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Entertainment | 02/13/2009 3:55 pm

Comments of the Week 2/7 - 2/13

By The Staff at wowOwow.com

Editor’s Note: The following comments have been edited for length.

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Comment to a Conversation on February 11
By margameri margameri on 02/11/2009 10:38 pm

In today’s column Tom Friedman quotes Shekhar Gupta, editor of The Indian Express saying (tongue in cheek, he says) "All you need to do is grant visas to 2 million Indians, Chinese, and Koreans. We will buy up all the subprime homes. We will work 18 hours a day to pay for them. We will immediately improve your savings rate - no Indian bank today has more than 2% non-performing loans because not paying your mortgage is considered shameful here. And we will start new companies to create our own jobs and jobs for more Americans."

My husband, an online Nepalese journalist, has been saying this for months. Just allow the undocumented Nepalese and others who are already here, working 7 days a week, living in the shadows and saving their money, to receive green cards and one day achieve the citizenship they dream of. They have been saving, and long to own homes. They are entrepreneurial, they work hard, husbands, wives, aunts, uncles, cousins together. They make sure their children are educated and disciplined. They exemplify "family values." I know - my social network is largely in the Nepali community, where I am called "Didi" (sister), and showered with warmth and affection.

Immigration has been a large part of the core of this nation, yet in this bailout congress is stupidly disallowing the employment of high-skilled H1Bvisa holders by the bailed-out. To quote Friedman again:" We need to attack this financial crisis with green cards, not just greenbacks, and with start-ups not just bailouts."

What we ARE doing is swooping up immigrants in raids, separating families, locking people up in detention centers then deporting them after months or years of imprisonment. Who do you think pays for all this? Well over $100/day per detainee, flights to all parts of the world accompanied by 2 officers per deportee (except for those who die while in custody from lack of proper treatment or suicide) and overnight hotels for the accompanying officers all paid for by our tax money.

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Comment to a Post on February 13
By Mommy Dearest on 02/12/2009 1:26 pm

"The good news is that today inflation is practically nonexistent. Oil prices have collapsed, and other commodities have retrenched as well. That could change, especially as the government ramps up spending and the money supply continues to expand. However, since utilization rates in the economy are low and there are millions looking for jobs, prices and wage rates will likely stay under pressure, containing inflation."

Liz, my dear, I cannot envision inflation staying under wraps as the Treasury prints money for an $800-ish billion stimulus package coupled with the multi-trillion dollar bank bailout.

Back when Mommy learned economics (and dinosaurs roamed the earth), governments that spent their way out of an economic downturn always found themselves in an inflationary environment.

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Comment to a Book Post on February 10
By Patrice Baldwin on 02/10/2009 10:13 pm

I’ve always steered clear of ‘just sex’ because it’s generally boring and I’ve had better. It’s necessary to have some kind of relationship, whether it’s an old friend or someone you’ve known for a while. During the 60s in Hollywood when everyone was doing it with everyone else, I had enough of that at Hollywood parties. I can remember the last one I went to in Malibu. I came into the party, said hello to the host, an old friend, looked around and went home.
I actually had a lovely young mentor (or I think it was really the other way ‘round) who visited me recently. I had high hopes for a weekend of fun, but it wasn’t to be. First he was wildly allergic to my dog; sneezed and snizzeled the whole time. Then it was decidedly difficult to ‘splain to my Great Dane that her spot on the bed wasn’t to be hers. In fact she didn’t take it well, and made a big fuss all night. The second night I thought, "Well, if she can’t be convinced, she should perhaps join ‘em." Turns out she was way too interested in other things going on than sleeping on her corner of the bed. It ended up in a well packed threesome with a lot of sneezing. I think I’ll have to think it over again.

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Comment to a Post on February 12
By elaine s on 02/12/2009 2:38 pm

So this is equality?

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Comment to The Question of the Day on February 13
By Count Snarkula on 02/13/2009 4:11 pm

5 more minutes with my Mother.

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Comment to a Post on February 6 (Sorry we missed this comment last week but it’s still worth recognizing)
By Susan B on 02/06/2009 3:46 pm

Diana, I believe the problem here — in this forum — is that it is a blog: anonymous and safe. And I don’t believe WoW, or any other blog, is truly representative of the voices and ideas of the country at large, it is representative of those of us who are of strong opinions and compelled to express ourselves. The so-called blogosphere a small sample, really, and we delude ourselves if we think otherwise or believe we can move mountains with our single opinions. At our best, we’re sharing experiences and tossing ideas back and forth with humor and an open mind. At our worst, we’re people who are in need of a fight or a place to vent our frustrations.

In "real life," I experience far more people interacting civilly, thoughtfully and with a generosity of spirit. We discuss most of the same topics, but we do so with restraint and care. We look each other in the eye, smile, tear-up, and touch.

