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Cynthia McFadden | 11/26/2008 11:55 am

Cynthia McFadden: The Lunch That Changed Her Life

Cynthia McFadden

Last fall, before I became involved with wowOwow — I got a phone call from Marlo Thomas. We didn’t know each other well, though I had had she and her husband to dinner at my home in Connecticut and they’d invited me to their oh-so-special Christmas party over the years.

But last year, it was a business lunch. Marlo wanted to discuss a subject dear to her heart: St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Memphis, TN.

To be honest, my knowledge of St. Jude was vague at best. I knew Marlo’s famous father, comedian Danny Thomas, had founded the hospital. (But where was it exactly?) I knew it was a place for kids with cancer, and I knew they had a massive fund-raising campaign every year. (You couldn’t miss the ads.) But that was about the extent of my knowledge.

And truth be told, I went to lunch not so much out of interest in St. Jude, but out of interest in Marlo, who had fascinated me since her days as "That Girl" and her later contributions to the women’s movement.

If a lunch can change your life, this one changed mine. Marlo wanted me to go and see the hospital, meet the people who worked there and ultimately she wanted me to tell a story about the place on "Nightline."

The more she talked, often with tears in her eyes, the more intrigued I became. St. Jude wasn’t just a hospital; it was the largest research facility for childhood cancer in the world. No child is ever turned away because his or her family can’t pay. In fact, the hospital pays for everything, including getting to Memphis and living there for as long as the treatment takes. Not just for the child, but for the child’s family. What’s more, the hospital was changing — radically changing — survival rates. When the hospital was first opened (now 46 years ago) the survival rate for the most common childhood cancer ALL (acute lymphoblastic leukemia) was only four percent. St. Jude announced recently survival rates of 94 percent.

And as for fund-raising, Marlo told me she and her team raise $600 million a year to make real her father’s promise of a living shrine to hopeless children.

She wanted me to do a story last Christmas. I wasn’t sure. How could I capture the range of what this special place did? Instead, I asked, what about letting us follow just one child over the course of the next year as he or she was treated at St. Jude? The remarkable journey of 12-year-old Daniel Biljanoski is the result.

At about the same time Marlo and I were talking he was being diagnosed with AT/RT (atypical teratoid/rhabdoid tumor) brain cancer – a usually deadly diagnosis. In fact, his doctors in upstate New York removed a goose-egg sized tumor from his brain and gave him less than a year to live.

Thanksgiving night on "Nightline" you will see what Marlo had hoped I could see for myself – the miracle of healing at a hospital of hope.

Please watch. This story is special to all of us who were privileged to work on it.

(ABC, November 27th, Thanksgiving at 11:35 pm EST, check your local listings)

Click here to learn more about the show, and click here for some very special "bonus" footage with Marlo.

Happy Thanksgiving to all.

Click here to see how you can donate to the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Click here to see how your purchase at Target can benefit the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

