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Reader Forum | 12/23/2008 7:40 am

The Daily Deed

Small deeds become large actions. Maybe it’s not enough to just give to your favorite charity. Introducing the wOw community forum for helping others in economic distress
By The Staff at wowOwow.com
© Getty Images

Times are tough, and they’re going to get tougher.

A year ago few people saw this coming, but from the beginning, we were determined that an important part of wowOwow would be helping others.

The time has come. We women have more optimism and energy at times like these; for some reason, we are less afraid than men.

That’s why we are starting The Daily Deed — a forum where the wOw community can share their own random acts of kindness and giving and personal activism so that others may find inspiration to do the same.

Small deeds become large actions. Maybe it’s not enough to give to your favorite charity. Maybe it’s time to look at your friends, your neighbors, your neighborhood, your city, your district, your state — and see what you could do to help. 

Is it serving at a soup kitchen, or cooking extra food for someone who might be out of a job?

Is it offering to watch children when home help is no longer an option for a working mother? 

Is it organizing a swap meet?

Is it trading books and DVDs, or is it starting a local radio show to share advice and opinions?

The world has never needed you so much. If we all think from our heads and give from our hearts, we can come up with solutions to reverse the consequences of the downward economic spiral.

Please answer these two questions, and send us your ideas. We’re mobilizing the forces of wOw for change.

1: What is most distressing to you in what’s happening today?

2: What are you doing — what could you do — to change it?

