Alas, I do find something shameful in the Thatcher family inflicting pain by reminding Mrs. T that her husband is dead and then talking about the pain they endure in so doing. That is not compassionate in the least.
By Mignon Grey on 08/27/2008 11:36 am
Jay Valentine
I doubt that her family deliberately reminded Ms Thatcher that her husband was dead…I assume she asked after him and they could hardly say he was there, could they? I agree, there is nothing shameful about dementia but as it tends to strike as we age it should give us all pause this election year….
By Jay Valentine on 08/27/2008 11:43 am
Mignon Grey
Anyone who has ever grieved would not inflict it on anyone unable to submit to the entire process of it, the first increment of which is memory.
By Mignon Grey on 08/27/2008 12:30 pm
Michelle M
I find it terribly opportunistic of Carol Thatcher to write this memoir, it’s too much, too soon. We Brits are furious about it. It’s been a bit of an open secret in certain circles and was never reported in the British press, which if you are familiar with the British press, shows just how much respect Lady Thatcher has. For her own daughter to cash in on these revelations is just disgusting. The only bright spot is that she may never know about it due to her condition.
By Michelle M on 08/27/2008 11:52 am
Chari Bonagua
My mother is in it’s early stage of dementia. Some days are good, some are not so good. You can literally see the deterioration of the mind. We accept it, we are not ashamed by it. After all it’s just another illness like the others. The only difference is that you will wake up one morning and your mother would not remember you. Airing that in public is in poor taste, I think. Perhaps Ms. Thatcher has a reason for doing so.
By Chari Bonagua on 08/27/2008 12:19 pm
Ruth M
There is a great stigma to Alzheimer’s in the US and I applauded Sandra Day O’Connor for speaking and writing about her husband’s dementia so candidly, and I applaud Carol Thatcher too. Thank you to both of them.
By Ruth M on 08/27/2008 12:23 pm
JD Salinger
Political opinions aside, it is unfortunate when anyone suffers from cognitive decline. This just goes to show that cognitive decline can impact anyone and everyone. For this reason, we should all consider to take extra steps to help prevent cognitive decline. I personally am taking brain training games and have found them to be helpful. If you are interested in reading some reviews of the top brain training games, I have a few reviews on my site. Best, Brian Jones http://www.braintraininggames.net
By JD Salinger on 08/27/2008 1:34 pm
Jeannot Kensinger
I disagree with Regan’s comment: “”But the idea of going into details of [Thatcher’s] dementia are in monumentally bad taste and unnecessary.” Most of you know my husband is in stage 6 in the new list of Alzheimer’s decline. I have a blog for Alzheimer’s caregivers and I give mostly daily details of what is happening in our lives. I have a lot of feedback from people in my shoes. Caregivers are often questioning on how to be able to be a help to the afflicted and how to deal with their own emotions. My husband off and on asked about a departed relative, I did not think I was cruel to say the truth, most of the time he did not even know what the truth is. Usually the reaction we expect is not there. I admired Nancy Reagan on how she was quiet about her husband’s decline,. That is a different story, people want every detail from “well known personalities”. For the rest of us caregivers it often helps to hear how they handled a situation , in a good way or a bad way, we learn from others how to cope. I get emails daily , caregivers asking me on how I handled the situation, the medicine, the wandering etc..If I have experienced the same I quickly respond. Most of us at a certain point are exhausted and have depressions. Another opinion or solution just gives us a tiny light at the end of a very long and dark tunnel, Most of us caregivers are alone with no help for a rapidly growing disease. There is research being done on the reversal besides the origin, lets hope for an answer soon.
By Jeannot Kensinger on 08/29/2008 6:53 am
Claudia Marek
My mother has Alzheimer’s. I agree, it is not shameful to reveal it. It is helpful to us all to be reminded it can happen to anyone and that many families suffer as we are. Family members such as Patty Reagan and Sandra Day O’Conner helped many of us cope when they spoke up on difficult subjects. Well known victims bring awareness — and that is so important and somehow comforting. I can’t put it in words but the shock of seeing my intelligent, independent, joyful mother diminished to what she is—is somehow a shared burden when I read this story of Ms. Thatcher. Claudia Marek
By Claudia Marek on 01/23/2009 3:55 pm