On a blog, our humanity is reduced to words. There are plenty of very smart women here on WoW, but I also sense a high degree of personal disenfranchisement and social disconnection. So it’s good to be able to reach out to others like we do here — but I think we often forget how fortunate we are to be able to do so and take each other for granted.

(OK, Sully, help me land this plane.) What I’m trying to offer, is the idea that the people of this country are really not so different in the big picture. But on a blog or the mass media or in congress, commonality is not going to distinguish anyone, and so will never be adequately celebrated and leveraged for good. Diana, take hope in what you experience as you bump into each other on the sidewalk, stand next to each other in a line, or find in a smile from a stranger. We are together in so many ways, but politics is and always has been the great divider and on a blog — where we are literally on the same page — it’s a 24/7 experience that’s stoking the problem rather than bringing consensus. Our forbears would be hamstrung by this, I’m sure.

I wish we could put away the negativity, but it’ll never happen on Wow. Still, I’d like to think we could all try harder.

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Diana T
Go to his posts, Sandbee(upper right hand search) and when you read them, you will see a chronic, classic verbal abuser. I don’t need that in my life, and stopped corresponding with him when he called me a traitor to my country. I must say that this guy is a one man demolition team, and the masthead women are letting him consume the essence and original intentions of this site.
By Diana T on 02/15/2009 2:33 pm
Sandbee (FB) 54
I wonder if he realizes that if you start reading his posts all together like that they sound like a journal on idiocrasy. So much ranting and raving that puts down everyone but himself. If he is that great, why is he on here, he should have his own place - not bothering with us. Definately not the type that you should respond to at anytime but it hard to resist I know.
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 02/15/2009 5:49 pm
Diana T
I put up with lots of verbal abuse 30 years ago, Sandbee, that ended me up with a therapist. I can spot one a mile away, and don’t plan to spend my free time any more. When you read them together, you are reading a very angry person, one who I wouldn’t want to alone in a room with. I don’t know if this will get deleted or not, but, it’s the truth as I see it.
By Diana T on 02/15/2009 5:56 pm
Sandbee (FB) 54
He is the one needing deleting. I am going back to ignoring.
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 02/15/2009 6:06 pm
Frannie Em
Sandbee I like you stopped reading him except on this thread that started out with such wonderful comments and a visit by Joni. I think the control that we have is not to read him or answer him. Just scroll over him. I liken my scrolling to a big bulldozer grading the road over his posts. What are grown women doing giving him such power?
By Frannie Em on 02/15/2009 5:57 pm
Sandbee (FB) 54
This is probably the only type of place where he gets power, so he is using it to his utmost. I am certainly going back to ignoring him.
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 02/15/2009 6:08 pm
Frannie Em
How can he have power? It is a fantasy in his mind.
By Frannie Em on 02/15/2009 6:52 pm
Sandbee (FB) 54
Legend in his own mind. That’s where it can stay.
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 02/15/2009 7:10 pm
Serena .
Scroll the Trolls …
By Serena . on 02/16/2009 11:22 am
Mugsy Peabody
Sandbee, the smell should tip you off…
By Mugsy Peabody on 02/16/2009 8:59 am
Sandbee (FB) 54
Ooops, had my aroma button turned off!!
By Sandbee (FB) 54 on 02/16/2009 12:17 pm
Murphy Mac
merrell g, I found out the following from The WoW Team: “According to our rules, a poster can only use two usernames from the same computer. What posters like Alex Harvey and Frank Keys are doing are going to internet cafes, libraries, etc. and keep creating new names from different computers. Technically, we have no way of stopping them.”
By Murphy Mac on 02/17/2009 2:27 pm
Mugsy Peabody
If you were open-minded enough to actually read through this entire thread, Eleanor, you would find yourself in pretty lonely company with this Alex H. person. Is that who you really wish to be? Because much of the discussion on this thread is very intelligent and interested in preserving this website. It is only you and he who seem to continue to disrupt, regardless of the fact that others are saying very clearly that they are not interested in continuing in this vein. Do you listen AT ALL? Suzanne, as many of us do, disagrees with 90% of what you post. The difference is that she continually (and sometimes to the point of hair-pulling distraction) posts the evidence, facts, theories, substantiation of what she believes. You virtually never do. You aren’t Omnipotent at all, Eleanor. “You are all immature….” Interesting, in light of the fact that you know absolutely no one on this site personally and it is you who ‘need to realize that the world does not conform around what you want it to be.”
By Mugsy Peabody on 02/15/2009 8:13 pm
HA BIBI
GOD-BLESS you my dear eleanor! They sure like to dish it out but can’t take it…….That’s just too bad for them!!!!!!
By HA BIBI on 02/16/2009 11:48 pm
Brooklyn Gal
Like I said…. it cuts both ways….. The gentleman you used to be would never address me this way. So thank you for confirming my reasons for leaving. Please Tom make it TODAY!!! In the meantime I will sign out and turn off my replies.
By Brooklyn Gal on 02/16/2009 6:15 am