19 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Delete This
Thank you for this heads-up. I am not a TV watcher except by occasional accident or something happen to read and I also think that St. Jude C’s RH is an incredible. This and Barbara Walter’s interview tonight with the Obamas, are definitely programs to watch.
By Delete This on 11/26/2008 12:15 pm
Frannie Em
Cynthia Thank you for letting us know about this Nightline airing. Thank God for all of the Thomas’, they are a real gift to this country.
By Frannie Em on 11/26/2008 1:33 pm
DeBúrca obj
Did you watch the Walter’s interview? I just love these people. And I love it that Barack wants so much to be able to get information OUTSIDE his circle of advisors and not be completely surrounded in a bubble. I think one of the differences between him and the majority of other presidents is that he IS from the real world, so many of the others come from backgrounds from which they wouldn’t know the bubble once they were in it because their lives were always somewhat protected and separate from the rest of us. Today they stopped at a soup kitchen in Chicago with their daughters and a local school. He had a great jacket on… I love it that this man dresses like a person his age too, and he doesn’t walk around in dorky golf clothes when he’s going “casual”.
By DeBúrca obj on 11/26/2008 10:45 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
I’ll tell you Deb, I get tears in my eyes watching this man. Listening to him give three press conferences in a row with the assurance and skill of someone in charge is almost too much after having a president that could barely deliver a coherent sentence off the cuff.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 11/26/2008 11:06 pm
DeBúrca obj
Yes, he wants “transparency”…. is this not enough CHANGE? Do we still have to explain what is changing?? I get tears in my eyes as well!
By DeBúrca obj on 11/26/2008 11:48 pm
Dora M
God, Deburca, EXACTLY what I was thinking! I swear with all the crap I have going on sometimes I get overwhelmed and unsettled and then I hear Obama somewhere and I am calmed, to think that we finally have a highly intelligent, inclusive, genuine, and empathetic person at the helm of this country is such a relief and inspires so much confidence. I wish there was an interview every day, I love these people as well!
By Dora M on 11/27/2008 2:35 am
Diana T
DeB, I think that the Obamas are a genuinely in-love couple. I noticed the way their fingers intertwined during the Walters interview. They support each other and yet they have that easy kind of banter and they love to tease and kid each other. Don’t you think they are refreshing, and that they will be ever so much fun for the next 4 years?
By Diana T on 11/28/2008 11:44 pm
DeBúrca obj
Not only are they refreshing and behave like regular people, but, as a Chicagoan I understand the way Michelle “teases” Barack. It’s a Chicago thing, the banter, joking and the teasing that to outsiders might sound like put downs but it’s just the way we talk to each other. I never really took notice of it until I started meeting people from different states, often through my children, their friends in college, etc, who DON’T do it and are often a bit surprised by it. We (and most Chicago people especially from Southside origins) joke around, tease, and have a very dry sense of humor. It takes some getting used to for outsiders, who might take it too seriously. When I hear the Obamas’ banter, it is SO Chicago, especially Southside! She grew up here, and he, through her and his years of living and working here, has come to adopt it too.
By DeBúrca obj on 11/29/2008 10:41 am
Frannie Em
DeBurca I don’t know if you were asking me the question about the Walters/Obama interview, but no, I didn’t catch it. Bill Clinton came from the real world so to speak. He and Obama both had scholarships for college, (I did too) and started from the bottom up.
By Frannie Em on 11/29/2008 9:28 pm
Rose Hudson
Helps me focus my 2009 giving plan. Thank you.
By Rose Hudson on 11/26/2008 4:09 pm
Frannie Em
Rose It helped me do that as well. It is a wonderful cause.
By Frannie Em on 11/30/2008 10:45 pm
Lucinda Herbert
I had had she and her husband to dinner at my home in Connecticut” I think St. Jude’s does wonderful work and Cynthia does wonderful work and WoW is great too, but more detailed editing is really necessary — “I had had HER and her husband to dinner at my home in Connecticut” — would be the correct way to express it. I hate to be picky, but since Cynthia is both a lawyer and a journalist, grammar should matter.
By Lucinda Herbert on 11/26/2008 4:33 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
:)
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 11/26/2008 5:21 pm
mary lou s
thank you for saving me from being the grammar police. good for st. jude’s and everyone concerned. that is where some of people’s excess money (for those who have such) should be going: to st. jude’s and carbon monoxide detectors and utilities for those cut off from it and meals for the homeless and the growing ranks of those just barely able to carry on with most of their needs.
By mary lou s on 11/26/2008 10:36 pm
phyllis Doyle Pepe
St. Jude’s is one of the best examples in the world of what can be done with funds given to them by generous people and organizations who care. There are so many in need, so many with so little that it’s a small miracle that anything gets done. In these trying economic times funds for these organizations are not as forthcoming as we would wish them to be. But I’m thinking that if during the elections candidates can conjure up millions of dollars from small donations, perhaps on this site, since we are connected to one of the founders, Marlo Thomas, we could all donate a small amount this Christmas season. My grandchildren will have an amble amount of toys and I sure don’t need another sweater (although would love one). In the meantime, eat your beans and stay warm.
By phyllis Doyle Pepe on 11/26/2008 5:19 pm