125 Reader Comments (so far…) Sign In or Register to comment

Belinda Joy
What distresses me the most right now is watching the fast moving domino effect of businesses closing because the businesses they rely on have closed, and so on and so on and so on….. Countless people who thought they had job security and steady paychecks left speechless and unemployed. Left to vie for one job opening alongside a thousand other qualified (and in some instances more qualified) desperate job candidates. Gone are the days where you could have the luxury of taking this or that part time job. Now those part time jobs are literally all that some people have to pay their mortgages and bills. That distresses me more than anything. What I will be doing as of January is offering my writing talents to people in my area for free in regard to resume preparation. I will be formatting, printing and in some instances, mailing out resumes for job hunters in need free of charge. As a Human Resources Director I have seen my share of really bad resumes. Many that lost their opportunity to be considered seriously because their resumes were abysmal. And from what I hear from my associates who also work in H.R., they are seeing the same in their offices. You can’t sell yourself for a new job if the hiring agent can’t get past your resume. So my hope is to help as many people in need as possible, hundreds if not thousands. I’m also going to assist in job interview training for those who have not had to interview for a job in decades. Times have changed and many simply don’t know what they are in store for when it comes to having an interview. Many lack computer skills and the proper communication skills required to succeed in an interview. It’s small I know, but I hope to make some difference. Also, my beautiful niece Monique owns and runs her own Girls Group Home in my area. It is a haven for disadvantaged girls between 12-17 that are in need emotionally, physically and financially. I’m on her board, but I also do what I can to mentor to these young women as well as contribute to their physical needs. Clothing, toiletry items, etc. etc. In these tough financial times when donations to non-profits are drying up, we have to remember that there are a vast amount of organizations that rely almost solely on the public for support. So my suggestion is to “Google” the non profits in your area of the country and contribute your time, 2nd hand clothing or household goods to them. One woman’s trash is another woman’s treasure!
By Belinda Joy on 12/23/2008 9:19 am
Chrome Toe
Belinda - GREAT idea on the resume help!!! that’s awesome…
By Chrome Toe on 12/23/2008 9:26 am
C jay
Good job, Belinda, and while you help them, urge people to take anything to bring in some money ASAP, and then think: “Business” not “Job.” Once they learn the tax benefits of running their own business, and learn how time-management, planning, seeking out and interviewing those they admire to be mentors (which often leads to “work” too) and what the circle of influence is about, they’ll be able to bring in extra funds, and benefit from the “cost of doing business,” too. Added to that, a lot of Chambers of Commerce have excellent group health insurance plans for paid members - worth the membership, and the contacts for networking - they will never increase business, but one learns from others in such a milieu (I’ve been a chamber board chair). In the 80s, we had a great program that mentored first-time women on AFDC - matching them up with women in leadership in the community. At year’s end, we had a grand banquet with all the major primes (corporations) in attendance, buying tables, where we were to bid adieu to our mentees, preceded by a fabulous silent auction to pay for the following year’s program. At that banquet, all of us mentors began asking, “Why are we bidding adieu to our mentees?” We had taken them to meetings, corporate functions, chamber committee meetings, volunteer affairs, and volunteer work, and to their appointments, WIC, clinics, job-training, et al … we knew each other, we knew their children, we knew them! Why stop? You are doing a great service, woman! Our young women need all the help they can get to move beyond that which they have learned in society, and non learned.
By C jay on 12/25/2008 2:36 pm
Deborah Barrow
Community Note:  We’ve posted Belinda’s resume idea forward into its own story that you can read at http://www.wowowow.com/post/daily-deed-community-member-resume-advice-161583.  More to come!
By Deborah Barrow on 12/26/2008 9:26 am
Jim Henley
This post has been deleted as it violated the Ten Commandments of Posting on our website.
By Jim Henley on 12/27/2008 2:18 am
Frannie Em
Jim Why do you bother?
By Frannie Em on 12/27/2008 7:56 pm
C jay
Jim, I realize that this is “old news” but preparing a resume is a 2-fold benefit. Most people have no idea what they’ve accomplished “on the job,” nor for an employer. It’s crucial that they have a process that will help flush out their skills and accomplishments not only in their careers but for employers, and learn how to quantify such results (“increased response time … X% in X amount of time … ,” etc). Most people are amazed when they see what they have actually accomplished, written “on paper.” That being said, you are right - one must speak up, and get out and network with friends, family, people they know in businesses they feel an affinity to work for, and keep it up. So, knowing ones strengths is crucial, especially when it comes to negotiations on a job offer (such will often give a few more coppers to the hire offer). Moreover, it is important to realize that in times like now, with high unemployment, finding a “job” is a matter of sheer numbers. People who’ve had high-paying responsible positions have little chance of finding same, because those job lines are just not “out there,” so they must churn out the resumes, and do the “foot work.” The more “out,” the greater the odds of a response - it’s sheer numbers. It isn’t them, it’s the numbers of positions open. Therefore, it is crucial that someone is teaching people how to move into consulting, or contract employment, and how to utilize the tax system and other employment options to one’s best advantage. RSVP helps with such courses, and most chamber of commerce now have minority business incubation centers that offer excellent mentoring, training, and networking so those in the incubator can sell to one another to bring in some early business, and have a place from which to operate, surrounded by a support system - ideal for women and minority-owned business owners. (I loved my work with those early incubators.) It also helps to contact corporate executives, and directors and ask for an “Informational Interview” to find out about the company, and what type of employees they are looking for. One might find alumni from an Alma mater, for example, and contact each one - most people want to help “grads” from their own universities if they can. One important function of such meetings is to ask how each person “got” into their position, and what their own career path was like - people love to share successes, and few are actually interested enough to ask. (Knowing how to get “in” or through on the phone helps, too - I do know how to help with that … ). After each meeting it may be helpful to ask those people who they would suggest be contacted in the industry, and then if one feels an affinity with anyone, ask if they will be a mentor during a job-transition time. It never huts to have mentors “out there.” That, also, is a 2-way street.
By C jay on 01/13/2009 11:13 pm
Tee Zee
Thank you!
By Tee Zee on 12/27/2008 8:59 am
Meg Madison
Belinda, I have not come to this site in quite a while, but in reading today I see that one thing has not changed. Not only have you always posted thoughtful and intelligent comments, but you are a most kind and dedicated person to have come up with the resume plan. I am sure it will be very helpful to many people. Good luck to you and those that you will surely help.
By Meg Madison on 12/31/2008 5:56 pm
Belinda Joy
Thanks M. I really hope it will help. It is already turning out to be quite the venture. I have quite a number of requests and haven’t officially posted the notice of my intent to help yet. It’s making the rounds by word of mouth. That’s a good thing because I really do want to be of some help, but it’s also bad because it is a barometer to the number of people out of work. Martha Stewart could probably make a cake blind folded, because it is what she knows best. For me its writing and resumes are my forte. I just want to make a difference for those in need. Pay it Forward…..
By Belinda Joy on 12/31/2008 6:21 pm
Ann Coulter Crazy, Souless, Evil B*tch
Belinda, Wonderful idea…you are such a treasure…a beauty in every way.
Kay Sara
Belinda, you are doing a wonderful thing and so very helpful to others when they can be frozen and overwhelmed. I have been in business for 30 years but writing and updating my resume is one of the most dreaded tasks I face. You are providing a real helpful service- helping those who need help in taking their first step which is often the hardest step. Bless you.
By Kay Sara on 01/01/2009 8:04 am
Chrome Toe
I’ve always been a person who did this kind of stuff. I’ve paid for peoples groceries in line at the store. given people bus money on the spur of the moment. awhile back i was in an urgent care and a mom was in there with three little kids. she had no health insurance and they all needed antibiotic. she had taken the day off work to bring them into urgent care. she was standing at the counter obviously at her wits end asking if they had any samples… and you could see how sick these kids were with strep throat. the doc didn’t have enough for htem all., so my husband and i bought them. of course. i mean.. who wouldn’t? while at the airport yesterday I was watching for people who had been stuck there for days who might need some help. you know… some body who had no money in their pockets that was being flown home for christmas. if you’re going to live in an airport you have to have money for food. I wouldn’t say this is my philosophy. I would say it’s just who I am. I know what it’s like to be out of money for groceries, or gas or bus fare or medicine. i’ve been stranded and alone in my life. i recognize it and if i can help… i do.
By Chrome Toe on 12/23/2008 9:23 am
Chrome Toe
an addendum - but it IS my philosophy that it’s not up to government or government funded non profits to help people. it’s up to neighbors and citizens to help their neighbors and fellow citizens.
By Chrome Toe on 12/23/2008 9:24 am
Susan B
Practice random acts of kindness, every single day of our lives, and turn away the darkness. We all can do this, each of us in the way that’s true for us. We can do it with through gestures, words or simple eye contact with another human being.
By Susan B on 12/24/2008 3:07 pm