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Entertainment | 09/09/2008 3:00 pm

Cybill Shepherd Invents a New Word: Cougaring. And She Likes It!

By The Staff at wowOwow.com
First Look Studios

Editor’s note: Last week wowOwow.com caught up with Cybill Shepherd, who was promoting the upcoming collector’s edition DVD release of her Emmy- and Golden Globe-winning mid-’90s sitcom "Cybill." The former "Moonlighting" star talked about cougaring (as in the verb tense), and also the rough road she took to get back into the game.

"Cougaring" and being a "cougar" are things to be proud of, according to Cybill Shepherd, who just recently found out the term’s alternate meaning. 

"Oh, cougaring! I didn’t know what it meant! Am I out of it or what?" the Hollywood veteran told wowOwow.com. "Somebody had to explain it to me.

Click here to see photographs of the fabulous Cybill Shepherd.

"But I love the idea of being a cougar — I mean not the animal —I mean I dig the animal; I mean who cares?  I take it as a compliment!"

Since establishing her first beachhead of international celebrity in the ’60s as a beauty queen and fashion model, it’s hard to say exactly how many career comebacks the 58-year-old star has had, but this most recent one — the release of the "Cybill" DVD series — is perhaps her most triumphant.

"It’s very moving to me that this [DVD] came out. I thought it would never come out. I was sure that ‘Cybil’ had disappeared. It wasn’t good for my career, what happened, but I kept on fighting back. The ‘Cybill’ show disappeared – it was never syndicated. It was never given a good-bye. It was never given anything.

"One of the things they did is they cut out my last singing number (in the last episode). Years later I called the studio, and said I really would like to have the footage of that singing number for my archives. They said: ‘It’s buried in the salt mines of Utah.’ That’s literally what they said. I went through a very, very, very difficult time and [felt] my career had been buried and the show unappreciated. People come up to me now and they say, ‘Where did it go? What happened?’

"All these other shows that have a last episode, everybody’s celebrating. But it was a huge thing to come back from and I didn’t think I’d ever come back. I really thought my career was over. And it was ‘The L Word’ that really instigated another comeback for me. I’m suddenly working, but I feel as if to get this time, coming back was like going up the rough side of the mountain.

"There’s a great gospel song, ‘Going Up the Rough Side of the Mountain.’ The main thing is you get up there again."

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No Kill and Drill Palin
Don’t like the word…but love her!!
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/09/2008 2:56 pm
beverly linens
Hi Suzanne, I agree! Moonlighting and Cybil were high points for modern women.
By beverly linens on 09/09/2008 3:17 pm
No Kill and Drill Palin
This is funny, “As The World Turns to Crap” http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tntqt_sP87c
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/10/2008 1:42 am
Susan B
My thoughts exactly.
By Susan B on 09/10/2008 10:24 am
kermie b
How about calling it not giving up on living just because you are a woman who has reached a certain age? Not as compact as “cougar,” but the intent is clear and not as predatory.
By kermie b on 09/09/2008 3:16 pm
Lindy Bixler
I loved the show, and I also wondered why it just disappeared. Each character had such wonderfully unique personalities. It would be a delight to have a ‘where-are-they-now’ followup for closure.
By Lindy Bixler on 09/09/2008 3:32 pm
Brooklyn Gal
I was a big fan of that show. Loved every episode. Glad it’s making a comeback on DVD.
By Brooklyn Gal on 09/09/2008 3:43 pm
Lynn Marie
YOU GO GIRL
By Lynn Marie on 09/09/2008 3:51 pm
sanders c
Cybil is talking about losing her career and climbing back, but the staff at Wow see this as being about cougaring? I do not get the constant fascination with this topic.
By sanders c on 09/09/2008 4:04 pm
Chrome Toe
Ya.. where DID Cybil go? it sounds like there was drama that I never heard about. I loved that show! And Cybil - you were amazing on the L Word. When you popped up on it I thought “wow.. way to go Cybil” in terms of doing something new and creative. Wish I was an actress.. it looks so fun!
By Chrome Toe on 09/09/2008 4:54 pm
No Kill and Drill Palin
Kelly, Have you ever watched a movie being made? I have a few times. It looks like incredibly hard work….at least what I saw. Hard focused concentrated, hours sitting around and then bingo get in character, some things like comedy are very exagerated movements. And I knew movie people who in between jobs are always a wreck…will there be another…was that it. I love film and actors and everything about it…but really glad was never drawn to it. My hat is really off to the ones who do it well and in a sustained way. I do think it’s a gift in the very rare ones like Audrey Hepburn whose only previous training was dancing. I took film studies at UCLA and just loved that…being a trained observer made it much more enjoyable to watch (as if that were possible) and admired fellow students so much…many who were behind the scenes in the industry. But if one had the stamina, talent and discipline….what a glammy life! And maybe get to meet George Clooney. I guess that’s the one think that could make me go totally silent.
By No Kill and Drill Palin on 09/10/2008 3:25 pm
Chrome Toe
Suzanne - I was an extra in Benny and Joon. I went down to keep one of my friends company when she’d bee asked to provide one of her classic cars for a scene and ended up getting recruited to be an extra. SEVENTEEN hours! But it was a fascinating observation. so I stuck it out. I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be an actor and having your “real life” go on then have to turn around and do some incredible emotional scene. I love movies to. LOVE them. Love any kind of performance actually. Dance, music, comedians, plays… Did you watch Bill Maher’s stand up? Oh my god I can’t remember laughing that hard. I just tivoed it. it isnt’ that old cuz he was making jokes about the candidates and I think it was still just Hillary and Obama in the running and McCain had been decided. But Bill Maher is now (and I joke) on my “to do list” lol..
By Chrome Toe on 09/10/2008 5:33 pm
Barbara
I always enjoyed Cybil and her down to earth humor. I don’t like the term cougar and the image of a tough older woman being predatory with young men. That might not be the official definition but it’s the image it evokes for me.
By Barbara on 09/09/2008 8:41 pm
Kryssi K
Cybill and her daughter Clementine both ROCK MY PANTS OFF on The L Word!
By Kryssi K on 09/09/2008 11:51 pm
Linda Franklin
I have been out beating the drum saying that the Real Cougar woman is smart, confident and proud to be over 40. She has worked hard to earn her stripes and should never apologize for how far she has come. Yes, some cougars dating younger men but that’s their choice. But here’s the thing. They are not the ones doing the cougaring. The younger guys love everything about these fabulous females. Can you blame them?
By Linda Franklin on 09/10/2008 6:07 am